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Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Skinni10ne: 10:14pm On Aug 12, 2013
Omo_Alata: Liking annal sex doesn't make one gay or even gay curious. Plenty straight people like annal sex. Even if a guy likes his woman to bang him in the a$$ with a dil.do doesn't make him gay. Annal sex doesn't equal homosexuality. knowledge is power, abeg.
Wait! if a man likes analll done to him, hes not gay?
What makes a guy gay?
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by OmoAlata1(f): 10:24pm On Aug 12, 2013
Skinni10ne:
Wait! if a man likes analll done to him, hes not gay?
What makes a guy gay?

I said if a guy likes his WOMAN to bang him in the a$$ with a dil.do, he is not gay. what makes one gay is an emotional attraction for the same gender
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by segzicres(m): 11:26pm On Aug 12, 2013
Holy shit! Anal? OP ur gay! angry
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Skinni10ne: 12:43am On Aug 13, 2013
Omo_Alata:

I said if a guy likes his WOMAN to bang him in the a$$ with a dil.do, he is not gay. what makes one gay is an emotional attraction for the same gender
Ok
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 6:07am On Aug 13, 2013
sholypopz: I disagree with a lot of people saying respect her decision and drop the issue. You are going to look for other ways to satisfy your sexxual desire if she denies you anall sexx. I doubt your woman would want that.

Her refusal to have anall sexx is due to fear. Anall sexx can be pleasurable to the woman, (very pleasurable grin) if the man in question knows what the hell he's doing which a lot of men do not. There are a lot of nerves in your a*nus that if stimulated properly can make a woman 0rgasm.
It's going to be harder the first time cos she'll be nervous. This would tighten the anus and make it painful, so it's your duty to calm her down and engage in foreplayy. (lots of foreplayy. I'm assuming you already know how to get your gf arousedd)
Before you stick your "stuff" into her, I will say prepare her mind a lil my sticking in your finger(s) first. Let her dictate the pace, let her know it's her call and that she can ask you to stop anytime she feels like it.
The a*nus doesn't provide it's own lubrication like the vag1na, so you would need plenty lubricant (water based lubricant, do not use vaseline abeg).

By the way, she needs to get her a*nus cleaned except you have a poop fetish grin (I'm joking)
Get her an enema that will be used to clean her butt hole too. This goes a long way in reducing initial pain, a looooongggg way, lol grin (I'm not joking)

She can Google 'how to use an enema' or see a doctor for help. (Anyone she's more comfortable with)
Oh! Do tell her to arch her back and push in a little like she's having a bowel movement.

Oh well, I really do hope you can convince her.


Shola u american right? grin it's hard to picture a babe who grew up in naija saying all these grin grin grin
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 6:09am On Aug 13, 2013
Kslib: Respect!! Respect!! Respect!!
You need to respect her decision since she doesnt fancy backdoor entry.. I cant just picture someone doing that to someone he intends to marry.. Anyways,people are different..
Person dey give you front door to take enter house,but na back door dey hungry you..

Well said grin grin grin

This is what too much por.n can cause.....brings all the 'adventurous' desires
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 10:46am On Aug 13, 2013
Donxavier:

Shola u american right? grin it's hard to picture a babe who grew up in naija saying all these grin grin grin
.....maybe that wouldn't be the case if majority of Nigerian girls weren't taught to be ashamed of their sexuality.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 11:37am On Aug 13, 2013
sholypopz:
.....maybe that wouldn't be the case if majority of Nigerian girls weren't taught to be ashamed of their sexuality.

I agree a little but that's not all. A.nal sexx is a se.xual preference that's unnatural and by that I mean it wasn't made for such purposes, as in the anus isn't meant for sexx. But each to his/her own I realise the matter is a contentious one.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Dovahkiin(m): 11:43am On Aug 13, 2013
try chloroform bro
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Eiregirl(f): 12:22pm On Aug 13, 2013
Donxavier:

I agree a little but that's not all. A.nal sexx is a se.xual preference that's unnatural and by that I mean it wasn't made for such purposes, as in the anus isn't meant for sexx. But each to his/her own I realise the matter is a contentious one.

Was the mouth meant for sex?

