Jenams: I admire ur laughter, n I remember u mentioned ''quality'' as ur requirement, but wat I dnt understand is ur subtle way to insult boys. #shines eyes @caracta, ''owa alright?

Caracta:

It's not an insult. Rather, it describes what I think of you. I mentioned I don't lead a guy on without telling him my feelings but you insisted I do. No wahala.

I'm still waiting for that Amen.

coache: Hello nairalanders, please help a brother. the story is long but I'll just summarise. In 2008, I had a female friend who was always coming to my shop. She was in SS2 then while I was awaiting my admission. She is a very pretty girl and had a lot of guys asking her out of which she always tells me about and I'll advise her on what to do because she was very young. I really admired her but refused to fall for her beauty due to the role i was playing for her but never knew she had a crush on me. This continued for some months till her dad beat her up in my shop one evening. The next day she came around and promised never to com to my shop again since her dad embarrassed her because of me. For the past five years each time we were both in town and I tried talking to her she always pushed me away not until towards the ending of this year that she actually gave me a chance and we became friends again. She told me she was alone and that I made her close her heart to guys. She wouldn't agree with me that I was only protecting her then. I noticed she was still much into me just like I'm into her too. Since I believe we were both ready now cos I'm currently serving and she's in her finals, decided to ask her out.she refused and claimed not to love me yet we are close and sometimes we kissed. She kisses me so deeply yet tells me she don't love me. Please is she for real? Or she just wants to hurt me? Please friends I really need your sincere advise. Thanks

Jenams: not after u answer my question. Are u okay?

Caracta:

I'll say the Amen for you.

Sarah a: oh boy this your last pharagraph na die. So which kind pepper you want ,is it ripe or unripe pepper? Lol

Sarah a: oh boy this your last pharagraph na die. So which kind pepper you want ,is it ripe or unripe pepper? Lol

hrtbeat: Op u shud press on, I think she just wants to knw how criouz u r. It happened to me, I had a friend we were so close we both new we luvd each oda buh wen he asked me out, I refused fo no just cause buh after a wyl, I came around, so jes b patient, we ladies cud b complicated at tyms

Blackeard: dude I've read a book like this...and it didn't end well. U say she kisses u "deeply"? Define "deep".

coache:
That kind of kiss that the lady will melt in ur arms, kissing you with the whole of her heart and you'll wish it could last forever and when you want to stop, she still holds on to you so tight...........wait a minute I'm I really explaining a deep kiss to dis dude?..........bros are you a learner??

hrtbeat: Op u shud press on, I think she just wants to knw how criouz u r. It happened to me, I had a friend we were so close we both new we luvd each oda buh wen he asked me out, I refused for no just cause buh after a wyl, I came around, so jes b patient, we ladies cud b complicated at tyms

Matthew briggs: MOVE ON sharpely... It will surprise you that there is someone better in the offing...

From my experince most girls love attention, they love to be cherised and in most cases they may not really love a guy but like the attention he gives them.

Most of them may go on to keep him as a tool to feed that need.
just as some keep some guys to feed their financial needs.

The sick thing is that, they may play along really well making it look like you've hit jackpot, but the good thing is that they drop subtle hints that their mind is not with you.

In summary
#If you have to beg to be loved or buy her love, or work too much to be loved... MOVE ON
#If your love is not been receprocated MOVE ON
#If she can't look you in the eyes tell you she loves you after dating a while MOVE ON.
#If her action and mouth are saying different things MOVE ON.
#As a guy if you have doubts whether a girls love you chance are that she doesn't. it would be in your best intrest to MOVE ON.

When a girl is in love with you, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you that she is.

MOVING ON can be painful but the fact remains it is the only way that can open you up to new and in most cases BETTER experiences.


#Mathew Briggs.

Matthew briggs: MOVE ON sharpely... It will surprise you that there is someone better in the offing...

From my experince most girls love attention, they love to be cherised and in most cases they may not really love a guy but like the attention he gives them.

Most of them may go on to keep him as a tool to feed that need.
just as some keep some guys to feed their financial needs.

The sick thing is that, they may play along really well making it look like you've hit jackpot, but the good thing is that they drop subtle hints that their mind is not with you.

In summary
#If you have to beg to be loved or buy her love, or work too much to be loved... MOVE ON
#If your love is not been receprocated MOVE ON
#If she can't look you in the eyes tell you she loves you after dating a while MOVE ON.
#If her action and mouth are saying different things MOVE ON.
#As a guy if you have doubts whether a girls love you chance are that she doesn't. it would be in your best intrest to MOVE ON.

When a girl is in love with you, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you that she is.

MOVING ON can be painful but the fact remains it is the only way that can open you up to new and in most cases BETTER experiences.


#Mathew Briggs.

Blackeard: I had to ask, maybe his definition of deep is different.

Eeja Nla01: I personally don't ask them to date me anymore,my attitude towards you ill tell I want you,so your body language ill determine my next move

Ms_ShaQ: Talk to her and apologise to her again for the issue wt her Dad .....den tell her u hav gotten anoda galfriend u want to b sincere nd open wt the new gal..... all am saying is try to mk her jealous nd c her reaction. Some of us just need to b pushed nd den we act.









My 2 naira!

coache:
Thanks dear......I just hope by the time she'll make up her mind I won't have moved on..

crackhaus:
SMH!!!
That part in bold has nothing to do with being complicated, but everything to do with confusion and not knowing what you want. Simples!

Sarah a: So na kolo people full here?lol

Sarah a: So na kolo people full here?lol

Caracta: She said she doesn't love you...then she doesn't. She probably needs you to service her once in a while...more like a tool. You have been friend-zoned. Please move on.

Kissing doesn't equate to love and acceptance. You can't force it.

And in case she lied about it, you would know through her reaction when you leave her.

Caracta: Just be careful. I'm a woman and I know how these things work...to an extent. I can show you love whereas I feel nada for you...until I profess my love.

I can even stick around with you for years or a couple of months...however, giving you hints that I feel nada. It's left for you to believe me or read the handwriting on the wall. And if you decide to wallow in your fantasy, e no consign me

All the best