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Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by joeace2020(m): 2:54pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
[more on the COZA pastor saga] shes an active blogger and dis is from her blog esewalter on August 23, 2013 at 8:31 am , [b] First off, good morning fellow Nigerians, Christians and who ever else is dissing or supporting on this blog. I want to state first and foremost that I never used the term “sexual abuse” in this post. I have never been sexually abused my entire life. However, I have been on about researching abuse generally because I started to realize the reason I had been how I was was because I didn’t have confidence in myself as a human being and I struggled with self esteem for as long as I can remember. Abuse is not only sexual and what I refer to here is not sexual abuse but psychological (mental and emotional), manipulation and control. These are forms of abuse and this is what I was referring to. When I joined COZA, I didn’t know my left from my right. I was finding my way and naturally I was drawn to the word and the fact that I thought this was the one church that would help me grow. As for my then pastor Biodun, I really did see him as a god. I knew nothing about God for myself and I wasn’t reading the bible. I felt he was the one that would help me understand and grow. At the time, I had been attending church for less than three years. I will not deny the fact that I lived my life as I pleased all the while I was in University and even afterwards but like every human being knows, there comes a time when you decide to get it together. Secondly, I am not hurting or broken anymore. The times I mentioned those in the blog, I was talking about what was happening to me at the time. By God’s grace I crawled out of the self-destructive hole I had entered. This experience drove me to dig deeper and understand grace for myself. Not only that, it made me understand how wrong it is to fear ‘men of God’ and even treat them as God. And I dare say, if I didn’t have this experience, I wouldn’t understand what it means to have a relationship with God. I have asked God for forgiveness, I hold no grudge against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo or anyone displaying ignorance here or elsewhere. I did what I knew to do as it regards meeting church elders. Not just pastor Flo but others and it seemed no one could talk to Pastor Biodun. As for those saying people will loose their faith, I think that would turn out for their good eventually because when you loose your faith because of man,you would then be able to seek God for yourself and find truth. After all, the bible states that He wishes that ALL men come to the knowledge of truth. Yes we were both guilty,I have not excused myself from the role I played. I was guilty as sin, however, I have come to know better. If you know anything about low self esteem, you would understand why it went on for as long as it did. Looking back, I think I expected him to know better than me but I know better now. That being said, the whole affair ended because I put my foot down. He made all sorts of propositions to me when I returned to Nigeria but I was looking to heal and move forward. My aim with this blog is to show other ladies who suffered same fate at his hands both in Illorin and Abuja (some of whom have emailed me but are still trapped in guilt and shame to speak up) that there is nothing to be ashamed of. The clout he has over people can cause them to do thoughtless things but in the end, it’s all out there and I am at peace with myself and with God. For those calling me a liar, please ask Pastors Biodun Fatoyinbo and Flo if I have lied. I rest my case!!![/b] |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by homesteady(m): 2:54pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
coogar: Amen! And I hope some wolves in sheep clothing called pastors will stop sleeping with their church members |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by virtuousMe(f): 2:54pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Ese if this pastor was ugly I bet you would have slapped him in the face when you noticed his moves. You were carried away by his looks. There are some sisters that has turned him down before 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by coogar: 2:55pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
homesteady: you are the most foolish human being i have been unfortunate to have a dialogue with on this thread. so the man deserves to be exposed because he's a celebrity? it's so obvious you didn't graduate from a tertiary institution - your logic is so warped!
let him sort his own inadequacies the way he can.
shut up your mouth - you are a product of a polyandrous marriage. your cognitive reasoning needs spiritual deliverance. how can you even open your mouth to argue like you have never been to school?
