guyla: This story very credible, I didn't have the time to read through every comment but I noticed that some of us did not believe the op, and I wondered why, I belong to the read and waka class but I was deeply touched by the post. Here is a lady who was led into sin by her suposedly angel.

tpia@:
please, we women should stop embarassing ourselves with all these stories of toto, pardon my french.







ordinary N2000 is what supposedly shut your mouth?

this story does not make sense!

and the writer is even claiming to be in america- isnt that like $15?

or did she mean to type $2000?

if indeed the pastor is sleeping with yall, e be like say una cheap though?

texaco1:
The bottom line is promises were not kept,agreements were broken and Ese felt used and dumped. The only way to get her own pound of flesh back is go public and spoil this randy pastor name ,but unknown to her many people already know about this pastor character,so her game isn't going to have much effect on the pastor church but it will most likely on his family.
This Ese story stinks of revenge ,vengeance and bitterness and not that of a lady seeking forgiveness from God

mrs oh:

@tpia.. U cannot see d dressing of church members from their FB page,go to d church tmrw and see for urslf.Iti is more of a live show.
As for ur comment about d other good looking girls you saw on d page... A girl does not have to b d most good looking for a man to sleep with her,esp one who already has a wife at home. Ìf not why do some men end up in bed with their ugly,dirty, smelly housegals when they have a queen for a wife? Its all abt d vageygey n d 2mInutes dy'l spend dre that's all. Men r dogs plain n simple!

mrs oh:

@tpia.. U cannot see d dressing of church members from their FB page,go to d church tmrw and see for urslf.Iti is more of a live show.
As for ur comment about d other good looking girls you saw on d page... A girl does not have to b d most good looking for a man to sleep with her,esp one who already has a wife at home. Ìf not why do some men end up in bed with their ugly,dirty, smelly housegals when they have a queen for a wife? Its all abt d vageygey n d 2mInutes dy'l spend dre that's all. Men r dogs plain n simple!

mrs oh:

@tpia.. U cannot see d dressing of church members from their FB page,go to d church tmrw and see for urslf.Iti is more of a live show.
As for ur comment about d other good looking girls you saw on d page... A girl does not have to b d most good looking for a man to sleep with her,esp one who already has a wife at home. Ìf not why do some men end up in bed with their ugly,dirty, smelly housegals when they have a queen for a wife? Its all abt d vageygey n d 2mInutes dy'l spend dre that's all. Men r dogs plain n simple!

datsall:

I am a man and a pastor...fighting lust is difficult when u are a pastor because u may be delluded to be ok as long as u preach and people are moved to tears. I hav done that before though never caught may be i was always away thing outside d CHURCH. That was more dangerous. Thank God i am out of it

mrs oh:

Men r dogs plain n simple!

devour129: Dirty pastor ,dirty girl ! The wife is always the last to know.how can someone forgive this kind of betrayal ? I woke this morning ,remembered this story n cried bitterly .it was as if its happening to me.av decided that the pastors wife will be in my prayers everyday ,Umu nwanyi na ata afufu

babyosisi:

You did what I expect every decent well brought up girl to do
A man approached you in that manner and you stood your ground
As a 17 yr old,in the university I went to visit my aunt and ended up on the wrong street,knocked on an open door with the curtains down to get direction and a voice asked me to come in,and as I looked on the wall I saw many almanacs and pictures telling me they were Assemblies of God member and I was happy I met a fellow Christian to help me get to my destination,
The man came out from an inner room and explained the street I was looking for was university road extension not university road, he asked if i was born again,i said yes ,i thanked him and was about to walk out when suddenly he held me pushed him self against me and wanted to kiss me,I pushed him out with all my might and made for the door and he started apologizing profusely ,telling me he was overcome .
That was the first time I ever heard that phrase .
I left immediately.
If I had sat down on his lap to drink coke and Hennessy and jejely roll in his sheets for 7 days and 7 nights na who I go blame?

