idnoble135: does your topic correspond with your write up?

Dear Nairalanders, am a young Man of 32, just got a job recently

Ferdinandu: At 32, you be old man na.You no be teenager again.And by the way Life expectancy in Nigeria is about 51yrs and your 32 and still dey call yourself young man,time to die don dey reach na

Ferdinandu: At 32, you be old man na.You no be teenager again.And by the way Life expectancy in Nigeria is about 51yrs and your 32 and still dey call yourself young man,time to die don dey reach na

Ferdinandu: At 32, you be old man na.You no be teenager again.And by the way Life expectancy in Nigeria is about 51yrs and your 32 and still dey call yourself young man,time to die don dey reach na

maxwello.yg:
Love is the most important factor to consider.
Which girl do you love most?

2legit2qwt:

This is funny

@op
I understand you want a woman who'll support you and all that, but as a man you also wanna be the major provider for your family, i know i wanna be. All i'm saying is that, it's important to want and have a financially independent woman but that shouldn't be a deal breaker for the man (I hope not). Except she's the lazy type in which case, there are more important things to be worried about. All i'm saying is, your decision shouldn't be based on money/financial state especially if you love this other woman.

Marry for love, not for financial convenience

Tholudee: hold pictures of both of them ... Then close ur eyes and pick one

andromida: Don't be in a rush.

tellwisdom: You don dey earn peanut now, you think you are man enough to marry.

Mynd_44:
Telmumu again

Paretomaster: Who d hell open the gate for this imbe*cile, better watch ur tongue, did i force u to comment? u and ur type are the reason many people dont bring there issue here for deliberation.

Mynd_44:
Telmumu again

You are a folish boy

tellwisdom:

You are a folish boy

andromida: I am curious sha, what will make a man ask others to make a lifetime heavy decision like who to marry for him. I sincerely don't think you are emotionally ready for marriage. It is my opinion that when an emotionally mature man wants to marry he claims the woman he has been dating or rejects her. The people here don't know any of the gals, you just wrote quarter of a page about both gals and you expect online people to help you come to a concrete decision.

My broda be wise.How do the gals feel to you. Do you feel good when you are with her and even when you are not with her? Can you fully invest your time,emotions,money and efforts in her? Does she make you want to be a better man,does she fit your vision for your life? Only you know what it feels like.Get to know your own self properly that way you'll know the woman for you without consulting anyone.Pastors or imam or Nlders or family members.

andromida: I am curious sha, what will make a man ask others to make a lifetime heavy decision like who to marry for him. I sincerely don't think you are emotionally ready for marriage. It is my opinion that when an emotionally mature man wants to marry he claims the woman he has been dating or rejects her. The people here don't know any of the gals, you just wrote quarter of a page about both gals and you expect online people to help you come to a concrete decision.

My broda be wise.How do the gals feel to you. Do you feel good when you are with her and even when you are not with her? Can you fully invest your time,emotions,money and efforts in her? Does she make you want to be a better man,does she fit your vision for your life? Only you know what it feels like.Get to know your own self properly that way you'll know the woman for you without consulting anyone.Pastors or imam or Nlders or family members.

Paretomaster: Dear, am not asking ppl to make decision for me, am only seeking advice that will give me more insight on what to do, most time the little advice we take from others meant alot, and its because i dont want to waste any girl's time, that's why.