says the product of a same-sex marriage. the recipient of your y-chromosomes should have used it as mouth wash. you are a disgrace to your parents. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
[b]walahi.. all dem ladies now claiming pastors are harassing/molesting/using them and if we care to investigate now, it would be the other way round! About six claims have been on this thread now. We all know pastors are born of men and are flesh and blood like you and me and you don't expect them to be perfect! As a woman, you should know that the devil will like to use you as a tool to bring down men of God and the thing is, you should not let the devil use you bring down a man of God! for chrissakes, can some of you explain why you dress almost unclad to church services?? For we men, seeing is believing and we believe what we see and for women, they believe what they hear, they believe what we tell them. It's a norm that when a woman believes in you (when a woman trust a man) she becomes vulnerable. There are cases whereby married women actually send some of their pastors romantic messages inviting them to come and sleep with them! in fact some ladies would queue up at a pastor office just because they seek counseling and the counselling they really seek is having the Pastor in their beds. Yea some of you ladies go to church to seduce men and it is very improper and wrong. In fact some of you ladies actually fantasize about seeing your pastors naked, having sex with him blah blah blah. Ohh you think we don't know? yea, some pastors are not fit to be called men of God and we know that but the Judgement belongs to God not to Man! if after committing a sin, the man Goes back to ask God for forgiveness, God will forgive. So all this claim that pastors are womanizers is actually uncalled for because you semi-naked disco dancing ladies put them in that position and you should be ready to share part of the blame and you stop going around judging/talking trash about your pastors[/b] abeg make i go find how to make my own kudi jare.. nuff said on pastor matter jare. Hin get hin life, i get my life so why the aproko?? abegi. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by sweetcheecks(f): 2:57pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
coogar: Well not sure about your bible but mine says confess your sins Well, call her what you like I am sure she knows and is prepared for this but it does not take back what is out there. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by donmat: 2:59pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
God sees the heart and intents of all people. let's hear the pastor's side of the story. If this confession is true as claimed, I pray the Almighty forgive and heal Ese's wounds. Meanwhile, the pastor should not be afraid to say the truth as all men are bound to err. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by DSB(m): 2:59pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Now it is time for all church pastor bashers to start running their mouth. See, even if this story is true, which i doubt, it does not change the fact that God has used, is still using and can continue to use Pastor Biodun to bless those who care to listen to his message far and wide. Afterall, Moses pastored Caleb and Joshua but never made it to the promised land. I love listening to Pastor B (online) and will be highly disappointed if this is confirmed to be true. I can only hope that some investigative journalists will eventually get to the bottom of this and unmask Ese. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Dee60: 3:00pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Jesus Christ, same yesterday,, today and forever. Men may and will fail and fall, but Christ remains the same. All readers, please do not take the account of one man and one church worker (we may not even be able to authenticate the story) to judge the message. There are thousands of pastors out there doing God's work in God's way, many of them unknown. There are thousands of churches out there where the pastor is not worshipped like God. Really, let every man look for a true church. O God, make me a true worshipper and a true witness of Christ.. That was my prayer this morning. Please join me. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by joeace2020(m): 3:01pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
[ese walter] http://esewalter./2013/08/22/my-affair-with-pastor-biodun-fatoyinbo-of-coza/ https://m.facebook.com/ese.walter1?v=timeline&refid=17 ask urself if any1 will put his or herself out in d open lyk dis considering that virtually all Nigerian Christians and Nigerians as a whole are bigoted hypocrites and pastor worshipers 1 Like
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Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by coogar: 3:02pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
sweetcheecks: except that sins can be confessed in private. this is a church minister and the same holy book said you should not touch the anointed. pastor flo has already mediated the crisis between the pastor & ese, why still go ahead to shout from the rooftop?
