Sweetlemon: Op God bless you! Guys like you are so rare!
You see the broke a.sses giving the excuse that they want the girl to love them the way they are. Please how many of you can sincerly love a girl that does not have a womb?
Nonsense!
Guys of nowadays are so damn lazy!

ACM10:

Why not castrate them because they are poor? Your post reeks of arrogance. Someone who had a humble beginning will not make this comment. For God's sake, those people are not poor by their own design. Failure of the government to perform its most basic functions condemned those people into the life of poverty and misery. The fact that they are poor do not mean that you should deny them their freedom to make choice. I don't share your view brother. I have no right to pokenose into the affairs of two consensual adults.

Orikinla: If you don't like this post, that is your headache and heartache.

What I hate most is to see boys who cannot even feed themselves looking for relationships with girls.
They are in fact, the most sexually active in Africa.
You see jobless guys who should focus on being creative and innovative like their mates in America, Europe and Asia, but their best pursuits are looking for girls to date and they cannot offer these impressionable and vulnerable young women nothing more than S*E*X. And that is why the National Agency for the Control of AIDS, NACA, reported that 3.4 million Nigerians were living with HIV/AIDS, the second largest globally.

Later you see them and their ill bred kids and suffering and smiling baby mamas increasing the population of the poor masses in the slums where they breed anti-social characters, robbers and other criminals who become socioeconomic liabilities and threats to the society.

You want a girl to be your honey, but you don't have money.
You better go and get busy first to add value to your life and stop being a romantic nuisance.

Only a re-tarded girl will date any empty suit.

ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE IS NOTHING BUT A NUISANCE.
~ BLANCHE MC MANETT

InvertedHammer: /
Blame the little guy down there.

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slap1: Money for womb? WOW! Did you get your womb from hardwork? Duh!

For your info, the OP is married and it's very safe to advise from his side of the dating table. Better work hard for yourself! If you are waiting for a rich suitor, you may clock 50 years!

Yoshi-Master:
And they say "Love is Blind".

Apparently, Love has regained its sight.

tpacalipse: A rich man today may lose his wealth tomorrow. So what happens to his relationship then? The lady leaves him? Based on what I have read today, the lady leaves. If u can only have relationship when u have money, then if the money finishes in a relationship, then u lose the relationship. My advice to all is never listen to anyone. Find ur own way, and if u make mistake, u learn. Shikena.

Empress OVA: As much as this can be true & real;yet it takes a great deal of patience(dependng on d type of r/ship u are in). Wouldn't we live n tk gud cares of ourselves,if these guys dnt com our ways? If Romance is 'nuisance' wtout finance;it can also be 'destructive' wt it.

Sweetlemon:

That's not what I meant.
The bottomline of my point is that guys of nowadays are not as hardworking as guys in those days.
Fine, you don't have a job, but why can't you start a business? Just start something no matter how small. I'm a firm believer that whatever you sow is what you will reap. Work hard and gradually, you will begin to reap the fruits of your labour.
The bitter truth about life is that love is not enough to make a relationship last. There are so many other little ingredients that are directly or indirectly connected to money. In fact studies proves that most broken homes are either caused by sexual or financial issues.
My mum usually tells me that love makes the wedding enjoyable, but there are so many other things involved in making marriage enjoyable.

Advice to ladies: you can marry a broke guy, but make sure he has a clear cut plan for his future and make sure that future looks bright enough and not too far away form the present.
(You don't want to wait till you are 50 yrs old before you can be able to take the kids abroad on holidays do you?)

playcharles: God will continue to punish our past rulers for mismanagement and corruption, if u agree, click liked button

ixora3: Romance witot finance leads to cheating

amanda2013: after going tru all the comments, i cn only say that most of us dnt rili knw the meaning of love. Ogugua thank u veri much 4 that wondaful comment.

ogugua88: True, but at the same time, I don't think a girl should chase only men with fat pockets or be discouraged by someone who isn't stable or wealthy. Today's circumstance(s) can be different tomorrow. I'd have no problem dating someone who wasn't financially stable, as long as stability is his goal and he's working towards it. Sometimes what he needs is motivation, and that motivation can be a woman.

If the guy is broke and a loafer, then pas possible.

Inosenduatall: Everyone in this thread has spoken well. Ogugua you are a woman of virtue. But how many women are willing to support a man on his way to the top?

My simple suggestion to guys out there:

Rein in your d'iick and start thinking of how you can better your life and the lives of those around you. Those chicks you be chasing with the money your folks or relations gave you will leave you when a real man comes alone. A man of substance and value. Don't kid yourself. There is no romance without finance and no one wants to suffer.

ACM10:

Why not castrate them because they are poor? Your post reeks of arrogance. Someone who had a humble beginning will not make this comment. For God's sake, those people are not poor by their own design. Failure of the government to perform its most basic functions condemned those people into the life of poverty and misery. The fact that they are poor do not mean that you should deny them their freedom to make choice. I don't share your view brother. I have no right to pokenose into the affairs of two consensual adults.