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Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Daresh(f): 12:46pm On Aug 13, 2013
OP you need to stop watching porn. For the life of me i dont understand why one would want to ram into someones shit hole! like seriously? why not take a bottle and ram it up your own back door and see how it feels? You selfish punk angry
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Eiregirl(f): 12:55pm On Aug 13, 2013
Daresh: OP you need to stop watching porn. For the life of me i dont understand why one would want to ram into someones shit hole! like seriously? why not take a bottle and ram it up your own back door and see how it feels? You selfish punk angry

grin grin grin
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 2:21pm On Aug 13, 2013
Eiregirl:

Was the mouth meant for sex?

it would depend on how you define oral sexx. if it's just sucking and kissing then I can tell you it was made for it. the mouth was made for many things lol. if it's gagging where the ladies are rammed like animals and dehumanised I can certainly tell you the mouth isn't meant for such. but each to his own I have realised when it comes to sex.ual orientation one man's meat is another's poison but some things are just base.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by dBard: 12:40am On Aug 14, 2013
sholypopz: I disagree with a lot of people saying respect her decision and drop the issue. You are going to look for other ways to satisfy your sexxual desire if she denies you anall sexx. I doubt your woman would want that.

Her refusal to have anall sexx is due to fear. Anall sexx can be pleasurable to the woman, (very pleasurable grin) if the man in question knows what the hell he's doing which a lot of men do not. There are a lot of nerves in your a*nus that if stimulated properly can make a woman 0rgasm.
It's going to be harder the first time cos she'll be nervous. This would tighten the anus and make it painful, so it's your duty to calm her down and engage in foreplayy. (lots of foreplayy. I'm assuming you already know how to get your gf arousedd)
Before you stick your "stuff" into her, I will say prepare her mind a lil my sticking in your finger(s) first. Let her dictate the pace, let her know it's her call and that she can ask you to stop anytime she feels like it.
The a*nus doesn't provide it's own lubrication like the vag1na, so you would need plenty lubricant (water based lubricant, do not use vaseline abeg).

By the way, she needs to get her a*nus cleaned except you have a poop fetish grin (I'm joking)
Get her an enema that will be used to clean her butt hole too. This goes a long way in reducing initial pain, a looooongggg way, lol grin (I'm not joking)

She can Google 'how to use an enema' or see a doctor for help. (Anyone she's more comfortable with)
Oh! Do tell her to arch her back and push in a little like she's having a bowel movement.

Oh well, I really do hope you can convince her.


hmmmmm...experience does speak loudest.
Question..have u ever cum from anal??
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by UyiIredia(m): 9:51am On Aug 14, 2013
Daresh: OP you need to stop watching porn. For the life of me i dont understand why one would want to ram into someones shit hole! like seriously? why not take a bottle and ram it up your own back door and see how it feels? You selfish punk angry

You should know some people do that and find it cool.

@ OP: Don't force it. It's as someone said people have their freak limits. I think I would be game for anything so long it's ma woman but extreme BD$M and dildoing my a$$ makes no sense to me.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 10:19am On Aug 14, 2013
dBard:

hmmmmm...experience does speak loudest.
Question..have u ever cum from anal??
Too personal but I can tell you that if the woman can stimulate her clitor1s while having anall sexx, she is gong to have an 0rgasm grin
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by dBard: 1:21pm On Aug 14, 2013
sholypopz:
Too personal but I can tell you that if the woman can stimulate her clitor1s while having anall sexx, she is gong to have an 0rgasm grin

Guess my question has been ans'd grin.
More grease to ur .. wink wink grin
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Dubemkelly(m): 2:05pm On Aug 14, 2013
eze moses: Hi house. I really do not know which section to post this but it also includes matters of the heart as well so maybe this might be the correct section. Apologies if its the wrong one.

Now here is the story

I have this wonderful woman in my life and i love her so much. M planning on spending the rest of my life with her but she is just to uptight sometimes or maybe i am too demanding i do not know. I want us to try anal sex and she refuses and i am really craving for it. M i being selfish? will it harm her? if i force how would she see me? if i break up with her because of this how will she see me? i am confused. I love her and i thought it would be better to try things with her instead of paying a prostitute. Please be honest house. Do ladies allow this or must i go to a prostitute? how do other men handle such situations? This is serous please house i am not looking for unnecessary insults
Interesting tho buh if u r so craving 4 it,y not do d 1st thing 1st nd hv ur food flask? It really amazes wen niggurs wanna hold it down wout doing d right thing,if u r old enuf 2 lay a gurl,u shud go do it d right way, y doing d anal shyt? Come out n str8 n show d gurl u really mean biz dan dullin urself n I think she's dat kinda gurl hu is reserved n hard to be played wiv...
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by funkyjms: 2:28pm On Aug 14, 2013
~ZN~:
Damn, what a case. grin grin

I gotta say one thing though, respect her decision and NEVER try to force her.

