Sagamite:

You are a pure person!

I bet, to you, a proper black man and woman are the type that raise hoodrats like you like Black Panther moorons who point the finger of failure on everthing and every conspiracy on Earth than their own pure stuuuupidity.

No wonder you open your legs to jailbird thugs and become a useless baby mama.

Yes, you did have poor upbringing. I did not.

A man, the type with a fantastic brain and who understand his responsibilities, raised, praised and mentored me. A woman with the right emotional balance and top brain provided the loving touch.

Right from childhood, they drummed it in my heard not to be like you. No wonder when I am at work, I am the ONLY nigga, BLLLAAACCCK, in the room commanding shyt. Talking authoritatively to white people, even those that are more senior becuase of my BULLISH confidence. While you are visiting baby fathers in different prison compounds.

person! You are a monkey. I agree with the KKK!

I am sure when you say you have seen confident successful black men, you meant big time drug dealers?

Sagamite:

You are a pure person!

I bet, to you, a proper black man and woman are the type that raise hoodrats like you like Black Panther moorons who point the finger of failure on everthing and every conspiracy on Earth than their own pure stuuuupidity.

No wonder you open your legs to jailbird thugs and become a useless baby mama.

Yes, you did have poor upbringing. I did not.

A man, the type with a fantastic brain and who understand his responsibilities, raised, praised and mentored me. A woman with the right emotional balance and top brain provided the loving touch.

Right from childhood, they drummed it in my heard not to be like you. No wonder when I am at work, I am the ONLY nigga, BLLLAAACCCK, in the room commanding shyt. Talking authoritatively to white people, even those that are more senior becuase of my BULLISH confidence. While you are visiting baby fathers in different prison compounds.

person! You are a monkey. I agree with the KKK!

I am sure when you say you have seen confident successful black men, you meant big time drug dealers?

Baby mama:
Chai!
God punish the Nigerian rulers that caused mothers to flee Naija but end up in ghettos in the west,on welfare cleaning toilets and leaving the children to the streets
Pele

bisiopinion:

Lol are you one of his disciples? The above comment suggests you might have a little fire in you too.

Baby mama: Let me warn people in Nigeria at this juncture,who are planing on emigrating to the west
I am Avery serious now
If you have young children and are granted visas to the West,do your homework well before emigrating
Ask questions
Abroad dey and abroad dey
Don't make the mistake some of our people make by moving into council flat ghettos with your young impressionable children
Then you leave them lane to do menial work to put food on the table all in the name of living abroad
Rarely do they turn out right
They come out for the most part gangster agbero street kids with no social or coping skills and low self esteem
Remember the Nigerian terrorist killers and the many gang banging street Nigerian kids in England
They were once bundles of joy on the laps of a doting mother

You only have one opportunity with your children
Once you lose it,they are lost forever
A menial working thug commanding fellow menial workers should not be anyone's dream for their children

Baby mama:
It can be done
The joy of a mother is well adjusted children on the right path
If I ended up with a son like sagamite ( God forbid), I would have failed
Not my portion in Jesus Mighty name

Seyixyz: Honestly,i've been forced to comment..Sagamite,you made some valid point but really,even uncultured people living in environment with little or no prospect don't talk or comment the way u do..I bet your British Uni colleagues will tell you the same thing..Have fun insulting me if your body gets hyper-reactive after reading my last sentence..Thats your problem..I won't join myself in exchanging degenerating words with you.Be that as it may be,i learnt alot from you all..Save alone for the childish insultive words traded here..My good friend always tells me that we have "Educated Illitrates" in the society..I think some comments here has just validated that point to me..Thank you all

Baybe: You too? I'm nice but I'm the opposite of those things you mentioned.

Matthew briggs: I think the problem we are having here is the definition of what NICENESS really means

If NICENESS means boring, clingy, moody, teary, and subservient. if means calling 25 times a day to know where and how he is, if it means slaving your a**ss out, like a servant who bends to his every whims and caprices, it it means you have no life, no passion no dreams, hence your life revolves around him, If means not been confident in yourself and your assets, If means always been scared that he would dump you, and that if he does dump you, your life is over ... I bet you no sane guy wouldn't near such girl.

