idupaul:

Milk carton get hope na, it can be recycled

hehehehe
u guys are bad oo

A woman can still marry after forty and fifty.

Okija_juju:

Who needs her ass after menopause??  


@ poster

_{Get married or die trying} - _{50 Kobo}

Wats funny, this is serious talk, it seems u are 18 dats why it sound funny, add another 18 and bet me u wont be laffing , u will be posting a serious a$$ thread like the poster.

A woman can still marry after forty and fifty.

Thank God u are on course, when u get there i will like to knoe hw u did it.

onyinye2:

A woman can still marry after forty and fifty.

In africa and in nigeria, it is difficult.
In the west, it is not much of a problem as procreation is not the number one priority

idupaul:

Wats funny, this is serious talk, it seems u are 18 that is why it sound funny, add another 18 and bet me u wont be laffing , u will be posting a serious a$$ thread like the poster.

O.k dude, lets get this straight. I wasnt joking, she needs to grab a man or end up alone. This is Nigeria FFS, people over a certain age find it freaking difficult to get married. At certain ages, unmarried women are considered desperados.
So stop thinking I'm joking, I'm only sending out a message in my own way. _{No offence intended.}

I wish I could speak with this poster one-on-one. Her (perceived) problem is just about 30% of some others that we've seen solved. Just 35 years? Why the worry? It only becomes a problem when you see it as such, and it is not over until it is all over.

1. You can read and write,
2. You are even computer literate.
3. You believe there is help somewhere

Now,

Believe (rather, acknowledge and know that) you will soon marry (i'm not deceiving you).
Begin to picture yourself with that kind of man you want (not any how man, please!) in that type of home you want, and with the kind of kids you want ,

I hope I'm not preaching here

hey time don dey pass you, buti fit hook u up with a youger guy mrs 35

well all hope not lost, just sit down,relax and take stock, study your self and draw a conclusion as per why is it so? the aswer my sister is within you.
secondly, you can still get married even in 3 years time, take it from a good perspective, what is you marry earlier and something terrible happens? just make your self happy, till you get married pretty soon

dont depair,have a friend she got married at 36,has a son and happy,wants more children though.try and go out a little but never appear desperate,it makes u a game

Poster
My sincere advice to u is that never loose HOPE and trust much in God, He makes everything good at His own time,

But option A4 can u be the 3rd wife if yes apply to ftngl@yahoo.com

All tihings works for the good of those that love christ

Hope is not gone. my cousin married at 40 and now she is pregnant at about 42. Keep praying, all is well.

I dont see the big deal here!

marzipan73:

Is 35 too old to marry a Nigerian man?

With God everything is possible.

Dere is nothing impossible with Him(GOD).Do not get discouraged and mind uit is not d matter of marrying early but marrying d right person and at d right time.So just keep praying and i wish u d best

ALL OF U JUST DEY CALL GOD THIZ AND GOD DAT, HOW MANY OF U ACTUALLY LOVE HIM, HYPOCRITES!!!!!!!!!

lol. . . . . .don't lose hope yet. . . .ehnnnn. . . . .

Don't worry that special someone is still out there for u. . . . .  . .hopefully. . . . . .  .

now faith is bin sure of wat we hope for and certain of wat we do not see. it is callin forth wat be not as though it were. call forth ur husband and like Abraham wavering not believin that God is Able to do all that he has promised. Now relax be anxious for nothin and jus kip callin that man forth. wawke up in the morning , do it like prescription and cll your man. Dont Doubt? But first of all do u know who your God is he said the tot i gave for u is tot of good not evil and his will is dat we prosper in our soul and the confidence we have is dat wen we pray and ask according to his will he hears u and if we know he hears us we know dat wateva we hav asked we hav received it. The word also says that he who compares himself with another is unwise. stop lookin at the circumstance around u and bliv and trust he is not unjust to 4get the labor of our love. Lets pray Dear God am so sorry to have doubted you. i believe in you and i cast all my cares on Jesus i lay it down and i ask for my husband . you said in Mrk 11 vs 24 dat whatsoever it is i so desire if i ask in your name i receive. i receive my husband. (describe him and how u want him to be) thank God for him . I bliv, i receive. anytime ur mind borders on dat issue jus pray in the holyghost. it is well