egbesegbe: I actually took time to go through all the comments and concluded SOME Nigerians are Hypocrites. A young lady came out to condemn a hypocritical act of man who did something wrong and stand on the Altal of God to condemn the same act he is happily doing, people are now blaming the lady just because the man is reverened as a Man of God. Take for instance, if our president Jonathan goes to CNN to codemn the president of Turkey for allowing two day outage of light in his country, many people supporting this Man of God will abuse the president even to his mum in bayelsa state. Nobody will remember he has blood and water running through his vein that he is human and permitted to lie. Nobody will remember that. People will go on facebook cursing his generation just because he lied. Now here comes a spiritual leader that our political leader go and knee down before joyfully commit adultry for whole 7 days and stand on the pulpit to preach against it and the person he did with felt terribly hurt because of the impunity of the so called man of God. This same lady came out to condem the man's hypocritical act, people like coogar is coming out to defend such man of God. What a pity for a country called Nigeria. Mind you, what hurt the lady is seeing this man stand on the holy altar of God to condemn the same act he is practising every day. There are some lads in the church that wil feel so bad for sleeping with their babe after the man's preaching yet the man has adamant attitude towards repentance. We should call a spade a Spade and stop covering eveil deeds of some pastors if so much love them

Hebunn: Each time I see stories like this, one thing comes to my mind... The devil wants to discourage people from going to church. I don't worship pastors, and I'm nt a church fanatic... But no matter the scandals, God will forever remain God, and He's forever faithful. So the earlier people know this, the better for us all. Anytime I walk by a news stand and I see all those soft sell magazines that claim to expose church scandals, I quickly take my eyes off them. I'm not denying the fact that these scandals truly occur, but I don't wanna be discouraged. I've experienced God, and I BELIEVE in Him, so I won't be deterred by such negative stuffs. Opinions are mine, pls... God helps us all.

coogar:

you lack cognitive reasoning....
this is the kind of post that makes me think some nigerians have no common sense. you keep screaming about spiritual leader - is the lady not a church worker? is she not governed by the same rules as her pastor? they are both adults and they are responsible for their actions.

i have nothing to say to the pastor - he wasn't the one that came out to shout from the rooftop after the adultery. it's the lady that is blowing hot and cold. she consented to sex and she's still the one screaming about what she did. which is which? was she forced to have sëx? why can't she just move on with her life after the matter has been mediated by another pastor?

this jezebel of a bïtch is trying to claim she was abused - read her story very well and see how she constructed the sentences. i found myself sitting on his lap, i found myself kissing him, i found myself taking alcohol.... this is an attempt to dodge her responsibility in the matter. why can't she use her own common sense to discern what's right from what's wrong?

pak:
Coogar, you'r a wise man . . . . .

This is most likely a case of classic case of "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned"

coogar:
I can't see myself engaging in an argument with you. What hurt the lady is unrepentant attitude of your man of God after the incident. How he still stand on the holy altar of God and condem Adultry whereas he is a great actor in Adultry. Be that as it may, nobody is saying the lady's act is justifiable but the pastor shouldn't be on the Alter preaching against Adultry. I must state it clearly here that we are bound to fall at anytime be you a man of god Or a woman of saint but we must own up to our calling by taking reponsibility of our actions. Wheather they have enter a hotel 1 million times is not the issue. The issue is why living a hypocritical life? If you see your leaders either spiritual or political leaving such life won't you speak out?
you lack cognitive reasoning....
this is the kind of post that makes me think some nigerians have no common sense. you keep screaming about spiritual leader - is the lady not a church worker? is she not governed by the same rules as her pastor? they are both adults and they are responsible for their actions.

i have nothing to say to the pastor - he wasn't the one that came out to shout from the rooftop after the adultery. it's the lady that is blowing hot and cold. she consented to sex and she's still the one screaming about what she did. which is which? was she forced to have sëx? why can't she just move on with her life after the matter has been mediated by another pastor?

this jezebel of a bïtch is trying to claim she was abused - read her story very well and see how she constructed the sentences. i found myself sitting on his lap, i found myself kissing him, i found myself taking alcohol.... this is an attempt to dodge her responsibility in the matter. why can't she use her own common sense to discern what's right from what's wrong?

