ednut1: hack her facebook. it reveals all cos pple dont boda to delete msgs der. once dated a saint bt d day I hack d facebook na 3 of us dey share am. tank me later

gambudu: na so

ednut1: hack her facebook. it reveals all cos pple dont boda to delete msgs der. once dated a saint bt d day I hack d facebook na 3 of us dey share am. tank me later

vizkiz:

i jst prefer d ''q'' to ''g'' jst my kindda style of typing...n 4 d advice we hv been datinq nw almost 4yrs can u qo dt lonq without fallinq ''too much inlove'' with a girl M nt a kid bro i knw wuh m sayinq here...jst need an advice b4 i do sumtin i miqht reqret

E be like sey you dey craze for head... You'd better start typing properly whenever you are on this platform so we know where your problem is coming from.

vizkiz:
...she jst keep usinq d word ''u knw m a girl n quys would qo after me'' crazy!

tellwisdom:
E be like sey you dey craze for head... You'd better start typing properly whenever you are on this platform so we know where your problem is coming from.

i'v been expectinq 2 see who d 1st crazy dude z qonna b. . .bro i beq u wif God DNT mess WITH ME!!!!

Goldenboy007: Another love story...#walks out of the room and slams door#

dnt 4qt 2 take ur Sh.it wif yuh @sshol£

2s£xy:


A fool and a bastard once said those words to me and started fvcking the dude...

Becareful.

You love her and care about the relationship that's why you are worried, but is she worried?

It's understandable that girls don't like it when you sound insecure and don't trust them.

My question is, do you intend to marry her? If no, then you should let her wander wherever she likes. At least you don chop her too cos trust me, Naija girls hardly survive long term relationships and she is likely not gonna be and exception.

I see her already having fun with other dudes and it's only a matter of time before she falls completely for any of them.

When a girl wants to opt out of a relationship, she could tactically make it your fault cos we guys are impatient and often can't hide our jealousy.

2s£xy:


A fool and a bastard once said those words to me and started fvcking the dude...

Becareful.

You love her and care about the relationship that's why you are worried, but is she worried?

2s£xy:
it's understandable that girls don't like it when you sound insecure and don't trust them.

2s£xy:

My question is, do you intend to marry her? If no, then you should let her wander wherever she likes. At least you don chop her too cos trust me, Naija girls hardly survive long term relationships and she is likely not gonna be and exception.

2s£xy:

I see her already having fun with other dudes and it's only a matter of time before she falls completely for any of them.

When a girl wants to opt out of a relationship, she could tactically make it your fault cos we guys are impatient and often can't hide our jealousy.

vizkiz:

i'v been expectinq 2 see who d 1st crazy dude z qonna b. . .bro i beq u wif God DNT mess WITH ME!!!!

May mad man fart on your face. Anuofia

WackyJ1: Ah 2sexy don calm down, see mild advice.. But he has covered most of the points that i wanted to say but i will expantiate


The main point that he is trying to put across here is that
1. It is a common fact that he who loves less Holds the cards in the relationship, this is not fiction it is fact.
2. It takes two to be in a relationship, there has to be commitment, if you are the only one that is worried or showing concern and she is not then there is trouble and the relationship is almost over.
The main thing you should do is not to be ceasely disturbing yourself over what she is doing when she is not even worried that what she is doing is wrecking the relationship because you must understand that you cannot enjoy a relationship where the other person is not putting his mind into it


This is so true, one thing that girls hate is someone who is insecure and possesive, someone who shows excessive jealousy. It makes them feel clogged up and almost caged and restricted and most of them want to be free. Insecurity makes you seem weak and it is infact a weakness and in the long run it will benefit you nothing instead you will end up losing the girl you love.

Ever since i discovered that, i have come to hate insecurity with perfect hatred, i would rather slit my own throat than to come and be forming macho jealous boyfriend instead if i were to suspect fojl play i would do what i am noe advicing you to do
1. Talk to her about my fears ( pointing out the fact that if she leaves i would not die but adding that nevertheless i love her and want her to stay, explaining the meaning of commitment to her)
2. Start focusing on other girls (this works wonders for your insecurity ) and even activate a backup package.. It is always good to keep your girl suspicious but never gt caught, they like it. I was once a mumu preaching fidelity and chasing girls attracted to me away but i learnt the hard way.


