Zeebah23:
That's very true.
About those giving a specific period,while some are just being careful so they won't be labelled 'cheap',some are trying to see what they can syphoon from within that period. If it's worth it,they let you in ; if not,no sex.
As for the others,i reserve my comments.

I don't care what reason they do it for. It feels artificial, is uninspiring and it is boring.

I would quickly lose the fire in my belly when I have to sign a contract to get a relationship. That is why I like younger girls who are still in their carefree stage.

There is nothing like an electric spark of attraction between both sides, where things happen in spontaneity.

Sagamite:

Sweetie, I admire your attempt at being optimistic about Naija girls but I think some of us have said it before, especially about them being poor conversationalist.

www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/5#11913579

Take them on a date and have the most boring moment of your life, while she sits their thinking she is entitled to you worshiping her because she is L'Oreal. *Because I'm worth it*

https://www.nairaland.com/1012348/parents-how-teach-daughters-self-esteem/3#11748448

As for being good in bed? Not really:

https://www.nairaland.com/1012348/parents-how-teach-daughters-self-esteem/3#11748112

I am still dilly-dallying with my intention of opening a thread on the life-cycle of dating a Naija girl. Maybe that would reveal more about what we guys experience to you.

https://www.nairaland.com/1012348/parents-how-teach-daughters-self-esteem/3#11748637

Rude = the way Naija girls (and black girls in general) love to disparage men that approach them:

https://www.nairaland.com/1107818/7-reasons-women-lose-respect/1#13039308

Alright, I give up.

thareta:
Alright, I give up.

That is not a transparent response.

Give up why?

When his sense of humour is so so so so low

Sagamite:

I don't care what reason they do it for. It feels artificial, is uninspiring and it is boring.

I would quickly lose the fire in my belly when I have to sign a contract to get a relationship. That is why I like younger girls who are still in their carefree stage.

There is nothing like an electric spark of attraction between both sides, where things happen in spontaneity.

@ Bolded, right on point. No drama!

Sagamite:

Understand the difference between boning and dating.

as far as they would go thru wat a normal guy in a relationship would just to nyash d girl den dey dated her, saying dey did it just for d nyashing is self deceit because dey had to overlook her stupidity just for d nyashing, n dis could b for quite a period of tym, till dey are satisfied

lipsyliscious: as far as they would go thru wat a normal guy in a relationship would just to nyash d girl den dey dated her, saying dey did it just for d nyashing is self deceit because dey had to overlook her stupidity just for d nyashing, n dis could b for quite a period of tym, till dey are satisfied

Trust me, that is quite easy.

I thought the thread was more about taking someone seriously.

Dyt: When his sense of humour is so so so so low

People like this can ruin you I swear

Professor D.:

People like this can ruin you I swear

Ppl like me or ppl wit grt sense of humour?

Dyt:

Ppl like me or ppl wit grt sense of humour?

Piple wit low sense of humor

Professor D.:

Piple wit low sense of humor

Oh yes
They can

*sorry wz readin frm d oda angle*
Hehehhehehehe

Fat,short, body odour,lazy,cruel, too jealous,illiterate,poor dress sense,unhygienic lady. Pls,d house should help me. Wat activities wil one c involvin me nd a lady nd it wil be termed 'dating'? Pls help me

Sagamite:

I don't care what reason they do it for. It feels artificial, is uninspiring and it is boring.

I would quickly lose the fire in my belly when I have to sign a contract to get a relationship. That is why I like younger girls who are still in their carefree stage.

There is nothing like an electric spark of attraction between both sides, where things happen in spontaneity.

If all men reason like you,the case would be different. Some of these ladies have genuine excuses.
A friend once told me "the day a lady who agrees to date me tells me she's taking her time,she's on her way out". Just like you,I like spontaneity.

Zeebah23:
If all men reason like you,the case would be different. Some of these ladies have genuine excuses.
A friend once told me "the day a lady who agrees to date me tells me she's taking her time,she's on her way out". Just like you,I like spontaneity.

Women do not compromise when they are at their peak and have options.

I am also at my peak and have options, so I do not compromise on what I want.

The advantage they have is that, most times, I have to be the one to invest first. So they can close case without losing.

But I have the advantage that my peak period is quite long and I have more options than they ever had, so I can take more risks.

Works for me. My advantage is superior.

Sagamite:

Women do not compromise when they are at their peak and have options.

I am also at my peak and have options, so I do not compromise on what I want.

The advantage they have is that, most times, I have to be the one to invest first. So they can close case without losing.

But I have the advantage that my peak period is quite long and I have more options than they ever had, so I can take more risks.

Works for me. My advantage is superior.

Case closed!

Professor D.:

Thats all?

yeah, i think so
id rather date the guy 1st, then get to know him better, before judging his behavior or how he dress,smells,etc.

After all,it is just a date..

ms.mysterious22:


yeah, i think so
id rather date the guy 1st, then get to know him better, before judging his behavior or how he dress,smells,etc.

After all,it is just a date..

nice I like dat....cool chick