Hi guys,

I need objective views and not insults pls. All the guys i'v ever dated seem only to be interested in me for my looks. I'm not too attractive but some have called me sexy. i'm just wondering, are there guys out there who would care for a lady beyond the looks? cos its really annoying and debasing to be thought of in that capacity only..


One more thing i also wanna get views on this Mouth Action thing.. no offense but it seems most guys want that and i cant stoop so low to give it.. not especially since a friend of mine said she once did it and regretted ever since, that it made her feel really guilty and filthy... ladies, do you feel d same way, if and when u do it? what r your thoughts... thanks

nel.

Op...to ur first qtn,DRESS d way u wan'o be ADRESSED....Nudity AIN'T Beauty...if u'r d type dat loves 2 expose some part of d body dat shld be covered up,u'l def attract guys dat love 2 "look&touch"...i'm not saying u shld be uncomfortable wit ur dressing o buh apply some decorum...be classy aborrit and try 2 also knw somthngs abt a guy b4 u say YES,u get?
Abt d 2nd quenchion....eerrmmm,i leave dat 2 our fwends here

Sincere !!

I can hardly date or talk less of marrying someone her look will not make me feel geez geez* apart the looks then the legs must be taken good care of before my love can take measure , not necessary must be so beautiful but someone that take good care of her body

I can care for any lady but my own lady must have a take home look.

Fact, most guys love head and nothing is to regret if you do it without being force to do it, you can hold yourself to when you are marry then you will be happy and no regret because surely your partner will enjoy it and vice versa

prettyem: Op...to ur first qtn,DRESS d way u wan'o be ADRESSED....Nudity AIN'T Beauty...if u'r d type dat loves 2 expose some part of d body dat shld be covered up,u'l def attract guys dat love 2 "look&touch"...i'm not saying u shld be uncomfortable wit ur dressing o buh apply some decorum...be classy aborrit and try 2 also knw somthngs abt a guy b4 u say YES,u get?
Abt d 2nd quenchion....eerrmmm,i leave dat 2 our fwends here

thanks but i can assure u i dress decently. i just dont kw why i attract such guys.. i guess its a normal thing with them

nellynn:

thanks but i can assure u i dress decently. i just dont kw why i attract such guys.. i guess its a normal thing with them

its abnormal.

hahaha,wateva u xpose,b willing to share.yung lady,dress like a descent nd responsible woman,den responsible men ll come knockn at ur door.d way u talk nd behave to men also attributes to dia urge of touchn u,so mend ur ways,asociate wt gud frnds,be ur real sef nd men ll come. Am proud 'bot it,hv dated her for 10 ,wtout goin far wif it,y?cos she's desecent.

You don't have to be scared. It is just a touch. You don't have to be scared. It is just a touch.

Sorry oo.. Op, i feel ur pain


somehow

Just enjoy the whims.

[size=22pt][/size] lemme see her dp first. [/color]

Should be something about ur dressing n maybe painting that makes guys sees u only as a sex object .
I doubt true guys would be attracted to you , I also doubt u would like to be with a good guy. U just need more fun

Have you watched the way you dress around them ?

No pic and u want objective responses. Ok he wants to touch but by holding ur hand and walking along the beach watching the waves rise and fall as u make ur way to the nearest makeshift cabin.

It's easier for guys to identify wife materials and sex materials among girls so check the way you dress, talk and act.

Funny thread. Must you ask us?

nellynn: Hi guys,

I need objective views and not insults pls. All the guys i'v ever dated seem only to be interested in me for my looks. I'm not too attractive but some have called me sexy. i'm just wondering, are there guys out there who would care for a lady beyond the looks? cos its really annoying and debasing to be thought of in that capacity only..


One more thing i also wanna get views on this Mouth Action thing.. no offense but it seems most guys want that and i cant stoop so low to give it.. not especially since a friend of mine said she once did it and regretted ever since, that it made her feel really guilty and filthy... ladies, do you feel d same way, if and when u do it? what r your thoughts... thanks

nel.

.....you keep accepting the wrong guys.





oh...mouth action? i dear fear that thing since one gal bit off my friends di.ck .....i hrd it was as a result of concussion or something ....

Upload your picture or it's not true...

Don't worry OP. You've not reached the age of giving mouth action. Wait till you reach 35.

My dear, every guy wants sex even at the beginning of a relationship. Its left to you to let him know what you want and put your foot down. If you both are not okay with it then I feel you should talk a walk. Their wanting sex may not neccesarily be about your dressing.

hmmmmm no comment

Reconfirm your se.xuality. All the women i have known feel dejected if the men are not ogling at them and when the opportunity calls, touching them lovingly. If these positives are issues that you are quarelling with, i repeat, you need to confirm your s.exuality. For real.

Op, i'm sorry to say this, if you feel guys are only after you cos of ur kitty, its prolly because you have nothing else to offer(no diss intended). Try to Develop ursef intellectually, be creative, be handy and 'skilly', challenge those guys with reasonable ideas, get a swell aura/persona/finese (more like don't look or act cheap) and viola sis, there you have it

wetin dis geh dey yarn sef? [size=20pt]wetin b the size of ur b00bs? ny@n$h nko?[/size] forget about ur dressing joor? u just get the assets, na pipo like u dem dey use pillow handle!!