Honest answers pls...

I won't really feel bad cos she has only succeeded in losing what am trying to achieve, which is to be the best boyfriend and husband to my partner.

Life goes on!

It will hurt especially when u are deeply in love & have committed a lot to the relationship but sometimes we loose the ones we love and there is nothing we can do about it. Dats why its good to only give what you can afford & not to kill urself on any babe

It depends on d depth of my feelings. But one thing for sure, LIFE GOES ON!

For how long have you been planning this?

Hey, baby do you wanna say that to your guy? (just asking)
1: If he loves you, then there are many questions he'll ask you and all these questions will gear to making you withdraw your statement and stay! Unless you've got convincing answers to them. If you stand your ground about this, pray that he's matured enough cos he'll demand from you everything he has bought for you starting from shewing gum to others, esp money.
2: If he doesn't love you, hurrey! You've just given him the licence to flex. Also be ready to return something as well.
Breaking a mans heart can be very bad esp that moment he's trying to propose. Please baby if you ever wanna try this, make sure to juice it in a way he'll understand.

lol you guys are funny oo actually its just a question, am not saying this to my bf ooo..

Hmmm

you all have one thing in common, and that is u love ur gfs so much dat if they tell u guys this u guys will be heartbroken.

I've dated many girls and haven't really been inlove. My love 4 them is not deep, even if I try to concentrate on only one, Its still not working. If one or all of them tells me they don't love me anymore, It will be a relief 4 me, a chance to go into new relationship and see if I could fall inlove. My principle is, I don't tell a girl that I'm quiting a relationship, cox It will break her heart, so I try to avoid that. They only get fed-up with me and take a walk themself.

Alikaxon: I've dated many girls and haven't really been inlove. My love 4 them is not deep, even if I try to concentrate on only one, Its still not working. If one or all of them tells me they don't love me anymore, It will be a relief 4 me, a chance to go into new relationship and see if I could fall inlove. My principle is, I don't tell a girl that I'm quiting a relationship, cox It will break her heart, so I try to avoid that. They only get fed-up with me and take a walk themself.

I think the reason why you feel this way is because you have the mind set of the relationship will fail anyways. I think you should be more postive you know and see if you will actually fall in love..

I won't feel anything since i would just end the relationship.

Olugbenger: I won't feel anything since i would just end the relationship.

you wont be heartbroken?? that means you never loved her either.

Embrace the pain of letting go of that which is not good for you Step into it...you are stronger than the pain. You can survive and you will thrive again. Get off of the emotional roller coaster and take back your mind. Stop the rewind button and use the memories from your past to build a better life. People and situations show us parts of ourselves that we could never ever see by ourselves. Seek the wisdom, learn the lesson and move on. Always remember despite how you may feel you have something special you have GREATNESS within you.

Yours truly did this and I'm ballin and a better man. I see ladies now using all manner of scheming both emotional and otherwise to ballin into my life but am wiser and more matured now. It takes great courage and a disciplined mind to stand your ground in the heat and face of femine temptations.

Chubhie: Embrace the pain of letting go of that which is not good for you Step into it...you are stronger than the pain. You can survive and you will thrive again. Get off of the emotional roller coaster and take back your mind. Stop the rewind button and use the memories from your past to build a better life. People and situations show us parts of ourselves that we could never ever see by ourselves. Seek the wisdom, learn the lesson and move on. Always remember despite how you may feel you have something special you have GREATNESS within you.

Yours truly did this and I'm ballin and a better man. I see ladies now using all manner of scheming both emotional and otherwise to ballin into my life but am wiser and more matured now. It takes great courage and a disciplined mind to stand your ground in the heat and face of femine temptations.

wow i dont even know wat to say

lovelyronke20:

you wont be heartbroken?? that means you never loved her either.

No, i don't get heartbroken. Only love.

Olugbenger:


No, i don't get heartbroken. Only love.

Oh wow okay

Won't feel anything.....neva experienced dat,and I wonder Y none of d gals I've dated has never done dat

sweetestguy: Won't feel anything.....neva experienced dat,and I wonder Y none of d gals I've dated has never done dat

So how did they become your EXs?