marzipan73,

Firstly, your age is a good  one and there are lot  of men out there that will be willing  to marry you (even single, between the ages of 35-45 yrs, never married, decent, and responsible too), Asides the info you posted here, it is somehow hard for me to go into further analysis and outcome with good stuffs for you, If truly you are interested in ending your dilemma, you can always lean on me via wisdom only and l will be your friend. You do not have problem about your  age ,but, rather worries of your age, l know of 45-years old lady with two M.Sc degrees searching for a suitor,Can you imagine your position? If you do want me to relate more with you then, you can email me @webman200@gmail.com

Life  is  beautiful

Agaba123, l do not share your  view about the age and  our cultural  bondage, With my deep research, l discovered that  culture must  carefully be separated from Man's  Mind, which is  invariably the  bye-product of culture .The  norms and  values of  a  particular place are the result of  Man's thinking and the  best thing  that  can ever happened to  a  person  is CHANGE.  Africa's culture has constantly enslaved us and  is no surprise that the oyinbos do take advantage  of  the  " RAW LOOPHOLES  IN OUR CULTURE TO ENSLAVE US",

35 and not married, big deal!!!

Like someone else said, come to America. Women in their 30 and 40s are perceived as being hot, wise and ready for marriage.

Try not to think inside of the box.

humm what can i say?well lets talk and see what we can workout,am serious

my name is bukayo i run some internet business stuff and i really commend you on your idea it is a great idea! thumbs up for you feel free to I'm me bukola4u2see@yahoo.co.uk

go to church or invest in a good plastic surgeon!!!! there is still hope.

I have women in my family who got married for the first time at 44 and 46!
A couple of others had a second go at marriage at about the same age. So stop carrying your mid thirties on your head like your life is over.

i saw somewhere that this guy is looking for a 3rd wife. He's a cattle Baron

35yrs without husband? I think the number of unmarried women is growing like a tree all over the world. Anyway,your good and sound qualities could search for you a man but anyone that comes,forget his qualities and marry. Its better to marry than remaining single.

ossai sly:

35yrs without husband? I think the number of unmarried women is growing like a tree all over the world. Anyway,your good and sound qualities could search for you a man but anyone that comes,forget his qualities and marry. Its better to marry than remaining single.

Please tell me you are joking?? 'better to marry than single' Yikes. These stories of women too old after thirty just cracks me up. Poster should come live here. She will be worshipped and sought after.

Tink_sh:

Please tell me you are joking?? 'better to marry than single' Yikes. These stories of women too old after thirty just cracks me up. Poster should come live here. She will be worshipped and sought after.

ok, yeap even at forty, she could still marry. But how can a woman stay without having a husband when she is not a Rvd sister. what happens to her sexual life? Maybe am too african to discuss this but its part of a learning process.

ossai sly:

ok, yeap even at forty, she could still marry. But how can a woman stay without having a husband when she is not a Rvd sister. what happens to her sexual life? Maybe am too african to discuss this but its part of a learning process.

I wonder why some people will fall into the stereotypes that something is wrong with women that choose to live the single life without sex. If the focus of dating and relationships is not sexually centered, it is not that difficult to live the single life without sex.

thanks for reasoning with me.Eyah. Tink_sh is already calling me names cos of my opinion. Although some women couldnt marry coz of hard luck.But some females detest sex which to me i feel its absurd.

Eyah:

I wonder why some people will fall into the stereotypes that something is wrong with women that choose to live the single life without sex. If the focus of dating and relationships is not sexually centered, it is not that difficult to live the single life without sex.

ossai sly:

thanks for reasoning with me.Eyah. Tink_sh is already calling me names cos of my opinion. Although some women couldnt marry coz of hard luck.But some females detest sex which to me i feel its absurd.

I apoligise for any misunderstanding, i wasnt calling you names. I was raised in a different culture and it blows my mind that some think she is done and dusted at 35, thats all, my opinion.