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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 11:52am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: At the end, we all log out to our real lives |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 11:53am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: I really don't mind being a housewife but all my needs must be met without grudge... I'll cook, clean, scrub, give hubby acrobatic sex, update my brain , bear beautiful, well-behaved and intelligent children etc.. I just want a loving and faithful husband, annual holiday trips to any country of my choice, daimonds, private jets, a monthly allowance of seven figures, Cars etc... Who hates being a housewife, definitely not me... 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 11:54am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Someone is pained Trek to food section to make akamu 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 12:01pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Lmao , superior military might indeed, why did they have superior military might is what you should've asked yourself to start with. Were they not men with one head like yourselves? Excuse you biko. The point I'm trying to make with the invention line is, why take anything of theirs at all? Since the modern Nigerian, who btw include yourself is an oyibo zombie, I don't know what you are there comparing phones for and no, I don't know what rade is, thanks for the heads up. You are a hypocritical christian, you are allowed to deny it but I know better. You are against women having a voice and thinking for themselves, you have on more than one occasion said that, women don't know what they want and shouldn't be let to handle some issues, if it were up to you, women won't even partake in any form of education because you believe they should be home, catering to your wants, infact you are a misogynist. 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
bukatyne:very well |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:05pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
keppyy: Good for you. Better get to marrying someone who can afford you. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 12:13pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
bukatyne:Abi o. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:17pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: That's not my condition for marriage, that's my condition for being a housewife... Don't mix it up... 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 12:25pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
pickabeau1: https://www.nairaland.com/2481114/pains-full-time-house-wife#36318264 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 12:29pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
bukatyne: I didn't say it was,i just stated that they were pushing for it. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Dey dia dey zuzu. It's like asking what the rest of the world was doing when Egypt was the world leader and greatest civilisation. Na turn by turn. Why do you think America is trying to stifle China, Russia and Iran? The advantage they have is the information age and espionage and all. World powerism has always been a transient phenomenon. maybe you people are oyinbo zombies after all. What were you women doing when oyinbo women were coming up with feminism? I am at liberty to take whatever invention of theirs is beneficial to me and reject the toxic shiit they throw my way. I meant trade btw. I won't become a christian because you will it upon me, sweety. I am not. Freecocoa, at this point I have to assume if you're on your period and if it's making you see things. I don't need to stop women doing anything, they stop on their own when it become too difficult. And, no, I would like women to get adequate education on what it means to be a good woman, and wife, and mother. Also, women should be home catering to the needs of the family. Finally, a compliment. Misogynist? I'll wear it as a badge of honour. I am grateful. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:31pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
keppyy: My point being if you want to be a housewife, you better marry well. Try not mixing it up.... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 12:44pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Nzuzu gbu kwe gi dia. No, it's not like asking what the rest of the world was doing when civilisation begun, it is strictly between you and the white man who you so obviously loathe. So now you are no longer a christian, it's alright yet you quote the bible as reference in some of your arguments, na so, hypocrite of the highest order. Who made you judge of what's toxic and what's not? The same way you are at liberty, is the same way every other person is, calling people zombies for exercising the same rights as yourself only goes to show how selfish you are. I'm not in my period and even that doesn't change sh1t, it is expected of you as always, to find something with which to deride a woman, tsk. Who are you to decide what it means to be a good woman? You are not in the position to dictate or even lecture women on what you believe a good wife, woman and mother should be, that's the bottomline. 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 12:52pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Freecocoa and timbuktou Please,can someone tell me what is tsk? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 1:00pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife:Lol. It is a sound you make when someone has said something you find irritating, or at something you find irritating. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:02pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife: Yep..seen Economic realities dictate that deliberately being a housewife is not the best in naija I am aware western reality is different due to high childcare costs Why did u bring this up anyway |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:05pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Ha!I got a lot to learn. pickabeau1: I brought it up because most men still believe it's the best decision when it comes to training younger kids. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by freecocoa(f): 1:14pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife:Don't we all. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:20pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Free, you're relapsing into old, destructive habits. I have never portrayed hatred for the white man. What I will not stand for is people like you who think the white man shits roses when I think different. You might not know this but you can have a valid argument without lying. My christianity ended years ago. I quote the bible only when it agrees with me, doesn't make me a christian anymore than quoting from the Qur'an makes me muslim. Cocoa, I had such high hopes for you. Alas, my faith in you seems to be misplaced. Common sense and a keen sense of observation, baby. I can see the toxicity of following things without proper analysis. And yes, I may be selfish but you haven't proven to be selfless either. You are no better than my selfish arze. Women acting cranky on the periods is derogatory? Wow, next you'll tell me having less energy due to hunger is derogatory. Free, go and eat, you need nutrients to argue effectively. Of course not, I don't have younger sisters or nieces, and I definitely will not have a daughter. Only a woman can teach a woman. I have nothing to contribute. Cocoa, aRe you fasting today? You're arguing like you need to eat somethong. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 1:21pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife: You are kidding right? Or who are the most men? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:21pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife: Don't mind her, she can't help but pull my misogynistic tail. Any reason to just touch me. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 1:22pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: @ bold: interesting. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife: It still is the best. People just think they can't afford it. 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:26pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
bukatyne:Indeed. No mother, aunt, grandmothers either. Ain't that a shame! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:27pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:31pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife: |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:31pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: You crazier than i thought.... Not all women are bad,you know? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by ApexTitan(m): 1:36pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
C'mon guys this is not true. NAWALT (Not All Women Are Like That) That's the classic refrain when the underlayer of the female pysche as relates to mate selection or sexual strategies is exposed. The workings and machinations reveal a cold and merciless efficiency in achieving its objectives that it leaves many in disbelief. It is true that women do not emerge from an evil meeting or convention where these strategies that are being revealed today were decided upon. There was no secret assembly The fact which Oga TV mentioned that women are strategic in relationship matters is one that rings true every time. There is no woman who is not on some level subject to the workings of hypergamy. Indeed even the fairy tale notion of love, or romantic love as some people are appealing to here, plays to the very strengths of this strategy. It provides the perfect cover for the feminine imperative to achieve its objective with the least amount of resistance because it requires it's subject to remain unaware of its calculations in the name of waiting for true magical love. Today, for long term relationships and marriages a man who understands the mechanics at work and what is required of him stands the best chance of benefiting from it. It is this reason that "just follow your heart" can be quite a dangerous thing to do. This understanding has to be acquired because what used to work in the past - traditions and conventions that made accommodations for these realities - are dying or being pushed to into irrelevance. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:37pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife:Why do you think I think so, Eddy? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:42pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: That you crazy or that there are good women out there?which one? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
edwife:Oh, I know I'm crazy. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:52pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Good.... |
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