@princessmel.......I just hope u are not one of those troublesome virgins that leads a man to run away from a r/ship cos I remember I once left a virgin because her "headaches" were too much

And pls, if u ever shuld have/hav had sex with a guy, neva use it to hold him down, don't start remindin him everyday wen u guys are passin through normal r/ship conflicts that "it is not his fault bt urs since u gave him ur virginity, etc..." Women are fond of sayin that to d guy that disvirgined them, infact, most times they stress and frustate d guy everyday which is a major reason why many good guys uptil 2day will always refuse to disvirgin a gal. But for a bad guy, the pleasure is all his, after "entering d place", he will stay and "shine d place" well for a while b4 movin ahead wether d gal insults him or not.

Pls all of u ladies shud give d man u luv ur virginity and enjoy givin it to him, don't see it as a favour u are doing him, instead, see it as consumation of ur luv together.

There are ladies that after disvirgining them, they start pestering u with marriage (an issue that was neva discussed b4 o) and any little thing u do, like mayb if u guys quarrel, if u couldn't call her early d next mornin, if u make a call to another beautiful gal, etc., she starts remindin u that it is her fault since she was d one who allowd u to hav her virginity, bla bla bla...pls ladies, stop dis behaviours of urs, loosing ur virginity to a man does not warrant u to remind him that it was ur fault 4 givin him daily neither does it warrant u to start pestering him abt marriage dailly xpecially if u guys didn't discuss it b4!!!

Princessmel: So most guys want to marry a virgin, but can someone explain to me how this is possible when all guys in a relationship want sexx?! And the first stage before marriage is being in a relationship which will ultimately lead to sexx?!

Na you know oh!

Princessmel:

My point exactly! How can one get married a Virgin if they don't have a boyfriend to begin with, are they supposed to marry dust? And the boyfriends they now have keep demanding sex?

Na you still know ooo!

jmoore: @op, not all men are after premarital sex.
I won't find it hard to get a virgin to marry

Hope you've found a virgin cos if not, I suggest you get out of here and get one fast! Cos d way boys are bursting anything now, ehnn, na only God know oh!

NOIBMUUL:

At what age were u disvirgined? 6? By Sen yerima? WTF!!!

Haha no I was 10
Best experience ever

Princessmel:

Ok thanks for that but I honestly don't believe there is any virgin out there above the age of 12, boy or girl. Impossible!

OMG!...i bet there are enough here on nairaland.

byns: did u jst get nyanshed

The same thing that came to my mind.....
She just got yanshed..........

Sha me na sex before marriage............

There are still many virgins out there....most girls just use sex as a means to make a guy stay which neva works....if a guy cnt respect ur view about keeping ur viginity show him d exit door.

Princessmel:

Ok thanks for that but I honestly don't believe there is any virgin out there above the age of 12, boy or girl. Impossible!

Just tell me you are kidding.

I lost mine in primary 2 bt I keep telling gals dat am a virgin even after 5mins am done wit sum1 cos I luk lyk a pure virgin. #TEAMVIRGIN#

wisdom-w:
I lost mine in primary 2 bt I keep telling gals dat am a virgin even after 5mins am done wit sum1 cos I luk lyk a pure virgin. #TEAMVIRGIN#

Haha #teamvirgin
Woot woot !

starlite1:

Just tell me you are kidding.

I clearly am not, show me just one virgin that fits the category abeg?

If you're a virgin above 21 say yeah yeah!

Virgins holla abeg, prove me wrong na mschew

All these ones wey women dey talk na grammer. Una wan make we no demand sex wen all of una don decide to dey sample d tinz for outside. I once had dis virgin gf at 27, becos I vowed nvr to break a girls virginity to avoid incuring God's wrath upon myself for been d one dat gave her license to knacking life. But due to her excess luv for me, she decided to have it broken by anoda guy only to come back telling to check and see dat she's done it just to have me b4 I run off to anoda woman. Now tell me what u make of dis one? Abeg if u wan be virgin even after u don dey nack teytey, u fit. Just quit from nacking and follow christ, nothing is impossible for him abi? Yeye fowls

I don't see why someone's status should even matter in 2013. At the end of the day, one doesn't have a bigger bank account or better paying job over the other. Being a virgin or not doesn't grant one the finest man or woman as a life partner, nor does it guarantee a perfect or near-perfect marriage, fine children, or long life.