But if NICENESS means... been respectful, courteous, caring, observant, humble, a nurturer, Kind and loving. If it means seeing yourself as an individual with a life, a passion, an opinion and treating others the way you expect to be treated. If means no been proud or rude but humble and cordial. If means knowing your worth and carrying yourself with confidence... If It means been responsible, less selfish and focusing your energy in building your man. I bet you, guys would kill to have you

The question is what sort of NICE lady are you.

Moreover I would to add that Guys go for in quote" rude/wild girls" because they know it's easy to get laid with them, and they are fun to be with, they see them as a play thing and in most cases use them as side chicks.

Guys will be guys they might play and goof around but when it comes to settling down, they scout for ms Nice (look at my second definition of niceness), a girl that remind them of their mother. They choose Nice girls to build a life with, some even go as far as going to the village to find her. Because they know they are dependable, trustworthy, and reliable.

In summary Niceness is a very good virtue for every, woman that has the mind set of getting married some day, be you lacking in the looks department or looking like a model.

Infact when it comes to marriage men look at personality more than beauty. When it comes to sex and having fun men look at beauty more than personality. The question is would you prefer to be a man's plaything or a wife.

A case study is my handsome uncle who was a ladies man but when he decided to settle down, I was personally shocked at his choice, he chose someone who most people might consider lacking in the looks department when compared to him. I asked him why he said she sooo nice, humble and caring etc.

Moreover, in my personal opinion to keep a relationship and nurture in it towards marriage, which happens to be the challenge most nice girls face... you need to keep things interesting...

I think Nice girls in qoute need to borrow some good traits from the so called wild girls. Traits like been fun, exciting, independent, lively, energetic, confident and happy.

You need to be what I call a Nice bitch

In summary Niceness is a very good attribute for a woman to have. Its one key attribute that would make a man consider putting a ring on it even if you are lacking in other department ...don't lose it.. not for anything, not for an unthoughtfully composed NL post.

#Mathew briggs.

Boss13: Why would the good girls get married when the only thing they do is to observe. They see a guy they like, they start praying to God for him to look their way instead of getting to work. When he finally notices you, you still pray he feels for you, and if he does have feelings for you, instead of working hard to make the relationship, you just start observing and complaining leaving him bored. A crazy gal understands the rhythm of men, knows when he is into her, work to make him love her and fights to make the relationship work.

Many good girls are lazy in relationship, have poor social lives, not good on bed (cos their pastor says pre-marital sex is bad and to make their matter worse, do not know how to either cook good food or lack the interest to do so.

Who would want to leave a lady (regardless of how pretty she is) who is fun to be with, blow your brains out with good sex, reasons with you and also push you to achieve things.

The world is changing ladies, if you make the first move, you ain't cheap. It shows you know what you want and if a guy thinks your cheap, he is immature, outdated and needs to live up to the realities of the 21st century. You cannot get and keep a man if you are waiting, observing and praying. You have to work for it and work very hard too.

Sagamite:

You are a person!

I told you that you were dumb.

First of all, who told you I seek a successful relationship? You think I am the type to follow what you wish?

Secondly, cretin, show me where I claim to be a "relationship expert"?

Your dumbarse think you can strawman me?

Me, Sagamite?

You are a pure person!

sollkay: Wat ι̥ tink bout dis is just dat most nyc gurls r just ignorant nd very choosy.....they r d ones dat prefer hot guys rather Dan cool nd nice guys that's y D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ fall victims τ̲̅ȍ bad relatnships nd gets dumped later on......U̶̲̥̅̊ knw bad guys r ones wif d wryt words while dose nyc guys r too shy or too full of conscience τ̲̅ȍ lie τ̲̅ȍ d gurl D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ luv.........ι̥ prefer nyc nd beautiful gurls.......gurls dat get themselves into situatn like dis r just too cheap τ̲̅ȍ fall for sweet words......xoxo

sweet-tease:

The only rubbish i see here is your post! How does dat feel? You don't call people's idea rubbish cos you can't relate to it! I don't tink your post is rubbish cos its your opinion but i just wantd to proove a point.


FACT 1 i have always been nice and its not cos of your given reasons plus i know a whole lot of gals like me (i know how to pick my friends). Some crazy gals aren't as beautiful as we are but i used to think we are just unfortunate until i realized most of us have 'being nice' in common.



FACT 2 in case you don't know, the nice attitude that makes nice guys vulnerable does the same to nice gals, they experiment with a whole lot of rubbish cos you are too nice to do anything.... Don't ask me how i know.




