What do you think about distance r/ship between you and your patner? Is it good or bad? Would you engage yourself to it. If yes give your reasons and if not please also tell me why you wouldn't.
              I am really confused now and I need your response to this.


    Thank you so much as you partake in this.

edy-girl, it's all bout love yeah??

well if U' were already in the relationship before One of U had to travel or sumtin, then U guys could still carry On depending On how strong the love is but if U werent seeing him before, then just do what your heart tells ya

U've got to be strong thou, Cuz there're bound to be temptations here and there,

i think it's foolish,
u cant see da person,u just call da person ,u just dey call da
person u dont know what's da person's doing behind u there,
it's nuthing to me,
me and u will just play,but it's foolish

but some does it,they say it's love

itz a choice u have to make so wuteva we get 2 say here won't matter, am involve in one and lovng it, itz all about love and trust whether da person is 100 miles away or lives next to u, as i alwayz say, love has no boundaries

@eve, u make me laugh, let me tell u what u might not know, even if your b/f lives beside u, if he want to cheat or do rubbish, he can still do it without u knowing so cheating or wuteva is not distance friendly or player hater so it all comes down to love and trust and diz issue depends on individuals

moreova, there r people that can't date people in their locality because they get bored easily so we r now back 2 diz famous proverb, one man's food is another man's posion.

my dear, so itz a decision u gotta make, let distance not destroy wuteva love you 2 have 4 eachother. good luck

I agree.

and just whats Stupid in a long distance relationship Some funny perception u've got!!!!!!! lame shxt!

@hotstepper
word!

U said it well hotsteper.

10x ma dear

hotstepper i gave up

U're welcome dear.

yea u r welcome, lol

heheheh,thanks

distance relationship is lame, don't waste ur time involvin in it. u neva kno what ur so called partna is doin where he or she is at. what if that cravin for cuddlin or kissin starts knockin on ya door, who u gon turn to? phone intimacy or whateva ain't gon cut it.

Hotstepper, i so agree with you. Long distance can be lovely and it can be bad - it just depends on the people in the relationship

It works if you are unlucky to not catch your partner. Believe me, even in a  true love shit happens but if you do not  catch him/her, i think you would say it works.

I'v been in it since 2001. Though d challenges are just too much as d guy,am stil into it.She loves me so dearly and i love her more dearly.
My girl is a simple girl.I trust her with all my heart.Though some times i start tinkin otherwise. It takes a strong guy to get involved in distance R. An undetermined guy will surely get carried away.Wit time,i noticed that i cud neva give my heart out to another girl. Though its distance,to me its true love.Am even tinkin of writin a movie bout it sef. NB.My girl is in Jos while am in Lagos.

I'v been in it since 2001. Though d challenges are just too much as d guy,am stil into it.She loves me so dearly and i love her more dearly.
My girl is a simple girl.I trust her with all my heart.Though some times i start tinkin otherwise. It takes a strong guy to get involved in distance R. An undetermined guy will surely get carried away.Wit time,i noticed that i cud neva give my heart out to another girl. Though its distance,to me its true love.Am even tinkin of writin a movie bout it sef. NB.My girl is in Jos while am in Lagos.

I'm sorry but i think jos to lag is not too much a distance relationship. If it were to be different countries, yeah right! You'll get to know what we are talking about. More than 99% of ladies have cheated one way or the other even in a non distant relationship, although they still love their partner but they just couldn't always hold on. Anyone who's daily activity (job,school e.t.c) involve lots of ladies would definitely feel n smell me. ITS HIGH TIME WE GUYS STOPPED BEING A *******

aint even down with this long distance shiit. no way. nahhhh, its too much and i hail those that do it. una strong.

From experience:

A long distance relationship is feasible but tasking and challenging. The key ingredient there is constant communication and mutual trust. If you do not believe in these and also practise them, then forget it.

If you believe that your boyfriend is shinning one white chick on a particular friday night, then that's exactly what he's doing. However, if you believe that he's working his ass out or studying so hard, then that's exactly how it is.

You desist from heresay and caste your mind on the positive aspects of it.

However, it is a very difficult way to handle a relationship. It also often tends towards heartbreak.

My 2cents shaa

Distance can only work for two people who are committed by marriage, " for better; or for worse".

Any other way gives room for loopholes!!

As a lady, if you are a marriage material, a damn good one then your guy would surely come back for you. Let him enjoy himself and stuffs. We guys have got brain , Yes! we know who is right & who is wrong. It's ladies that shouldn't cheat or do similar things. It's still ok if some ladies are saying the governor of so so so & so state was once my boo but not one guy saying i once banged the 1st lady . Noooooo
Leave your guy alone, no matter what he is doing, a part of him will always remind him he's got a marriage material some where which is you. Though you must not do anything ooo . Just zip up

It rarely works.

Just keep ur mind of evil or stop thinking about what he is doing now or whatever the circumstances and live free within ur mind and body if he loves u he do all the 80% calling an u will just do the 60%

For babymine it does work if only u practise

Just keep ur mind of evil or stop thinking about what he is doing now or whatever the circumstances and live free within ur mind and body if he loves u he do all the 80% calling an u will just do the 60%

For babymine it does work if only u practise

it good for Casanovas but bad for serious minded, loving guys. believe me.

it never workes unless if u r determined 2 keep in contact like call eachoda everyday

hey peeps! i really dont think it works, my present girlfrnd lost her ex boyfrnd because d guy's far away and mi, im alwys there 4 her! (i didnt mean to snatch her from d guy though, ) moreover, d guy'z not very serious wit da thin, alwys takn my girl for granted! we're fine 2geda but i alwy thnk abt somethn: wat if we're far away frm each othr too, does dat mean anoda idiot wud tak ma place??

long distance relationship still works, atleast if l was not really directly affected , l have a friend who now is married atfter a honest and sincere relationship witha girl outside nigeria for 6 years, so there are exception ooo

I believe it works!_{tlking from experience}