Status is as important as people make it out to be. If being a virgin is your selling point, I sorry for you. If you're not a virgin and you're frustrated because of your choices, I sorry for you too.

What matters most, to me anyway, is how someone carries himself or herself. Respectful, honest/trustworthy, hardworking... one can attain such characteristics regardless of whether or not he/she is a virgin.

Princessmel: So most guys want to marry a virgin, but can someone explain to me how this is possible when all guys in a relationship want sexx?! And the first stage before marriage is being in a relationship which will ultimately lead to sexx?!

Yeah good point ...

starlite1:

Just tell me you are kidding.

No mind am, maybe dem go put am for head say dem be virgins.mtcheew

NOIBMUUL:

Na you know oh!

NOIBMUUL:

Na you still know ooo!

Bad guy! This comment got me laughing.

fuckluv: The fact is virgin or no virgin, make sure u make the right decision. Never sell urself too cheap for any damn body! U can always learn from ur mistakes.

Ok from today onwards I'm a virgin. Lets begin the experiment, I will update you to prove my point on men

Princessmel:

Ok from today onwards I'm a virgin. Lets begin the experiment, I will update you to prove my point on men

You have finally found your virginity? Congrats!

Princessmel:

My point exactly! How can one get married a Virgin if they don't have a boyfriend to begin with, are they supposed to marry dust? And the boyfriends they now have keep demanding sex?

girls just like making excuse for loosing their virginity. it gone, its gone. leave up to that reality, fairly used cars also sell well in the market. also, some guys wey don disvirgin girl before are not looking to marry a virgin, at least disvirgining one girl in one life time is not too bad

Princessmel:

It's not always the girls choice because if she doesn't then the guy will get it elsewhere because men are pigs

You don't have the right to dish out this kind of abuse

Bibol: Op, there are still virgins around. Being one doesn't automatically guarantee a perfect home. It's just for the dignity that comes with it and you will be saving yourself lots of stress

excellent

Princessmel:

I clearly am not, show me just one virgin that fits the category abeg?

If you're a virgin above 21 say yeah yeah!

Virgins holla abeg, prove me wrong na mschew

Aunty, you have just displayed ignorance with this statement of yours. I'm really tempted to ask how old you are but I won't. So you think anyone will come to this forum and tell you he or she is a virgin. Wake up sis!
Like I said earlier, being a virgin isn't a proof that you are holier than a non-virgin. To each his own. Like it or not, there are virgins, their reasons for abstaining may not even be genuine. I think what you should focus on is how to maintain your value before everyone, either male or female. Do not be tempted to do things because you just want to please your partner when you know deep in your heart that you won't be happy after all. Whatever you do, engage both your brain and heart. Its important my dear.

Princessmel:

It's not always the girls choice because if she doesn't then the guy will get it elsewhere because men are pigs

....and most women are ever ready to give because they (women) are dogs.

Gudintent: @op
The ball is in your court. You play it however you see fit. If the boy ask you for s,ex and you don't want then say No and vice versa.

We can't all be Virgins, and all men cant be Virgins either that will be an ideal world. Among all the non-virgins there are Virgins. They managed to keep themselves.

You can learn something from that.

Contrary to popular belief not all men nag women for sex, you tend to find if a man don't ask for sex, some women do make the initiation. Lets be honest how many threads is out there on ' my boyfriend wont have s,ex with me, is he gay? ......

.......her fellow girl will comment "if he doesn`t want sex from you,that mean he hates you"

after they will still heap the blames on guys.

Don't worry Princessmel, I'm confident there are still lots of virgins around.