FACT 3 you fail to understand dat he wasn't speaking literarily, he was talking about a case where a nice gal has the normal attracting traits YET *you know the rest*



The point is, there are stil nice gals with the looks and personality with shitty relationships.

Charlesamino:
U may nt be borin bt if i shld jugde u by ur comments especialy joining issues with som1,u nt nice @al

Don't judge people by their disposition on NL honey

Charlesamino:
U may nt be borin bt if i shld jugde u by ur comments especialy joining issues with som1,u nt nice @al

Skinni10ne:

Rambo ingrish?

You said you went to an elite school in Great Britain? Hmm. You're a philosopher, allegory of the cave? im sure you know it. It explains the situation you are in...

You have proved my point that you are in a ghetto circle and all you see are reflections of yourself. And ur right you are worse than a racist white man. Ghetto black ppl do not dominate the black society...in my world i see hardworking black ppl, esp Nigerians, doing their best, doing their part. Bad apples always outshine the good that is why many other races and yourself believe most black ppl (black women) are ghetto. A belief, perception sold by the media and you are buying it.

This is my last post to you.

Truckpusher: Why are you trying to educate that animal ?
He's suffering from delusion of grandeur when he's absolutely nothing ,probably hating himself for being mentally backward ,wouldn't accept his place in the society where he exists.

I've been there Mr Sagamite,especially when you're outside the shores of Africa and rejected by the other society(whites, Asians, even fellow African American for being a continental African) and relegated to the backyard of the social activities of that society.

I know exactly what you are passing through ,you hate yourself ,you hate your color and most of your hatred you have reserved for the black race because you were rejected for being black ....SMH......I CAN ONLY PRAY THAT YOU DON'T END UP DOING SOMETHING STUPIID AND END UP IN JAIL OR DEAD , because i have been in your shoes and i understand the subtle emotional blackmail you go through in the hands of this people that is making you to hate yourself and your own color and people........try eh and find your self esteem and in no time you'll be accepted since it is what you crave for like the baby that you are......animal.

Truckpusher: Why are you trying to educate that animal ?
He's suffering from delusion of grandeur when he's absolutely nothing ,probably hating himself for being mentally backward ,wouldn't accept his place in the society where he exists.

I've been there Mr Sagamite,especially when you're outside the shores of Africa and rejected by the other society(whites, Asians, even fellow African American for being a continental African) and relegated to the backyard of the social activities of that society.

I know exactly what you are passing through ,you hate yourself ,you hate your color and most of your hatred you have reserved for the black race because you were rejected for being black ....SMH......I CAN ONLY PRAY THAT YOU DON'T END UP DOING SOMETHING STUPIID AND END UP IN JAIL OR DEAD , because i have been in your shoes and i understand the subtle emotional blackmail you go through in the hands of this people that is making you to hate yourself and your own color and people........try eh and find your self esteem and in no time you'll be accepted since it is what you crave for like the baby that you are......animal.

Truckpusher: Why are you trying to educate that animal ?

Sagamite:

person, another pile of moronic conjectures and no sense?

You sure would fit baby mama and montisweet very well.

Another dumb nigga that can donate sperm to produce the next batch of cretinous and useless black kids blaming the whole world for their failure.

Another dumb nigga that can donate sperm to produce the next batch of cretinous and useless black kids blaming the whole world for their failure.

Skinni10ne:

To be honest, I dont know.

Every intelligent black person with good upbringing knows his type, the blacks who are drowning in self hate and inferiority complex.

Truckpusher: The black race is on the rise and we'd be more than to happy to have you make a hangman's noose right now and save the next generations some pains.They can't afford to have your moronic gene sticking out it's ugly head when it gets all rosy.


Your hate yourself for being black because you've been psychologically beaten and all you see in the black man's life is nothing but a defeated backward people with no hope ,abi?.....but here is the truth; you are a lazy lowlifer that never had anything close to a good life prior to your travelling abroad with high expectations on your mind, but alas reality hits you in the face, that was when it dawned on your lazy self that there is no free meal and the streets of the Western countries aren't flowing with money and all the goodies Africa couldn't give you ,to add pepper to your injury you weren't accepted because of your color and this is what is constantly making you to go to war with yourself and the black race.

Truckpusher: I believe he's still a teenager and needs a lot of help .

The subtle emotional blackmail he must have been through as a child, teenager and up to this very moment must have been unprecedented.....smh