If you have the guts to tell your man that you don't love him anymore i think you are a courageous woman. If he is a mature man he will simply let you go i think................. worst case scenario he has another chance to find someone who can love him. Who wants to be with someone who does not love him methinks its painful to be with someone you know does not want to be with you and then you keep trying to win the person's love when its a case of love impossible. On the other hand some people like to manage what they have.

Will just be angry I didn't break the news first to her....life goes on though.

Tolexander: I won't really feel bad cos she has only succeeded in losing what am trying to achieve, which is to be the best boyfriend and husband to my partner.

Life goes on!

God bless you man. I wish my Ex could read this and realise what she just lost.

I felt bad initially when she told me she doesnt love me anymore and dat she was having a strange feelings for me.......Now i'm the most happiest man on earth cos i'v got nothing to worry abt again.

xynerise:
So how did they become your EXs?

I'm d one dat usually leaves dem

Chubhie: Embrace the pain of letting go of that which is not good for you Step into it...you are stronger than the pain. You can survive and you will thrive again. Get off of the emotional roller coaster and take back your mind. Stop the rewind button and use the memories from your past to build a better life. People and situations show us parts of ourselves that we could never ever see by ourselves. Seek the wisdom, learn the lesson and move on. Always remember despite how you may feel you have something special you have GREATNESS within you.

Yours truly did this and I'm ballin and a better man. I see ladies now using all manner of scheming both emotional and otherwise to ballin into my life but am wiser and more matured now. It takes great courage and a disciplined mind to stand your ground in the heat and face of femine temptations.

feminine temptations is one of the hardest thing to resist, only guys that can control their emotion can do so, cox girls; they make u feel guilty 4 turning them off. I think this is the major reason I've had them plenty. They re on my neck, they know how to take advantage of my emotions. Just last week, a girl accused me of not calling her always, she said I don't even care if she exists. I pleaded with her that I'll change, with the way she sounded on phone, like she wants to cry, "very seducing voice" I was forced to beg her. Now, I make sure I always call her regularly, omg, she's about to be my gf now, we re planning a date. Hmmm, I feel guilty hurting them.

I won't feel bad..I will gladly let her go..its not by force for some 2 love U...I always tell my fellow men this : once u are connected with urself it bcomes difficult for u as a man to b heartbroken, plead for love, b lonely or desperate hence any babe who doesn't love u or see u as an asset to love and to keep is free 2 go

Drink lots of whiskey and sleep off! The following day after the hangover go out and get a replacement. Simple!

Its not a new thing nah, if a girl tells u that she doesn't love u anymore. Tell her ok, and look somewhere else, there are many fishes in the river jor

Chubhie: Embrace the pain of letting go of that which is not good for you Step into it...you are stronger than the pain. You can survive and you will thrive again. Get off of the emotional roller coaster and take back your mind. Stop the rewind button and use the memories from your past to build a better life. People and situations show us parts of ourselves that we could never ever see by ourselves. Seek the wisdom, learn the lesson and move on. Always remember despite how you may feel you have something special you have GREATNESS within you.

Yours truly did this and I'm ballin and a better man. I see ladies now using all manner of scheming both emotional and otherwise to ballin into my life but am wiser and more matured now. It takes great courage and a disciplined mind to stand your ground in the heat and face of femine temptations.

chubhie, are you talking from a personal experience or what?
Where is the she that i use(d) to know those days in school?

mehn! happened to me once....funny tin is,i did notin wrong.......my heart don strong pass dangote expired cement.....f**k love

Alikaxon: feminine temptations is one of the hardest thing to resist, only guys that can control their emotion can do so, cox girls; they make u feel guilty 4 turning them off. I think this is the major reason I've had them plenty. They re on my neck, they know how to take advantage of my emotions. Just last week, a girl accused me of not calling her always, she said I don't even care if she exists. I pleaded with her that I'll change, with the way she sounded on phone, like she wants to cry, "very seducing voice" I was forced to beg her. Now, I make sure I always call her regularly, omg, she's about to be my gf now, we re planning a date. Hmmm, I feel guilty hurting them.

Flee bro. She's probably gonna drain you emotionally and otherwise and then walk. You gonna be her pillar and her all n all but, when the chips are down she's gonna leave you high and dry. Never climb a fence for one who may never cross a gutter for you. Emotional vampires abound. Guard yourself properly.