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Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by HezronLorraine(m): 5:03pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Not all secrets are meant to be discovered.In the same vain,telling the truth can help build a greater relationship.It only matters on how you built started,how strong your foundation is.If it's very strong,he will open up to you. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
I confess to almighty God,and to you my brothers and sister. . . . . . She has to know,if truely ur sorry and wish it doesnt happen again. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by 5alive(m): 5:04pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
If she also open up abt her sleepin around wit guys. Op u dey mad o, hop u ar nt cheatin on mama alabi |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Testerfuze(m): 5:05pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Nooo!! U̶̲̥̅̊'re jst gonna escalate tins, trust me,its beta U̶̲̥̅̊ kip it 2 urself nd turn a new leaf |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by paul234(m): 5:05pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
only if the lady wud trust the man agn
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Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by switdil(f): 5:06pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Mannylex: I tried telling her several times, but my mouth always get heavy, so I have continued in this world of guilt and deception... Telling her is suicidal, ending this enjoyment is stupidity... I am stuck in both worldsOshi Na petrol n matches wen em go take prepare ur fire for hell u dey gather so Better repent 2 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Cestmoi1(f): 5:07pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Let my ear hear no evil but in this case,I would love to know the truth,finding out on my own won't be good at all.It may make or mar our relationship,it may make us grow stronger.It depends sha. 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by safarigirl(f): 5:08pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Like they say, what you don't know can't kill you. If a boyfriend cheats, no biggie, you can start over with someone else, but a hubby? Please keep it to yourself, as long as you don't gimme STD's I'm good 4 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Lilimax(f): 5:08pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
He should not tell me ... . I need my peace and would not want to die of high blood pressure as a result of too much thinking . Will never pray for that anyway 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Doyensky: 5:08pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
He had beta kip to himself o |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Daziz: D only thing dat makes u a man is that u cheat and still be able to hide it succesfullyFor real! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills. Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you. 3 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kennykool4u: 5:10pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
kreami diva: i will always be ready since its confession!!![b][/b] |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by kcjazz(m): 5:10pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
For a marriage, yes it is wise to confess to your wife/husband because you have broken a covenant to your spouse and to God. Secondly, for accountability purpose, the lie you hide will hunt you. Confess and free yourself. Someone somewhere always knows so heck confess and brace up for the perceived consequence. Yes it is good to confess to God, but your spouse deserves to know as well on a spiritual level and for restoration. Unless you want to cheat again but if you need help confess. If you love your wife/husband confess. 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by 4reigningqueen: 5:16pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Yes! I meant No! Hmmm yes.no no no. Well, maybe. 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
I guess the best way to lie is to tell the truth. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by brushstrokes(f): 5:19pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Yes...so that I can go for medical checkup and exit the relationship |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Toks2008(m): 5:19pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
This is interesting. I have been with my wife for 12 years and i had only slept with just one female asides her and that was when she left the marriage for months. I told her anyway and i made her realize that but for her leaving i wouldn't even think of such. I guess she understood because for the first time after 7months of her leaving, she came around yesterday and it was a great experience and she never even allowed what i told her disturb her psyche maybe because she knew she caused it. So i guess it depends on what led to it and not just about jumping into bed with another lady when your woman is always there for you, 4 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by ifyalways(f): 5:28pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Double post. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by elinaliz(f): 5:29pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Men are only good for reproduction. 5 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by ifyalways(f): 5:33pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
ogugua88: Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.Why do we have this notion that married cheats dont/wont use protection at least Btw,kedu maka "sexdonkillthem" ? 2 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
If it was not intentional, pls don't tell me |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Mannylex(m): 5:34pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
elina_liz: Men are only good for reproduction. Same goes to women. |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:39pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Feminist fundamentalists are at it again. Yesterday, a thread that men have it easier and today, trying to get us to confess. Men don't tell sh$it until women start confessing that some of the children they claimed to be their husband's are not theirs. Women will NEVER NEVER speak of a child their husband is raising knowing full well that it wasn't his. The question: Will women ever confess to their man if he is raising a child or children that aren't his? 4 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Yemlizzy(f): 5:40pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Da truth z actually very bitter nd wen it coms 2 matters lyk dz i'd rather nt hear such cos it really hurts.........Lobatan! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Situation: 5:44pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
buaaaahhh!!! hmmm...relationship is meant for two people some B.itches just don't know how to count...the P point is yu'll get caught,biko even if yu are james bond 007 |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
ifyalways: Why do we have this notion that married cheats dont/wont use protection at least Married cheat? Lol so levels dey? If a married man is cheating, then he knows nothing of marriage or the vows he took and should be stripped of such titles ASAP. A man who is used to sex without protection is more likely to not use protection. I highly doubt that all the cases of pregnant house girls, university girls, side chicks, etc., are of failed condoms lol. And he's fine. 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Mannylex(m): 5:46pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
switdil: Lol. I love my gf, But she is not my wife yet... Me, I don't trust this hoes at all... You see those heartbreak post most nairaland guys come posting here? I don't wanna be part. I rather cheat than be cheated upon... I fornicate with 1 hell fire, I fornicate with 100 hell fire... So who is innocent? 1 Like |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by valena23(f): 5:47pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
I would rather him tell me than to find out by myself. It's just the respectful thing to do |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by Onyenna(m): 5:48pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
kreami diva: If the lady doesn't know,there's no use confessing to her. Just confess to God and turn a new leaf. I'd rather not know. It would be difficult for me to forgive and forget. IMO o. I LOVE THIS!!!! |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by winnieG1(m): 5:52pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Toks2008: This is interesting. what? she left u for 7 good months, man u better check that space, she probably has slept enough with another men to deal with the hurt u've caused her and justify her reason for coming back to you. 7 Likes |
Re: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated? by ATMC(f): 5:52pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
dont tell me cos i wouldnt want to tell yhu mine lets stick to making our marriage work and also living right... |
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