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Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:22pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
cococandy:Yea, he is disciplined, I never had reason to doubt his faithfulness, I believe some of p his friends aren't happy he holds me in that much esteem(they think he's given me all the power) but he couldn't care less. Yea, he sulks longer and walai, it kinda pisses me off, I mean like "snap out of it already" I called it off sometime but I'm not so sure anymore and I know nothing's changed on his side. There's something he said that makes me feel something I can't explain "It's okay to have expectations as people grow to want new things and I understand, I'd love to be all you want but I can't do anything about the physical features you want, but I'm still hoping that someday, you'll come saying 'please just take me back as I was a f00l to let you go' I want more than anything for this to happen and I hope I'll still be here that day" |
Re: Girls night out discussions by BABE3: 4:24pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne: issokay. I'm doing good. I'm sure you are too. freecocoa: lol. Worefa, my friend. I get an 'A' for effort. edwife: chei. So as I was writing my vegan-journey epistle the other day, everybody already concluded that it was initial gra-gra? lol. I'm embarrassed. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by edwife(f): 4:25pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Lol bukatyne,i forgot then went on to do something else. @damiso I am someone who believe in sacrifices in marriage.If it is for our future,i will be right there supporting the movement.Being together doesn't stop anyone from divorcing or being cheated on..... When you already have kids and together understand the dynamic of a family,the decision needs to be mutual and most importantly the need to organize yourselves on how it should play out.. However it will be easy for a couple who have been married for years than for a newly wedded one,but in all you can only try this with someone that has the same mindset and purpose in life as you do. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:25pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:Ah! Aunty me, I don steal the thunder? Biko no vex o, you know most of you have found "the one" make una just help me, as we all can need some guidance at some point, make una bear with me, for me to post this here, it's obviously serious biko. Marriage is one place I want to get it very right, if I must do marriage, it has to be right. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by damiso(f): 4:26pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
moca: well said moca |
Re: Girls night out discussions by damiso(f): 4:27pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
edwife: Yeah i think its easier for a couple married longer. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 4:31pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
moca: I didn't meant that in a bad way. Babe knows. 1 Like |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:31pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
standd:it's me madam, the cats out the bag, get with the program. Believe me, she was very much in love at some point(reason why it ran into years,duh!) I just feel I'm not letting myself admire his great qualities because of my lalaland conviction. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 4:33pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Don't be. I just felt you'd done enough already. All the exercise and clean eating. BABE3: |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:36pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
damiso:Ok then, we are not dating right now though, I called it off, I don't want to just go back to him cos I can't bear to see him hurt again, should I decide he's not what I want, again. I will give it time, but I miss him. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 4:38pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Truth is you both will never have the same values on everything. My hubby can never never marry a lady younger than him. It once got heated till I was WTF? 'I am 4yrs younger' so what's the P? I can never get younger, we are married already etc. Most of the argument might never even affect you guys e.g. stance on legalized gay marriage etc. Besides, him tilting to your side and holding unto some of his shows a very very good man there who is willing to compromise. I will say he is a keeper. freecocoa: Anger.... as far as he is rational, no P @refinement: Marriage has a funny way of refining men, never mind the mouth they make here . If he is willing to change, you will be surprised with time. For the mean time, you can get the clothes you want to see him in and other stuffs. Re taller: he can never get taller than he is. You either get used to it or let him go freecocoa: You have his love and respect, 100% check You love him, 100% check. Admiration grows with time except if the values you want in a guy are tall, sharp rich as opposed to love, respect etc. etc. freecocoa: Extremely trivial and she is in lalaland. You see that perfect sharp young man with impeccable manners you see? Marry him and you will know he spits all over the bathroom or snores or as very terrible manners. At the end, the tall or sharp will not matter in the grand scheme of things. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:39pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
moca:Blame it on mills and boons. Thanks for you input. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 4:39pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
cococandy:I know too. Just pulling ur legs. How r u today? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
moca: Fineeeee |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: lol Get your head out of the clouds then and be realistic. I really don't believe in mushy-mushy love so the answer to your question is deep within your own heart. Can you live with this man 'forever' ? Do you respect him? (his opinions even when you don't totally agree with him) Are you loyal to him( or you are already eyeing taller men) Do you both have mutual interests? See, coco, there are no perfect people anywhere. Oh, if this man truly love you( and you are sure of this), how can you even throw true love away? How? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 4:42pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Lol@ steal thunder I thought we wanted to go back to the initial topic. I have dropped my thoughts @Bold: 100% true |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:45pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:You got the picture well. I'm not gay, neither is he, yet when we argue on the subject, I want him to see it my own way(i cast out every spirit of ITK in me) you know if I'm being totally honest, I just think am more intelligent and I guess it kinda bothers me, chai! Make una pray for me o. Thanks a lot. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by BABE3: 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: This one wants idris h-elba. He's coming o, you hear. Make the wedding a december wedding... coz that's when your homegirl will be in 9ja. Aseobi should be red in color. Red is in vogue. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Nobody: 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne: U r right Buky but my fear is she is not at peace with his so called flaws. It's ok since she has admitted it's too much novels. Freecocoa, reprogramme ur mind to accept d flaws. Eg,i hate people that snores so much cos I will be deprived of my precious sleep. D first time me and hubby slept together,gal see drumming(lol) I was awake all night I was like"is this what I will condone for the rest of our sleeping together!" But since I was at peace with my soul over him,i quickly adapted. Started looking for solution to d snoring thing. And if it disturbs me, I will go to another rm and sleep. The cause was discovered and medically dealt with. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: How did you come to that conclusion? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 4:50pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
moca: She got to do a SWOT analysis and see if his strengths surpasses his weaknesses. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by edwife(f): 4:53pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Try to do what i advised you and see if you can find an answer. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:54pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:Ehen there's this thing that might only be important on the list that I forgot(see my life) I have taken this atheism thing really serious and I don't know what will ever make me go back and he's christian, in the course of our relationship, we talked about it a lot and he's cool with it but expects I accept and understand his, he says I talk to him like he's stup1d when we debate about God and religion, he said he knows it will sound like "just talk" when he says even if it means foregoing a church wedding, but that he's willing to do that for me. Do you still think it will be great with this? I won't ask another question, no vex. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Truckpusher(m): 4:55pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
edwife:Look at who's talking . |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 4:56pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
edwife:okay, thank you. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: I think the issues are more deeper. He is a Christian, I find it hard him considering marrying an atheist however inter-religious marriages are not rare Take a deep breath and start all over again... What's important to you? What is important to him? |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 5:00pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:I knew you'd ask. Well, Everyone that knows me thinks me intelligent. On a more serious note, it just kinda is obvious, I lack words, I don't want to appear proud. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by freecocoa(f): 5:04pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
bukatyne:That he doesn't even try to win me over as I fit vex and I find it hard to accept his excuses for sinning. He says,marrying an atheist is something he never thought possible, but that I'm a good person, who even has more empathy and kindness than many christians he knows, so what's the harm? That he'd keep praying I have my encounter with god, as he believes, it's a personal thing. |
Re: Girls night out discussions by edwife(f): 5:04pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Lol bad boy himself.... |
Re: Girls night out discussions by Truckpusher(m): 5:06pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Re: Girls night out discussions by jaybee3(m): 5:08pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: You are intelligent no doubt but an underrated facet of intelligence is the ability to appreciate and embed diversity when dealing with issues Having extreme confidence is good but without humility you will struggle to coexist in any cross functional role. You have to be very careful in the real world though as team work is key as far as competency is concerned and it's one of the key skills we look for when hiring 3 Likes |
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