didicold: U didnt make out like d threat was serious, all i can glean is u r so determined to be involved wit ur ex dat woe betides whoever stand between u, is ur bf such a violent person he can't pick up d shades without picking a fight wit a supposedly ill person.
Go if u feel u must but i hope u realize by doin so u r undermining ur position in ur relationship,u have effectively "sold out". While u pick up d shades, anoda desperate gel will come and "cook stew" for ur bf too, after all, is it only sick ppl that eat?

kennygee: So why can't he trust me to go and pick it? He doesn't even knw my ex's house.

sexymoma: How would you feel if your fiancee tells you that he bought his EX a mobile phone cos she couldn't afford one?...
Your EX is your past, how on earth would you go to his house and cook for him..
That very very wrong, it shows you still love him, no man would accept that from you as long as he has blood running in his vain.
Dont please others by displeasing yourself and people around you.
Shey you know maybe your EX go shine congo too much na im make am sick
You come dey treat another woman gbege.
On a serious note it's wrong so wrong

kennygee: I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me.

The boyfriend might be thinking the "sex" was so good you probably want to go back for another bout (depending on how insecure he is)

didicold: U didnt make out like d threat was serious, all i can glean is u r so determined to be involved wit ur ex dat woe betides whoever stand between u, is ur bf such a violent person he can't pick up d shades without picking a fight wit a supposedly ill person.
Go if u feel u must but i hope u realize by doin so u r undermining ur position in ur relationship,u have effectively "sold out". While u pick up d shades, anoda desperate gel will come and "cook stew" for ur bf too, after all, is it only sick ppl that eat?

kennygee: The shade is nt more important than my man, i just want to prove to my man that he can trust me. I've got nothing to hide.

Seun: I'm disturbed that he is threatening to commit an act of violence rather than something normal like calling off the relationship. I understand his annoyance but his threat is not normal.

kennygee: I just want this to pass. That's all.

kilode95:

Breaking of sim card is an act of violence?
Violence on what?

Williamso:

You want to prove to your man that he can trust you by creating more doubt Dafuq are you thinking

kennygee: I promised him i wouldn't go back there after i do my pick up.

kilode95: Breaking of sim card is an act of violence?
Violence on what?
The sim card or the girl?

kennygee: I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me.

Sagamite:

Now, what kind of insecure guy is this? He is driving a girl somewhere because he is scared of a rival snatching her? Let this guy grow some balls. If he had any sense, he would close lane. Move to the next!

Idowuogbo:
U want it to end and u busy ranting about sunglasses? U need paracetamol.

sexkillz: Your current boyfriend is a kid. That you told him how you visited your ex and cooked for him is enough evidence that you don't hide things from him. What then is "trust", if he cannot trust you after you opened up to him? If he breaks your sim, break his phone.

I'll like that BOY to swear on his life that he has osctracized all his ex'. . . Nonsense and all it's ingredients!

kennygee: Y'all are being mean. I went to see a sick person, i didn't cheat, i didn't lie and i didn't hide it. I am nt getting back with my ex and i don't intend to.

2s£xy:
A typical bad boy will lay her. Period.


No need for story. Haven't you seen or heard of girls who open up just to make it seem like they have nothing to hide but are truly fvcking whoever they told their current boyfriend?

Was it not here a girl claimed to have 'told' her boyfriend about a guy but she left out the Kisses she had with him? The same person went about to sought the help of you and Ogugua in order to delete the thread after I dealt with her in that thread.

Bro, naija girls are not to be completely trusted and I am sure the OP's boyfriend is aware of that. Many of them still have goose bumps when the meet the 'ex'.

Let me just stop here.

2s£xy:

No need for story. Haven't you seen or heard of girls who open up just to make it seem like they have nothing to hide but are truly fvcking whoever they told their current boyfriend?

Sagamite:
Now, what kind of insecure guy is this? He is driving a girl somewhere because he is scared of a rival snatching her? Let this guy grow some balls. If he had any sense, he would close lane. Move to the next!