alutacontinua: *spreads mat on thread*

eagle,eye:

abeg take you Aluta go politics or anyother thread. I will pour you water ohh...hmmm...ehhn..... you people bear me witness oh, I will pour her water if she does not remove that mat.

DarryOsh: I like to think that i stil hav time on my side (early twenties) but i try to prepare. This marriage of a thing is a big deal! Sometimes it seems that one can never prepare enough. I have seen circumstances turn great marrriages into something else.

Because i believe that i am a very good man and whoever gets me is favoured, i have set high standards. A friend tells me my standards are unrelistic. Yet another friend (who is just like me in many regards) says otherwise. He believes that since i meet up with those high standard i deseve someone who also does. But its confusing......i believe in compromise but there are many things i dont want to compromise on. Lord help us all.

El Guapo: 75% of Marriage Issues for discourse must have been brought to light during the courtship periods - That is if the duo ever recognizes the need for courtship.

That breaks the gazillion talking points to bits.

At getting married, the couple would have to address pressing issues like;


3. Choosing the kids' Professions, and how best to have them on track. Etc

A counsellor would still do a perfect Job though.

ibkaye: Religion and values

honeric01: .hh

But i know someone who said a limit shouldn't be placed and that the man should act as if the woman's income doesn't exist. What's your take on this?

emiye: BLOOD GENOTYPE.

Get the test done in a standard hospital lab

AS + AS = NO MARRIAGE

eagle,eye:
^^^Ok.
Both intending partners are the last child of their respective parents (Little or no major responsibilities). Don't think the girl will get a job right away in her field of study (yet to go on service).
No, the girl is not expensive but the guy is another matter (got a car and his taste in clothing is a bit refined).
The guys job is stable (if he stays there) but doesn't pay much. Though if he combines it with income from other runs it makes up to that 80.
Actually commitment scares the guy, because it comes with real responsibility

ighoosagie: wat has religion got 2 do wit marriage? as 4 me I'd prefer anytin inter,
Lik : intercultural,
Interracial,
Inter religion .
This us becos I'm very open minded

ighoosagie: wat has religion got 2 do wit marriage? as 4 me I'd prefer anytin inter,
Lik : intercultural,
Interracial,
Inter religion .
This us becos I'm very open minded

Dolly-Parton:


I can't believe some1 is asking what religion has got to do with marriage.
I have seen marriages been torn apart because of different religious beliefs.

Like how old are u again? Come back when u re older.

ighoosagie: wat abt okotie n Stephanie, re dey not dsame religion?
Nija wud b a beta place if xtian n Muslim start gettin married 2 each oda, n d world wud b a paradise if blacks n white increases d ratio if getting married.



I love learning frm odas.

eagle,eye:

Please can you give us an example of those standards. Because I was once young and thought I would have settled years ago, but I am not even sure of doing it this year. irrespective of my earnings, I don't really lack money, so I wouldn't attribute my bachelorhood to lack of money.

DarryOsh: I like to think that i stil hav time on my side (early twenties) but i try to prepare. This marriage of a thing is a big deal! Sometimes it seems that one can never prepare enough. I have seen circumstances turn great marrriages into something else.

Because i believe that i am a very good man and whoever gets me is favoured, i have set high standards. A friend tells me my standards are unrelistic. Yet another friend (who is just like me in many regards) says otherwise. He believes that since i meet up with those high standard i deserve someone who also does. But its confusing......i believe in compromise but there are many things i dont want to compromise on. Lord help us all.

Fhemmmy:

No one says to inter marry with religion, but MUST still be discussed

ighoosagie: check my 1st post, I quoted someone who included religion as one of d prerequisite of marriage.
As 4 wat must b discussed, its infinite

ighoosagie: wat abt okotie n Stephanie, re dey not dsame religion?
Nija wud b a beta place if xtianz n Muslizm start gettin married 2 each oda, n d world wud b a paradise if blackz n whitez increases d ratio if getting married.



I love learning frm odas.

eagle,eye:

Please can you give us an example of those standards. Because I was once young and thought I would have settled years ago, but I am not even sure of doing it this year. irrespective of my earnings, I don't really lack money, so I wouldn't attribute my bachelorhood to lack of money.

Dolly-Parton:

You think that's the solution to world's problem. You are a genius.
Religious beliefs plays a big role in determing most people's personality and values.
So what do u do if those values and beliefs clash.
And when the kids come what religion are they brought up with.

ighoosagie: u see , it wud b impossible for half cast children 2 b racist , same formula goes 2 religion.


I'm speaking frm experience, my dad atheist my mum Christian, we d children chooses wat we best fit in2, lik 2 of my brothers re atheist while myself n d oda re xtian .

By making dis real , we wud b raising a peace keepin generation n generations.