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| Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by kadr(m): 10:04pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
I HAVE A VERY TEDIOUS JOB. I LEAVE HOME IN THE MORNING AND GET BACK HOME LIKE 10PM EVERY WORKING DAY WHEN I GET HOME I AM ALREADY WORN OUT AND COULD HARDLY DO ANYTHING ELSE. MY WIFE DOES NOT LIKE THIS AT ALL SHE COMPLAINS EVERY TIME THAT I AM NOT ROMANTIC AT ALL AND SHE ALWAYS ASK ME FOR SEX I DO NOT ALWAYS ASK. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR JUST 7 NMONTH AND NO CHILD YET. MY WIFE DOES NOT WORK AND SHE IS REALY BORED I NEED STRONG ADVICE BEFORE THIS GET OUT OF HAND. PLEASE HELP ME SAFE MY MARRIAGE 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
If u cant change ur working hours...try and make it up to her over the weekends. Spend time wit her, and give her a little of what she has been missing  I'm sure she will appreciate the effort  |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
YOU WANNA SAFE YOUR MARRIAGE OR SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE? ANYWAYS....SO YOUR WIFE WANTS SEX AND YOU DONT WANNA GIVE IT TO HER BECAUSE YOU WORK TOO MUCH? SO WHAT KINDA HELP ARE YOU WANTING? IS YOUR WIFE BEAUTIFUL? |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by k2039: 10:48pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
Get her a job. But seriously, you just have to satisfy her sexually, but if she also works that will reduce the pressure and intensity on you. By the way, if you fail to satisfy her sexually she will get satisfied outside. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
k2039: Get her a job.she might not spend hours in an office but I'm sure keeping the house clean and cooking is working too and its probably more tiring |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by MaziOmenuko: 11:36pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
I wouldn't have chipped in an advice if I didn't notice where you mentioned that sex is declining and the wife is complaining. Your marriage is gradually collapsing with the decline of sex, which is the cement that binds the bricks of a love-filled marriage. How will you feel if (God forbids) your wife starts cheating on you? Whatever you do, make sure that as you devote time to your job, devote good time for your wife. I will suggest that you make it up for her on weekends. Then on work days, go to bed on time once you're back from work. Then wake up when you are revitalized at midnight or early morning and start the sex. Don't take sex for granted in your marriage. My 2 cents. |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by kadr(m): 11:46pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
tnx to u all for ur advice |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by addictiv(m): 12:09am On Jun 29, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: she might not spend hours in an office but I'm sure keeping the house clean and cooking is working tooyou cant compare cleaning the house and cooking and tiding dishes to having an actual job...do you know why? cos you dont get paid doing house cleaning for yourself. op 1. get her a job (a very stressful one) and see pressing concerns settled but dont complain when she doesnt have time for you. a better option ll be still getting her a job and trying to spend weekends, work leave periods with her.....its really worth it. |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by obo389(m): 12:57am On Jun 29, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.:You be yeye boi o  .wetin concern you with whether his wife is beautiful or not  2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by deeobserver209(m): 1:03am On Jun 29, 2013 |
Am not married yet. But this is a big problem. Many couples are going through it. Try and look for a less demanding job. |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Nobody: 4:46am On Jun 29, 2013 |
obo389: His whole marriage doesnt concern me at all...but since hes making it public.....am free to ask whatever i wanna ask......if am a yeye boi...doesn't that make you a yeye girl? yes..I believe it does.... 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Godson201333(m): 5:10am On Jun 29, 2013 |
You better hurry up before your neighbor or someone else takes over,what do you expect her to think or how do you expect her to feel,She is always at home morning till night,Please do not come back here and start complaining that your wife is cheating on your oo..Just my one kobo |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Linoversace: 7:17am On Jun 29, 2013 |
...You get hope say she still asks for sēx,you better find time to make out with your wifey...when she stops asking for sēx,na then your eye go clear say you get time from 11-7am to service am! |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by MrsChima(f): 7:23am On Jun 29, 2013 |
kadr: I HAVE A VERY TEDIOUS JOB. I LEAVE HOME IN THE MORNING AND GET BACK HOME LIKE 10PM EVERY WORKING DAY Are you Nigerian  |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Mynd44: 8:26am On Jun 29, 2013 |
She needs a job |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Enegod(m): 8:48am On Jun 29, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.:so..you want help him satisfy his wife...kai!! op, i think you should buy her a Love Machine so that she can satisfy herself.. |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by Basilona(m): 8:59am On Jun 29, 2013 |
addictiv: What HE said. |
| Re: Please Help Me Safe My Marriage by KINGwax(m): 9:06am On Jun 29, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: If u cant change ur working hours...try and make it up to her over the weekends. Spend time wit her, and give her a little of what she has been missingmondi is back!!!  |
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