This is one great addiction by men,dont know about females oo. You see that in a tight gown and you just cant resist,you watch that lil wayne video where girls are unclad,you watch that Miley Cyrus music video and your pants bulges. Quickly you go to blablabla.com to feast your dirty eyes,you hide yourself somewhere,close d doors tightly,you finish d job and at the end you're like "ooo what i've i done,okay i will stop it' b4 u know it you're back at it. I'm also guilty of this,even though i do it once in three weeks. If konji catch we well,na twice in two weeks. Im jus 19years oo and i feel like im ruinealready. Mind you,im not a loner or pervert oo. Im just a normal cool teenager. To all those who have won this battle of self servicing,kindly tell us how you did it. Thank you

Its all about choice!

If u wanna stop it u can,if u wanna go back u can!

Prayers man

It is a normal ish, you are becoming a MAN,

It happens to almost every teenager it'll stop naturally by itself. For me it was a very had battle and each time it happens I feel so guilty and blame myself for allowing it to happen bt dat won't be enough to stop me from doing it d next time sometimes I'll hit myself hard to show my dissatisfaction bt it never really helped the feelings just vanished at its time I was around 20 when I stopped that makes abt 3yrs of serious torture nd prayer couldn't even help out all this time

www.herballove.com . it is sinful ,deadly and a form of slow suicide

Normally , you should outgrow it but till then
1. Always counter the feeling. Train your mind to see it as disgusting and dirty. Pride yourself to be a Prince and a Prince should not dwell in filth.
2. Remember how worthless n energy drain u feel after each act, imagine using that time and energy to learn something that will bring you more money and possibly real girls.
3. Avoid watching pornn , sexxplicit music like u say u did. If you so much like Davido etc music and u see naked girls there, instead of imagining to fvrk them, see them as disease-carring slut that Wizkid or his gang had already sleep with over and over again. (Would you like to with someone u know many people have slept with before?) . Buy the audio or better still get some other hot music.
4. Go to church always, even if you dont want to be born again, just interact with them (they say bad company corrupts good manners). If there is nothing to do , when u feel the sensation coming, dont stand to fight it, run out to where people are and stay there till you are distracted.
5. First thing first, delete all those bookmarked , videos and pics from your fone right now.

Guess am thinking of it now...... ....anyway I think it's by prayers and dedication

Don't stop, keep on doing it, but this time, use "AGBONIKI", dazall...!

little self control might help, before you fall on to a man.

ITbomb: Normally , you should outgrow it but till then
1. Always counter the feeling. Train your mind to see it as disgusting and dirty. Pride yourself to be a Prince and a Prince should not dwell in filth.
2. Remember how worthless n energy drain u feel after each act, imagine using that time and energy to learn something that will bring you more money and possibly real girls.
3. Avoid watching pornn , sexxplicit music like u say u did. If you so much like Davido etc music and u see naked girls there, instead of imagining to fvrk them, see them as disease-carring slut that Wizkid or his gang had already sleep with over and over again. (Would you like to with someone u know many people have slept with before?) . Buy the audio or better still get some other hot music.
4. Go to church always, even if you dont want to be born again, just interact with them (they say bad company corrupts good manners). If there is nothing to do , when u feel the sensation coming, dont stand to fight it, run out to where people are and stay there till you are distracted.
5. First thing first, delete all those bookmarked , videos and pics from your fone right now.

shikenah

Austeenx: My turn:

Drive to 99c store...Buy a bottle of lotion.
Get home..turn on to www.Bleep.com
Rub away baby!!!
In a few freaking minutes, it is all over.
Time is money. Mast**bation saves time and money.
Most importantly it relieves stress.
Who cares if Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, Genevieve, Toolz are out of reach?
You can make love to anyone of these beautiful lady without their presence.
Imagination at work!
I would rather go to hell than give up MAST**BATION!
Yeah! That's how serious it is.

How will this make barcelona to sign a new defender?

I prayed and prayed and prayed !!! no change @ all.
I finally decided to get busy by writing a story since ASUU is on strike...
so far so good it's working... I hope to maintain it tho.self-servicing makes me feel dirty... an unfortunate addiction it is!!!

Austeenx: My turn:

Drive to 99c store...Buy a bottle of lotion.
Get home..turn on to www.Bleep.com
Rub away baby!!!
In a few freaking minutes, it is all over.
Time is money. Mast**bation saves time and money.
Most importantly it relieves stress.
Who cares if Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, Genevieve, Toolz are out of reach?
You can make love to anyone of these beautiful lady without their presence.
Imagination at work!
I would rather go to hell than give up MAST**BATION!
Yeah! That's how serious it is.

Bro its like you are already addicted to to masturbating to porn and pixels...ever heard of porn induced erectile dysfunction?Not being able to get it up when with a real girl due to your brain getting used to being aroused by artificial stimuli.evolution has not prepared our brain for today's internet porn.save yourself any future embarassment by quiting masturbation to porn and explicit images.if you must self service do not use porn and dont fantasize about it.period!

