DarryOsh:

i av this feelin u r bein sarcastic wit me......tell me i'm right.lol

El Guapo: 75% of Marriage Issues for discourse must have been brought to light during the courtship periods - That is if the duo ever recognizes the need for courtship.

That breaks the gazillion talking points to bits.

At getting married, the couple would have to address pressing issues like;

1. How their respective Jobs would serve as a plus to the young marriage.

2. How many Kids to beget.

3. Choosing the kids' Professions, and how best to have them on track.

4. How best to maximise the funds for the home upkeeping, having on mind that the numbers would soon swell when the kids arrive.

5. Traversing on the path of righteousness - Both would have to belong to same faith and work towards their spiritual flaws. Etc

A counsellor would still do a perfect Job though.

Meddler:

no sarcasm here, I promise.

shirley whyte: DarryOsh, look no further I'm here forr you...

shirley whyte: DarryOsh, look no further I'm here forr you...

Ashabie: Thank you for that question,my friend bot a freezer because she think she needed it and the hubby is not ready to buy it,this leads to a serious fight whereby I was the beneficiary of the freezer,until the freezer left the house before peace was restored.and what the hubby was saying was even if your salary is times 3 of mine,its none of my business,you must learn how to make use of what I can afford,not interested in your support.

shirley whyte: @piimples, yes oOoO...he'a an intelligent hunk..he's just fronting...

shirley whyte: Why do you think so??

El Guapo: 75% of Marriage Issues for discourse must have been brought to light during the courtship periods - That is if the duo ever recognizes the need for courtship.

That breaks the gazillion talking points to bits.

At getting married, the couple would have to address pressing issues like;

1. How their respective Jobs would serve as a plus to the young marriage.

2. How many Kids to beget.

3. Choosing the kids' Professions, and how best to have them on track.

4. How best to maximise the funds for the home upkeeping, having on mind that the numbers would soon swell when the kids arrive.

5. Traversing on the path of righteousness - Both would have to belong to same faith and work towards their spiritual flaws. Etc

A counsellor would still do a perfect Job though.

DarryOsh:

cos i just feel it deep in my spirit....lol....joking, really. But seriously, u sound smart and smart people dont believe all they see on the net. For all u know, i could be 5o yrs old, i cud b a female, in fact....mayb i av bn lyin all along.

ighoosagie: wat has religion got 2 do wit marriage? as 4 me I'd prefer anytin inter,
Lik : intercultural,
Interracial,
Inter religion .
This us becos I'm very open minded

UncleDumo:

Permit me to use your comment on my facebook page. full credit will be given to you. Thanks in advance.

naijababe: I am amazed! My hubby and I didn't do any conference before we got married o, about the only thing that came up was number of kids and even that changed after the kids started to arrive.

I think if two people are fully committed and always talk to each other, there's no reason why a marriage should not!

You can discuss all you want but the reality is that life is dynamic, as long as issues get tackled together, there should not be too much wahala along the way that you won't be able to handle together.

Princek12:

Typical backward, Nigerian mentality, which is why our country is in such a retarded stage despite our resources and potential.

Who are you to choose your kids' professions? You should nurture your kids and support them in whatever profession they choose. Each kid has his or her own talent, and deciding that your child should be a doctor, despite that child having talent in, for example, electrical engineering, is not good for society.

Your child may be even blessed with a good voice and may be on her way to becoming the next Whitney Houston before a parent like you chooses a lawyer profession for that child.

SMH.

honeric01:

Meaning nothing is worth discussing before hand, not even the number of kids? like anything goes? no need for expectation?

naijababe:

I didn't say nothing is worth discussing, all i am saying you can't figure out everything. In fact 9 out of ten, the curve ball that gets thrown at you was never discussed.

Summarily, you just need to be open with each and stay committed!

naijababe: ^ Lol jide, my dad used to say common sense is not common. I guess i knew all wanted and needed to know before we hitched! It may sound old fashioned now but we dated for 4yrs before we did the do. All these sit down and hash out everything is just plain weird to me. What he says mean fuckall, what he does is what i am after.

chaircover: Infidelity is one of the major causes of marriage breakups.

How many people whilst courting ever own up and say "Yes, there is a great possibility that I am going to have a roving eye" when we get married.

Cathydera: Lord into your hands I commit my future hubby.
may nothing cover his eyes in finding his lost rib.
Also may nothing shine too bright from me seeing his coming.
compatibility and companionship I ask of thy.

Amen.

chaircover: Infidelity is one of the major causes of marriage breakups.

How many people whilst courting ever own up and say "Yes, there is a great possibility that I am going to have a roving eye" when we get married.

chaircover: Infidelity is one of the major causes of marriage breakups.

How many people whilst courting ever own up and say "Yes, there is a great possibility that I am going to have a roving eye" when we get married.