what exactly do you do to or with someone who makes it very hard for you to love him? u do everything in your power to make it work, to get it right, u give everything u have and even what u don't just to please even if it breaks u but u get constantly runned down and feel unappreciated. love can be hard, but does it have to be this hard? just thinking out loud.

it shdnt be hard at all

sounds very one sided to me,
no one shd be in that kind of relationship, especially if u feel unappreciated, very unhealthy

perhaps making it so hard to love them is thier way of pushing u away, . . . . . .

u cant make someone love u, and love shd be reciprocated or it isnt worth the trouble

I am sure someone is at the corner there dying hard, provoked, broken hearted and seriously making you have a second thought on him and a chance of you having a better life with him as well!
But you wasting your life on a PLAYER!

DESTINY I GUESS

When you have given it your all and it still aint working? Then let it go!

4gotnheros:

I am sure someone is at the corner there dying hard, provoked, broken hearted and seriously making you have a second thought on him and a chance of you having a better life with him as well!
But you wasting your life on a PLAYER!

DESTINY I GUESS

i didnt say this was about me, i said i was thinkin out loud, but anyway i get ur idea on the crazy love cycle thingy. u love someone who u cant have while theres someone else who also dying to be with you. atimes i think love can really be overrated but that doesnt necessarily make him a player, it mite be a defence mechanism.

arianne:

what exactly do you do to or with someone who makes it very hard for you to love him? u do everything in your power to make it work, to get it right, u give everything u have and even what u don't just to please even if it breaks u but u get constantly runned down and feel unappreciated. love can be hard, but does it have to be this hard? just thinking out loud.

Hmnn. . . love is not by force now . Seems you've been to the wrong places. . . or rather been with the wrong companies

You can't do no right because you're the wrong woman. No you cannot win him over, there are no fairy tales happening here anytime soon.

when someone does not return your love, the most foolish thing we do is work hard to win his/her love.

you end up making your self a slave, and reducing your worth

i dont think any woman, no matter how pretty, no matter how well mannered, no matter how rich is worth the stress if she does not return my love.
cos my love is more expensive than what ever she thinks she is worth.

Love should be a bilateral affair, if ur not appreciated neither is ur love reciprocated abeg of u take to ur feet and run for ur dear life. u dnt have anything doing with such a person. The meaning is he does not want u in his life. The truth is WE are all lOVE BEINGS, our psycological and emotional make up is such that u tend to love someone, u desire to be loved and u crave to love someone.
SO if that guy does not return ur love and all u do to make u feel loved, nthen i beg u burst the whole thing because he definitely LOVES someone else.

To love nor bi by force ooooooo

ELIJAHLOVE:

Love should be a bilateral affair, if your not appreciated neither is your love reciprocated abeg of u take to your feet and run for your dear life. u dnt have anything doing with such a person. The meaning is he does not want u in his life. The truth is WE are all lOVE BEINGS, our psycological and emotional make up is such that u tend to love someone, u desire to be loved and u crave to love someone.
SO if that guy does not return your love and all u do to make u feel loved, nthen i beg u burst the whole thing because he definitely LOVES someone else.

very true, but a what point do u give up he still doesnt let you go?

@POSTER
MY FRIEND
IF U POSTED DID THREAD because U ARE AFFECTED DIRECTLY BY THIS PHENOMENON REACH ME TO BE SOOTHED

PRYNXLEX:

@POSTER
MY FRIEND
IF You POSTED DID THREAD because You ARE AFFECTED DIRECTLY BY THIS PHENOMENON REACH ME TO BE SOOTHED

even if i was, theres nothing u can do bout it

even if i was, theres nothing u can do bout it

Funny but only too true

Thot of telling u LEAVE!!!! but then does this person know how you feel and how you've been feeling

Lay your heart out and get ready to pick up your self and LEAVE(still boils down to that)

U don't know what you have til you loose it If you meant anything to him he'll come running

@persona82- neva thot i'd say this, but thanks , i felt some honesty in your response.

frank316:
when someone does not return your love, the most foolish thing we do is work hard to win his/her love.

you end up making your self a slave, and reducing your worth

i dont think any woman, no matter how pretty, no matter how well mannered, no matter how rich is worth the stress if she does not return my love.
cos my love is more expensive than what ever she thinks she is worth.

TOUCHE

...if love is not reciprocated throw your attitude in the air and kindly work away.