ogugua88: Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.

Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you.

Nne, onwero ife n'eme nu...

AIDS is real mana it can be treated...

Btw, how are you? Shey it's only this section you frequent?

ogugua88: Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.

Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you.

do you think that it is the person that is cheating that wants the Aids?

Once you tell me, I'll forgive and leave

I'll Confess if i have a girl that i know is worth telling such a huge Secret


But then a girl if i have a girl that i know is worth telling, why would i cheat on her in the first place?

Mannylex:

Lol. I love my gf, But she is not my wife yet... Me, I don't trust this hoes at all... You see those heartbreak post most nairaland guys come posting here? I don't wanna be part. I rather cheat than be cheated upon...


I fornicate with 1 hell fire, I fornicate with 100 hell fire... So who is innocent?

I can see that the Gospel of Romance section is finally reaching the guys

D truth is dt some men confess 2 their partners just 4 d fun of it (sadists)nd nt cos they r genuinely ready 2 repent,show remorse or turn a new leaf.These set of men end up cheatin over n over again n confessing too thereby making mockery of their partners.For me,don't tell me abut ur cheating.Just confess 2 ur God nd turn a new leaf.Simple!!! By tellin me, u r indirectly letting me knw dt u dnt hv respect 4 me,dt iam nt gud enuf 4 u nd as such,rubbing it on my face.It is better I find out myself which I dnt even want 2 cos I dnt need any hrt pains.

mechummy: Once you tell me, I'll forgive and leave

It's not as easy as you think.

ogugua88: I would want to know. People often forget the health aspect. He's sleeping around, with who? How many people? Do they have stds?

He'll be safer if he tells me than if he doesn't and I found out on my own. After he does, I'll be gone. I[size=14pt] wasn't raised to be someone's backup chick[/size].

Hallelujah amen "acerbity"

manny4life: In theory (i.e. for those living in the world of the Avatar), YES, but in reality... NO.

There are things that are better left as "SECRETS", you keep them to yourself and you die with them.

Tell your woman and she's definitely gonna use it against you someday.

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THIS POST WINS.
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ogugua88: Chei. This is sad. HIV/AIDS is real o. If una no wan die of high blood pressure or stress, remember that AIDS kills.

Maybe when you jam skin lesions and your latest bout of cough refuses to subside, you'll want him to tell you whether or not he's been cheating on you.

How does he telling you change anything? Just do the damn HIV test.

druid06:

It's not as easy as you think.

It has always been easy for me

He'll lose my trust so what's the point?

The best thing is not to tell me and not let me catch you

Yusluv77: Six Golden Rules For F***ing1. F***ing once a week
is good for your health but harmful if doneevery
day.2. F***ing gives proper relaxation for your mind
and body.3. F***ing refreshes you.4. After f***ing
don't eat too much; go for more liquids.5. Try to do
f***ing in bed because it can save youvaluable
energy.6. F***ing can even reduce your cholesterol
levelSO REMEMBER - *FASTING* is good for your
health - and may Godcleanse your Dirty Mind!!

LMAO.. WTF I've been saying fvckng n fvckng all thru. lol

WackyJ1:

I can see that the Gospel of Romance section is finally reaching the guys

The Gospel of Truth.

mechummy: It has always been easy for me

He'll lose my trust so what's the point?

The best thing is not to tell me and not let me catch you

If it has been easy for you then I don't think you were really into your ex's.

Comeon, if my chicks confesses about an affair, I would be mad a hell for one and I'm pretty sure it would be the end of our relationship.

winnie-G:


what? she left u for 7 good months, man u better check that space, she probably has slept enough with another men to deal with the hurt u've caused her and justify her reason for coming back to you.

LMFAO free the mugu

xxxangel: Ceriously 4 me is beta u dnt,cos it will cos a severe pain nd dat eyes i use 2 look at u wit such luv nd admiration will only see a repentant cheatin b.I.t.c.h

Are you a g'ay or you didnt read the topic

Telling her also means that i'm willing to let here go but still hoping on the chance that she would stay

Some thinqs re better left unsaid, I believe CHEATING is one of those thinqs.

Yusluv77: Six Golden Rules For F***ing1. F***ing once a week
is good for your health but harmful if doneevery
day.2. F***ing gives proper relaxation for your mind
and body.3. F***ing refreshes you.4. After f***ing
don't eat too much; go for more liquids.5. Try to do
f***ing in bed because it can save youvaluable
energy.6. F***ing can even reduce your cholesterol
levelSO REMEMBER - *FASTING* is good for your
health - and may Godcleanse your Dirty Mind!!

And cleanse urs too,amen! Lol.

Hmmm,its better I dnt find out because if I do,I will never trust nd believe in love any more

BoboYekini: How does he telling you change anything? Just do the damn HIV test.

It changes everything. There'd be no need for an HIV test if he was monogamous.

men are like animals, they like adventures. it only takes the grace of God to stop cheating after the first confession, because the urge will still be there unless God intervene.

druid06:

If it has been easy for you then I don't think you were really into your ex's.

Comeon, if my chicks confesses about an affair, I would be mad a hell for one and I'm pretty sure it would be the end of our relationship.

Whether I was into them or not doesn't matter

Once you're caught, I cut out

WackyJ1: do you think that it is the person that is cheating that wants the Aids?

No one has to want AIDS to contract it. If someone is fooling around with multiple people, then he or she better be ready to face the consequences.

manny4life: Nne, onwero ife n'eme nu...

AIDS is real mana it can be treated...

Btw, how are you? Shey it's only this section you frequent?

Maybe you have thousands of dollars to waste on antivirals. I don't lol.

I'm good. You? I'm busier now. You won't find me everywhere like before lol.

mechummy: Whether I was into them or not doesn't matter

Once you're caught, I cut out

Hmm, interesting.

ogugua88:

No one has to want AIDS to contract it. If someone is fooling around with multiple people, then he or she better be ready to face the consequences.

if they aren't ready to face the consequences won't they themselves take the highest precaution to save themselves? After all cheats are selfish people

Mai pride: Ignorance is not bliss.... "My people perish for lack of knowledge....

†ђξ betrayal and dsapointment will be more heartbreaking if she eventually finds out on her own...

IMO, Just tell her and free yourself of †ђξ guilt.... What's †ђξ essence of confessing to God and knwing deep down that you av wronged your better half Your peace aint complete dt way...
It aint easy to forgive and forget but ℓ̊ will save my marriage and forgive with †ђξ hope and promise that he won't do it again

Give me ur pin, so that I can be pinging you.

The question was bothering me so I decided to ask. As for me I believe someone who cheats and confesses does so out of guilt. It is really a selfish decision and most times the person confessing does not care about what happens next. If it's a one time thing then No. If it's an affair the guy has been having for a long time then Yes. Women should understand that sex is just sex sometimes, no feelings or emotions attached.

It's better i don't know about his other affairs, coz am definately gonna find it very very hard forgiving him.

I would rather him tell me than to find out by myself. It's just the respectful thing to do.




What you don't know about dose not hurt.

It.helps..love.urself.since.ur.lover.is.not.truthful.