she's not prepared for this - she must have thought she's dealing with idiotic people like her. the ones who quickly think the complainant is innocent and the alleged is guilty. this is why she's having to add more to the story by writing other articles to support her story. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Nobody: 3:04pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
otipoju, u are not just a counsellor but a friend indeed! Ur frnds shud be proud to have u cuz u believe in d truth,forgiveness and moving on,leaving the past behind! Op all I can say is, it is well,our salvation will never come from man not even His Holiness,the pope but God. We are all human and fall into sin and temptation. U have confessed and that I believe have lifted u,4gv and 4get. Move on my dear. Godbless u! otipoju: Ese Walters… I admire your courage you are indeed a brave woman. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by spicyv1(f): 3:06pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
This Sister Ese can lie oh! you don post another "fabu" abi? sheybi she said she came to the church because she was bored with her previous church? And she was an active member in this new church for a whole year before joining the workforce? So all this time you still didn't know your left from your right? Inspite of all your WORDLY experience with men of the WORLD? Lol! You have forgiven him yet you want him to apologise to you. Babe, bone this blogging thing jor,Wale Adenuga productions dey wait for you. This could be the next block buster award winning super story!!! 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Nobody: 3:06pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
If i were Ese , I would have recorded every single step and conversation they had in that room.Forensics and investigations run in my vein,hence I would have documented this embarrassing scenario wella. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by try69: 3:07pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
I have been reading from 40% pastor worshippers 20% chauvinistic minded fellows 10% peace makers and 30% truth seekers FOR THE LADIES; The moment you start seeing your pastor as human, you could just be able to resist HOLY temptations. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by coogar: 3:09pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
ROSYL: If i were Ese , I would have recorded every single step and conversation they had in that room.Forensics and investigations run in my vein,hence I would have documented this embarrassing scenario wella. what's the essence of recording consensual sex? are you a pervërt? 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by spicyv1(f): 3:10pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
joeace2020: [ese walter] Yes! Someone who is psychologically imbalanced would do this! You obviously have not had personal experience with mentally unstable people! You go CHOCK at what they can do! They can confuse their fantasies for reality and persuade people to believe in the reality of their fantasy!!! |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by homesteady(m): 3:11pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
coogar:Not only because he's a celebrity, he's a pastor and role model to people! It is even written in the Bible - Expose sinners! This doesn't justify the question I asked you!! Is a man of GOD supposed to be having such controversies trailing him up and down?? I told you!! You keep proving that you were brought up in a brothel! I'm sure this was the exact words your mother told Angela(her fellow prostitute), when her and angela were fighting over who to sleep with one smelling drunkard! 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by coogar: 3:11pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
spicy v: you are very correct - ese needs therapy, she needs a good shrink...... homesteady: only a deluded mollusc like yourself expects pastors to be blemish-free. every human being on the planet sins. they are as vulnerable as you & i. i dunno where it's written that sinners should be exposed but i am sure the bible warns leprous vagabonds like yourself not to touch HIS anointed.
that's between him & his God. why are you interested in his affairs? your attitude on this thread shows you are jealous of ese. you wish it was you in that bed with the pastor, bloody homoerotic nuisance....
says the faggöt belched out of the cünt of a village witch. you are so gay, if you fart in a test tube, i am certain half of it would get used by a spërm bank. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by sweetcheecks(f): 3:12pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
coogar: I hear you but in this case it seems like this guy has been doing this for a long time. Do you sincerely think if all true and this guy has been doing this to many she should have still kept quite? I feel Pastor Flo did not really responsibly deal with this. He should have had a meeting with the two of them and make peace instead of being careless and ask what she expected. Pastor had a chance to save this situation but chose to make the woman feel more cheap. Becouse she says she felt like the guy expected her to ask for money.
So your plan is to break her? Well goodluck! |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Nobody: 3:12pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Pennywise: Interesting and credible story. Ese Walters did not claim to be a saint. Infact she is far from it as someone who smokes (God knows what) and drinks usually is. And I dont believe she had some kind of momentary spiritual awakening that made her decide on a U-turn when she came back from London. Personally I don't demonize her I just want Her to shut up Anyone that makes herself jollof rice should not pm plain of being chopped like jollof |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Pennywise: Interesting and credible story. Ese Walters did not claim to be a saint. Infact she is far from it as someone who smokes (God knows what) and drinks usually is. And I dont believe she had some kind of momentary spiritual awakening that made her decide on a U-turn when she came back from London. Personally I don't demonize her I just want Her to shut up Anyone that makes herself jollof rice should not disturb us of being chopped like jollof Datz all |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by otokx(m): 3:13pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Something is not adding up here |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by Fadelex(m): 3:16pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
see d girl o.... she's a wannabe celeb lookin for cheap popularity