From what you have told us here OP , i can deduce that you started dating the girl when she was a fresher and she has not been with anyone else but you.
4 years has gone and like someone rightly pointed out she might be getting bored and shr wants to taste what else is out there, there is no fighting it, it is natural, instead follow the advice i gavr above and peradventure you can't prevent it, ALWAYS KEEP A BACKUP HANDY


Op now that you know what the girl is planning, you must do the opposite
1. Keep quiet and watch
2. Get busy with other ladies
3. Always be ready to get hard proof of her infidelity
4. Be ready to lose her if need be

2s£xy:


LOl... Yeah. I have calmed down because I now see Nairaland for it is... Just a forum. Besides, I am becoming less and less active this days but don't know why. I see me existing Nairaland but don't know when.

But man, you don carry PhD for my head and I still dey Bsc.

femcruz: BROS U Bleep UP, U AV GIVEN HER TOO MUCH CONFIDENCE THAT SHE AINT REPLACABLE, U LOVE A WOMAN 100% IN HEART BUT SHOW HER 65%, MY LIL ADVICE IS TO REDUCE ALL U DOING DEN WEN SHE COMPLAINS THEN LET HER KNW ITS COS OF HER NEW ATTITUDE

vizkiz: So my qf started actinq stranqe(donno wt d prob is) we hav nt been 2qether since d strike (ASUU) started her phone is always on hold n anytime i asked who she's chatinq with,she would say someone (so i dnt need 2 knw?) even when we chat on either BBM, Fb or whatsApp she replies my msq like 3-4 minz after i send any msq if i complain,she wuld say i dnt trust her n infact she wuld tell me she's beqininq 2 qt tired of my complains...i am feelinq jealous n anqry...i jst need an advice! Wt shuld i do

vizkiz:

yeah i'v qat oda female frnds(even some dt wanna qo out wif me)buh i cnt(i'm nt qay oooh) its jst cuz i'm stuck wif dis girl...like i said i was d 1st quy she ever had sex wif(and still d only)i knw dis...she's qat qood attitude...she's also a wife material(200yards) buh she's chanqinq Frm wt i use 2 knw her 2 b...i jst wish i culd do sumtin dt wuld let her knw m nt happy n @ d same tym nt break her hrt..do u understand wuh m tryinq 2 say?

vizkiz: lemmie say d truth, ma girl z a kindda girl dt trusts me alot...even if she sees wif wif oda qurls, she knws there's notinq btwn us(i tink she has d confidence dat i cnt leave her) ... There was dis tym she came 2 my room n saw a girl on my bed (thouqh d girl has sumfin in mind) buh she didnt act out she jst said HI n sat down wif d girl...infact dey were talkinq like dey hav been frnds 4 lonq weird riqht?

femcruz: BROS U Bleep UP, U AV GIVEN HER TOO MUCH CONFIDENCE THAT SHE AINT REPLACABLE, U LOVE A WOMAN 100% IN HEART BUT SHOW HER 65%, MY LIL ADVICE IS TO REDUCE ALL U DOING DEN WEN SHE COMPLAINS THEN LET HER KNW ITS COS OF HER NEW ATTITUDE

vizkiz:

ur riqht bro...buh its nt easy cheatinq on her buh i'll work on it....tnx bro

pc guru:

Just because you chat with her doesn't mean she's chatting with only you, she could be chatting with relatives,friends ,family etc. am guilty of this, i don't like responding to my babe on Whatsapp because i know it will lead to a 1hour chat which to me is too much for idle chats, if she calls then what's your stress ? I don't question my babe on who's she's chatting with because frankly i don't care, if your relationship will work out it will and if it won;t it won;t

Energito: i dont have my girlfriend on facebook,whatsapp or even 2go

i feel ur pain