texaco1: Despite the fact that Ese is on a revenge mission,I must also condemn this so called pastor abiodun fatoyinbo,haba even if na curse persin fit reject am now,why only you.I just hope he hasn't infected his wife with hiv.because the way and manner ladies are coming out to level fornication accusation against him I doubt it even if he uses protection.men like this pastor won't learn until they are taught a bitter lesson.and who knows maybe this kind of trait runs in his family blood

seangy4konji: Water plenty for your eyes oooo

Rdduite:




As much as i totally condemn this pst guy i honestly dnt support this ur post! Only a few if any can actually withstand a hot chick who's sent out 2 get @ u! Maybe she has been preying on him or mayb dem gals likes his joystick bt as a pst he should've tried hard nt 2 give in. Final word: TAKE HEED LESS U FALL!

egbesegbe: coogar:
I can't see myself engaging in an argument with you. What hurt the lady is unrepentant attitude of your man of God after the incident. How he still stand on the holy altar of God and condem Adultry whereas he is a great actor in Adultry.

Be that as it may, nobody is saying the lady's act is justifiable but the pastor shouldn't be on the Alter preaching against Adultry. I must state it clearly here that we are bound to fall at anytime be you a man of god Or a woman of saint but we must own up to our calling by taking reponsibility of our actions.

Wheather they have enter a hotel 1 million times is not the issue. The issue is why living a hypocritical life? If you see your leaders either spiritual or political leaving such life won't you speak out?

tpia@:
Someone still needs to explain how the lady is a "victim" and a "survivor".

What did she survive?


And assuming her story is true, why is the pastor the only one she's fixating on, when according to people, she is very free and fair with her favours when it comes to men?

The pastor is high profile and the others are not, or wetin?

mrs oh:

@tpia.. U cannot see d dressing of church members from their FB page,go to d church tmrw and see for urslf.Iti is more of a live show.
As for ur comment about d other good looking girls you saw on d page... A girl does not have to b d most good looking for a man to sleep with her,esp one who already has a wife at home. Ìf not why do some men end up in bed with their ugly,dirty, smelly housegals when they have a queen for a wife? Its all abt d vageygey n d 2mInutes dy'l spend dre that's all. Men r dogs plain n simple!

coogar:

the lady is a consummate rëtard for being hurt a pastor is doing his job. the pastor committed a cardinal sin. he asked for forgiveness and repented - what else does she want? for the pastor to stop his ministry because he committed adultery? if every pastor stopped their ministry because of their sins, there would be no churches left - the holy book said "for all have sinned and have come short of God's glory"

[/b Then why do we go to church? Why can't [b][/b]we stay at home just be commiting sin and be repenting.

so because the pastor sinned means he cannot condemn adultery? what kind of people are you guys? so he should encourage adultery in the church because he sinned? this theory of yours is baffling.

[b] w[b][/b]hy will he condemn an act that he is joyfully doing? If our president today condemn any country of two days power outage, will you start praising him for doing so?

i won't speak out - it's between my spiritual leader & his creator. his discipline or lack of discipline does not affect my salvation. you have not yet finished your own race yet you are concentrating on the race of another - it's the beginning of joblessness.
[b][/b]what is joblessness? Are leader no more accountable to his followers
both parties should confess & ask for forgiveness in their closets. you were not invited when they were rolling in the sheets, why do you then feel the need to poke-nose after the deed was done? what's your business with the private life of your pastor?

yuzedo: 90% of pastors out there are living lives that even full-time sinners can only dream about. The gospel is the greatest cover to perpetrate any and every atrocity your ingeniously-depraved mind can conjure!

jajad:

Disgusting! Amazingly, not a word for his anointed pastor.

egbesegbe: Coogar
Why will he condemn an act that he is joyfully doing? If our president today condemn any country of two days power outage, will you start praising him for doing so?

coogar:

stop comparing preaching the word to meaningless things like power outage......the pastor's calling is to preach the word. he's human - every human being can sin. if you really think pastors are supernatural beings that cannot sin then you know nothing about christiandom! who does not sin?

egbesegbe:
Hypocracy is Hypocracy either in christiandom or in our daily lives. If it is encouraged in spiritual and christiandom why not in our daily lives. If a man can't control himself and his family how can he control the house of God. When he commits a sin he should step down and take enough time to reexamine himself and. Pray for restoration not just continue preaching as if nothing happened