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Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by ladygogo: 3:18pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Na wa o. I'm surprised and not surpised at the same time. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by GeneralShepherd(m): 3:20pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
kingthreat: To people criticising the pastor. Oga please Shat up!!! To whom much is given much is expected!!!! A pastor that can betray His position as a shepherd is the same as a government official embezzling public funds!!! Anyway politicians and pastors...they all start with 'P' na dem be our problem for naija. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by citizenisb: 3:22pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
The US' strawman for an attack is simple: assume a false flag operation was conducted in Syria, then demand full compliance with the West's demands that it be given full investigation privileges to confirm it wasn't a false flag operation, and scream bloody murder if those privileges are not granted. A story as old as the last Iraq war in fact. But that doesn't mean it will stop any time soon. The Syrian government denied allegations it gassed its own people, backed by new statements from regime allies Iran and Russia accusing Syrian President Bashar al-Assad's international foes of conspiring against him. U.S. officials said they have seen "strong indications" that chemical weapons were used but that more work was needed to evaluate and collect evidence. The regime gave no indication, however, that it would agree to Mr. Ban's plea to let U.N. inspectors investigate the chemical-weapons allegations, as Syrian forces pressed on with an offensive in the towns around the capital where the attacks were alleged to have occurred. U.S. officials who described the military options being revised at the Pentagon stressed that their purpose wouldn't be to topple the regime, but to punish Mr. Assad if there is conclusive evidence that the government was behind poison-gas attacks on Wednesday. And there you have it: over the next week, we fully expect to wake up to news that a US and Israeli-led fly-by has crippled several key Syrian military installations in "punishment" for a chemical attack that with virtual certainty was conducted not by the regime which knows it every action is observed by spy satellites, but by the Qatari mercenaries whose only job is precisely to topple the Assad regime so the much-delayed LNG pipeline can finally pass underneath Syria. Because if it wasn't for that, why on earth would Saudi Arabia grovel before Putin demanding just that? |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by everyevery: 3:22pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Is only baba God dat can do perfect justice 2 diz subject in questn n since none of us is ready 2 see him face 2 face now lez just keep d wheels rolling |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by dainvincible(m): 3:23pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
Hebunn: Each time I see stories like this, one thing comes to my mind... The devil wants to discourage people from going to church. I don't worship pastors, and I'm nt a church fanatic... But no matter the scandals, God will forever remain God, and He's forever faithful. So the earlier people know this, the better for us all. Anytime I walk by a news stand and I see all those soft sell magazines that claim to expose church scandals, I quickly take my eyes off them. I'm not denying the fact that these scandals truly occur, but I don't wanna be discouraged. I've experienced God, and I BELIEVE in Him, so I won't be deterred by such negative stuffs. Opinions are mine, pls... My guy God bless u. U jst spoke my mind... I'm not a fan of all these Pastor celebrity and fanatics we ve in churches these days. Some pple forgot tht Jesus Christ is d head of d church and not d pastors and Revs. But all these scandals about Pastors, I think these re devices which d devil is using to discourage pple from going to church to know God. Jesus said " those that will worship Him, must worship Him in spirit and in truth" ur pastors re not inclusive. Wise Christians should use wisdom in handling these kind of issues so that they don't bring judgement on themselves or better still move on with ur own salvation race. After all Salvation is a personal salvation. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by OAM4J: 3:23pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
All of you telling this lady she has done well are misleading her. The question is; is this the best way to handle this? What is her aim of putting the whole affair in the public domain? I read what she wrote: "My aim with this blog is to show other ladies who suffered same fate at his hands both in Illorin and Abuja (some of whom have emailed me but are still trapped in guilt and shame to speak up) that there is nothing to be ashamed of." Seriously? You mean it is writing a blog about the affair that will strengthen their faith or help them to get over their guilt? And what did she mean there is nothing to be ashamed of? There is everything to be ashamed of by every one involved including the Pastor. Or is she now shameless? I am not supporting the Pastor, I agree the matter should not just be swept under the carpet, but for God sake, public domain is not where to get healing. Confession, Repentance and Restitution are in order, but no where it is said the Bible that confession should be made to the public. And If I might ask, has she sought the Pastor's wife forgiveness? Because contrary to what many may think, she and the pastor both sinned against God and against the pastor's wife and it is the forgiveness of these two that matters, not what the public have to say. While I dont want to judge, I smell more of smear campaign all over her write-up than whatever excuse she wrote up there. I might be wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by coogar: 3:26pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
sweetcheecks: two adults in the church committed a cardinal sin - one of them is the leader in the church. common sense dictates an elder should mediate the crisis. the two should be asked to confess their sins to this elder in the church and the matter should close after that. i really don't see the point in the publicity - she claims she is warning others, that's just a cheap excuse!!!
what's my business with ese? i am far away in old blightly where ladies carry themselves with decorum and dignity in the church. they don't gullibly sit on their pastor's lap and kiss him thinking it's a normal act. |
Re: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA In Sex Scandal by devour129: 3:28pm On Aug 23, 2013 |
coogar:that made me laugh so hard I went into a trance |
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