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A Must For Every Lady by Aminat508(f): 1:02pm On Dec 31, 2013
11 Things Every Lady Should Know (MUST SEE)
Here are 11 things every lady should know
1. Few things are more important than your
health. Schedule regular physicals and gyno
appointments. Learn how to do a chest exam.
And never be afraid to talk to a doctor if you
suspect something is wrong, no matter how
embarrassing — as merulian wrote, “they’ve
seen it all before and they will not be alarmed.”
2. You don’t have to want kids. That’s not to say
that knowing you do want children is bad — of
course, it’s not. But opting out of motherhood is
also a completely valid choice, no matter how
much flak you may get for it from your family
and friends. As memory-eater wrote:
You can have any reason you like for not
wanting kids — a desire to keep your life for
yourself, a dislike of children, a fear of
pregnancy. There is an intense pressure for
women to procreate, and most people out there
aren’t going to understand the decision. F*ck
‘em. It’s your life, and your womb. No one can
predict what you will or will not regret.
3. Always pee after s*x. This will get rid of
bacteria that may have accumulated in your
urethra, lessening the chance that you’ll
contract a urinary tract infection (UTI). And if
you do have a UTI, heed miss-adler’s advice: “If
you have a UTI and your back starts to hurt
really bad and you become feverish… it’s ER
time.”
4. Make sure your bra actually fits. It’s also a
good idea to get re-measured every couple of
years, especially if your body shape has
changed.
5. Cold water gets blood out of fabric, and hot
water sets blood to stain. If you get blood on
clothing, rinse it with cold water ASAP. Then
you can wash it as usual.
6. Your body is not weird. We think
HeeeyAssbutt said it best:
b**bs, bellies, legs, feet, ears, noses,
EVERYTHING comes in all different sizes,
shapes, and levels of hairiness. Quit judging
yourself and others on the size of a thigh gap,
how much belly comes out over the top of
jeans, and how many damn chins someone has.
7. You don’t need to apologize for everything.
As ohmycat points out, “It’s only two words but
saying it 10 times a day every day will start to
affect how you view yourself and others around
you. ”
8. Basic home and car maintenance. Why rely
on someone else to help you with simple tasks?
According to vogueadishu, “You should always
have a basic tool set in your house and know
how to use [it], and the same with the trunk of
your car.”
9. Be true to yourself. We couldn’t have put it
better than Alexispinpgh: “Be exactly as funny,
independent, smart, sexy, annoying,
complicated, and talkative as you are. Someone
will appreciate it and they’re the ones you want
to appreciate you anyway.”
10. It’s better to be alone than with the wrong
partner. Funchy’s advice to heterosexual
women can be applied to almost any romantic
relationship: “You cannot and should not try to
change the other person. If you can’t accept and
love him as he is, he’s not right for you. If he
doesn’t make you happy as he is, move on.”
11. “Feminist” is not a dirty word, contrary to
what some celebrities would have you believe.
We agree with zombiekittiez on this one: “If
something isn’t fair or isn’t right, you don’t
have to keep quiet and act like a ‘lady.’ You are
a person before you are a woman.”
Re: A Must For Every Lady by captcochrane(m): 1:08pm On Dec 31, 2013
oooooh! i rememba u, u hate doctors



let me read ur post first
Re: A Must For Every Lady by Aminat508(f): 1:11pm On Dec 31, 2013
captcochrane: oooooh! i rememba u, u hate doctors



let me read ur post first
lolzz
Re: A Must For Every Lady by captcochrane(m): 1:17pm On Dec 31, 2013
Aminat508: lolzz

dont let me derail dis thread, but u're going to tel me y u hate doctors - am not 1 but i lyk dem
Re: A Must For Every Lady by Justeenaleo(f): 5:29pm On Dec 31, 2013
Great smiley

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