druid06:

Can you inbox me your facebook I.D or name so I could look you up?

mechummy: PM me

Stonerobaba: Ladies, dont even think about it because men will never confess to you and secondly it will be a very sad and heartbroken news if u are eventually told.

WackyJ1:

You will point out that one but you will not point out this fact


abeg go sit down

ogugua88: I would want to know. People often forget the health aspect. He's sleeping around, with who? How many people? Do they have stds?

He'll be safer if he tells me than if he doesn't and I found out on my own. After he does, I'll be gone. I wasn't raised to be someone's backup chick.

ogugua88: I would want to know. People often forget the health aspect. He's sleeping around, with who? How many people? Do they have stds?

He'll be safer if he tells me than if he doesn't and I found out on my own. After he does, I'll be gone. I wasn't raised to be someone's backup chick.

BabaAlabi: Should Your Man Tell You He Cheated?

Walspring:

Oga no be everybody be like you... For your information all men are not the same and if you thought you cant confess to your babe that you cheated on her that's for you.. Dont you think that some men have conscience? My question is if u truly love her u wont cheat and u cant tell her that u are cheating just because u dont want to lose her since she is giving u tough time than other girls u cheating with and u believe she is the better than those girls u cheating with.

My advise to u girls is that dont look after the sweet words for a guy but look after the deep words from a guy..

winnie-G:


what? she left u for 7 good months, man u better check that space, she probably has slept enough with another men to deal with the hurt u've caused her and justify her reason for coming back to you.

BabaAlabi: A pessimist once said that people don't want to hear the truth rather they want to hear what they want to be true. On another note I read somewhere that the truth is better than a lie but let us face the fact that truth hurts. The discovery that your spouse is cheating on you can evoke feelings of betrayal, disappointment and hopelessness. The person you thought loved you unconditionally is now sharing that love around. I think it would be better not to know because ultimately Ignorance is bliss. What do you think?

iLUMeN8:

The fact that you cheated is no biggie to her cos she has probably been engaging in serious, intense, nyashing and Congo shining sessions for seven months as well

PrettySpicey:

@Toks2008
until u start taking responsibility for ur actions u r not truly responsible. Ur wife didn't 'cause' u to cheat. NO. U CHOSE to cheat.
Just wanted to point that out. Thanks.

carefreewannabe:

I understand your way of thinking and I respect your opinion but I'm asking myself: weren't you scared of catching a STD?

kayClt: I'd prefer if i don't knw he cheats arund,as long as his love for me neva depreciates and he is wise eno to use cond*ms,i can't give mysef high PB becos of another woman.men r all d same "no be only egusi soup dey go dey chop all d tym" y shuld i bother

DailyNews: Hmmm...ladies to reduce the chances of ending up with a cheating husband,

Avoind marrying:

1. A politician
2. An entertainer
3. A well travelled business man

And generally make sure he isn't so rich...once the money starts getting excess...just increase your fasting and prayer becos the pressure will become so much on him to cheat.

If u want a faithful husband, marry a comfortable guy who isn't rich cos most times, more money, wealth, riches, fame and popularity comes with promiscuity and infidelity on the side of men.

I know many will attack and insult me, but I am only telling the truth that most men wouldn't want u to hear.

Bukato:

Yea, I wz fully aware of all "dangers' in d game. Rmbr I said "I cautioned" him. I kept on ringing d bells of possible dangers. He's well educated in addition. I knw he keeps sm "protecting tools" arnd him.

He sure played safe to d best of my knowledge. Wit or witout my knwledge nd fear, he will do dat he wanna do.

Toks2008:

Yes you are right. I chose to because there was a reason i chose to. Before GOD i have no excuse but naturally i believe i will do it again giving the opportunity even with you.

carefreewannabe:

I can't imagine Obama cheating

He SEEMS to be a respectable man

DailyNews: Hmmm...ladies to reduce the chances of ending up with a cheating husband,

Avoind marrying:

1. A politician
2. An entertainer
3. A well travelled business man

And generally make sure he isn't so rich...once the money starts getting excess...just increase your fasting and prayer becos the pressure will become so much on him to cheat.

If u want a faithful husband, marry a comfortable guy who isn't rich cos most times, more money, wealth, riches, fame and popularity comes with promiscuity and infidelity on the side of men.

I know many will attack and insult me, but I am only telling the truth that most men wouldn't want u to hear.

omiata:


Has this gotten you any lady in the house, why can't you keep your mouth shut, exposing ur fellow crime fighters... i fall into the third category if you want to know... yeye dey smell

DailyNews: Nobody imagined Clinton cheating until Monica Lewinskey's scandal came up.

nobody imagined Silvio Berlusconi cheating until that young model blew things up.

And I am sure u didn't watch the telecast of Obama's visit to Thailand last year and see how he was staring lavishly at that pretty Thai Prime Minister

All men are born cheats, whether ladies accept it or not...it is only by the special grace of God that a man can live all his life without cheating on his wife.

carefreewannabe:

You are right, he will do dat he wanna do but we are all adults and we know that sooner or later adults want to "taste it all" and at some point they will NOT protect themselves.

I respect your opinion and your advice and hope you have run some tests.

As for me, I can perfectly understand that some humans (men and women) are NOT monogamous and I don't judge but I am scared as hell of STDs.

Bukato:

U ar right thou. We do some medical examinations often. Even witout ds case, it shld b done regularly. My point is "I prefer to know my enemies dan to take my enemies as friends"

carefreewannabe:

I have a brother with who I am very close.
We talk about almost everything, including our relationships.
My brother used to cheat in his early 20s a lot, even though he had a beautiful girlfriend and even though he loved her very much. He would still cheat, again and again. He is a very handsome guy so ladies would be chasing him to the extent that they would even bother other family members. A few years later, he got bored of sleeping with different Kind of women and committed to one. He says it's not a problem for him to be faithful 'cause he had it all and considers chasing girls childish.

You may call my brother an exception and I can tell you that he indeed is special in different ways but the story is suppossed to Show you that you are AGAIN generalizing.

I don't really care if Obama is giving other women looks, I also enjoy seeing handsome men, in a relationship or not, but I just don't believe that ALL men want to sleep with different kinds of girls 'cause they have "an attitude". And my brother is not the only example.

omiata:


Has this gotten you any lady in the house, why can't you keep your mouth shut, exposing ur fellow crime fighters...

manny4life: In theory (i.e. for those living in the world of the Avatar), YES, but in reality... NO.

There are things that are better left as "SECRETS", you keep them to yourself and you die with them.

Tell your woman and she's definitely gonna use it against you someday.