Try being religious (it worked for me when i was a born again) and stop porn ...

Im in ma late 20s and I only just stopped. . Its not easy.. it took me alot of strength and sides,I was advised by the doctor to do that cos I was so loosing interest in sex,I felt better self servicing myself

1---Keep yourself busy.. There is a 99% possibility of Masturbating when idle.. It may sound simple but this is one of the greatest key to curbing masturbation.. You can buy or download novels to start reading,download season films that will eat up your time, go out and avoid staying alone most of the time. Even if you do,make sure you are busy with something..

2-- If you masturbate daily,then start gradually by doing it once a week. Once you get used to once a week,then try once in two weeks,once you master that,then try once in a month,then try once in two months---- Once you master once in 2weeks,the rest(once in a month/two months) wont be necessary cos you will gradually start loosing the urge to do it anymore.

3.. If you have a very strong imaginative mind,then try to remember how guilty you felt when you masturbated last,how you swore to never do it again. If you can remember/feel how guilty you felt,trust me,it will be very hard to masturbate.

4-- Look at it this way----- When you masturbate against your will, it just proves that you are a robot to your own mind. It means that you have no control over your mind and that shouldn't be the case. Take it as a challenge to control and have full access of your mind. Many many many many people say its almost impossible to stop masturbation on one's own --- So take it as challenge to prove them wrong.

When you eventually do it finally, it will boost your psychology and give your subconscious a mental note that you can do the impossible(like they say) and trust me,it will even go a long way in helping you believe in your self the more, AND who knows? Masturbation might just be that blessing in disguise that birth-forth the habit of trying the almost impossible in other aspects of your life AND who knows? That habit might just be the key to making you the next millionaire,genius or role model many people will want to emulate..

Just add this to what IT bomb said and you'll be fine.
..
All izz well!

tardell007: Bro its like you are already addicted to to masturbating to porn and pixels...ever heard of porn induced erectile dysfunction?Not being able to get it up when with a real girl due to your brain getting used to being aroused by artificial stimuli.evolution has not prepared our brain for today's internet porn.save yourself any future embarassment by quiting masturbation to porn and explicit images.if you must self service do not use porn and dont fantasize about it.period!

Okay, sir.

maikhel: This is one great addiction by men,dont know about females oo. You see that in a tight gown and you just cant resist,you watch that lil wayne video where girls are unclad,you watch that Miley Cyrus music video and your pants bulges. Quickly you go to blablabla.com to feast your dirty eyes,you hide yourself somewhere,close d doors tightly,you finish d job and at the end you're like "ooo what i've i done,okay i will stop it' b4 u know it you're back at it. I'm also guilty of this,even though i do it once in three weeks. If konji catch we well,na twice in two weeks. Im jus 19years oo and i feel like im ruinealready. Mind you,im not a loner or pervert oo. Im just a normal cool teenager. To all those who have won this battle of self servicing,kindly tell us how you did it. Thank you

Had on a placid smile from reading this. Maybe being comfortable ma$turbating is just as hard, or even more difficult than getting rid of it. Just something for you to think on.

I thought such tins only happen in movies, i can watch porn for several hours, but i've never thought of mast**urbating, how my hand go be like puccy? By D way i'm shyer dan D shyest and i'm also an introvert. Best of luck man

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Approximately 70% of guys had/is battled/battling with self-servicing in their lives n probably 90% of guys on NL suffer diz same fate*mightbewrongthough*. Itz 1 nasty habit dt, if not curbed poses a gr8 threat of destroying a guy's SELF-CONFIDENCE. Itz almost impossible 2 quit 1s started but however u can if u solemnly wish 2 stop.
4 starters, try 2 build ur will power 2 deny d urge whenever it arises within u; learn 2 avoid indecent n sexually explicit movies, pictures, music videos, novels etc. Avoid being idle-try 2 engage ur time meaningful so as 2 occupy ur mind productively, if u r an introvert, try ur possible best 2 mingle with ppl around u whether males or females cos by doing so, u won't have 2 wallow in ur normal lonesome idleness. Above all, pray dt God grant u d strength 2 overcome it. #Goodluck

Kai! Thank God for my life, NEVER HAD, NEVER WILL btw you all need Jesus in your respective lifes

Its bettr than fornication

Going to church doesn't make you stop. Infact you can goto church on a sunday morn and after service you head straight back home in a hurry just to masturbate. Its a thing of the mind and not evil like people say it is.work On ur mind and get ur hands busy with things of benefit not busy stroking ur cores and also try not to stay alone if ur an addict

Odedoyin25: I thought such tins only happen in movies, i can watch porn for several hours, but i've never thought of mast**urbating, how my hand go be like puccy? By D way i'm shyer dan D shyest and i'm also an introvert. Best of luck man

ur dead man

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Thank uso much peeps,I really do appreciate this.more conrtibution pls

BushyA55.Banger:

ur dead man

and u're rotting away man.

Come kiss me

Odedoyin25: and u're rotting away man.