Sometimes I wonder, after an.al, what next? the ear?

Yea grin
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by scribble: 5:00pm On Aug 14, 2013
sholypopz:
Too personal but I can tell you that if the woman can stimulate her clitor1s while having anall sexx, she is gong to have an 0rgasm grin

But most naija girls get their clits chopped off na
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 14, 2013
Back door? Nigga you gay or what? Ok try cucumbering you anuus and let us know what it feels like. #selfishness
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Adaeze003(f): 5:27pm On Aug 14, 2013
All I can think of is how bad constipation feels then one niqqer would wanna insert his junk there... May thunder massage your ballz.lmao

But seriously, why do people want that? I just don't get it.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Monicasque(f): 7:17am On Aug 16, 2013
Eze so u love her hah but you are willing to risk her getting anal cancer. Wow u r really inlove undecided
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by keenn: 3:42pm On Sep 01, 2013
Despite how glamorous kissing could be, its regarded disgusting by orders and likewise anal sex. A lady i once grinded realy requested for M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ to come anal, despite how i so much wanted, even avn fantasisd about it,i tactically turned it down. Reason bin that her anal aint that clean. i aint sayn this dirty status goes for all ladies, av actually met ladies that look damn clean in all ramification. If ur girl denounces the act over and over again,then my brother respect urself. There are other viginal entry positions and fore-play that are inexhaustible. The woman body is just so glamorous for forplay,proper understanding of women's anatomy should make u understand that other pleassures could be obtained other than going anal. But would love to someday, under a perfect condition and not coarsion
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Godson201333(m): 4:25pm On Sep 01, 2013
If you truly love her,Then you need to accept NO ANNAL thingy...I do not wanna say much.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by addicted268(f): 6:03pm On Sep 01, 2013
D-Explorer:
Let me help answer your question marks

M i being selfish? Yes!

will it harm her? Yes! She cries while you enjoy.

if i force how would she see me? Räpist.

if i break up with her because of this how will she see me? Just Stupid.

Do ladies allow this or must i go to a prostitute? Not all ladies and going to the brothel answer the first question.

how do other men handle such situations? Other men enjoys 'frontdoor' WTF is your craving for backdoor? Dude, drill your wall and stay at the back.

Wow,so on point.best answer and very direct.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 8:20am On Sep 02, 2013
Quelme: Your condition is not permanent

I can't stop laughing......lol.

If you lose a great girl because of a anal drama then you will find a girl that will take you to heaven in bed and treat you like trash outside of bed. You have to look at the bigger picture because when the odds start coming out in the other girl, you will forget she knows how to maneuver in bed and all u will start seeing is her errors. Remember, mama will never ask you if she's good in bed, she will ask you about her attitude and behaviour. I have to say your wish is disguisting and perverted, sorry if it sounds too harsh.
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by UKEngineer(m): 1:32pm On Sep 02, 2013
When the red painters come to my girl at end of month . . .she practically begging me to smash her back doors in grin

I being perfect gentleman always comply and give her what she wants grin

Nothing wrong with it in the big picture . . jus some girls not up for it
Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by jaybee3(m): 1:39pm On Sep 02, 2013
Few questions due;
What’s behind based sex?
Is this behind based sex the only position that satisfies your fantasy?
How would you feel if her fantasy is that you lick her butt hole immediately after she does a poo?
Bottom line is, relationship is a two way thing and both parties are meant to find a common ground for the relationship to succeed.

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Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by Nobody: 5:33pm On Sep 02, 2013
jay bee: Few questions due;
What’s behind based sex?
Is this behind based sex the only position that satisfies your fantasy?
How would you feel if her fantasy is that you lick her butt hole immediately after she does a poo?
Bottom line is, relationship is a two way thing and both parties are meant to find a common ground for the relationship to succeed.

preach ooooooo Jaybee. These men are real pervsssss
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Re: She Does Not Want To Explore Sexually. What Do I Do by jesusdiedLOL(m): 2:07pm On Oct 19, 2017
ITbomb:
C'mon guy, the very thought of ramming the girl u want to marry in the asz is disgusting.
how??...I will never understand Africans

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