freecocoa:
Doesn't the double standard make you want to puke?

Timbuktou:


The ancient Nigerian woman's priority was homemaking.

I haven't seen a woman who stayed home all day, everyday from marriage till death. Have you?

Timbuktou:


Exactly what I said.

Straw man arguments waste our time. Still, let me humour you. They colonised us because they had superior military might. We use their inventions because they make our lives more convenient, it's called rade, ever heard of it? Just because Finland make Nokia phones which was regarded as better than Motorola means Finland is better than Japan or wherever Motorola's made? So, now America's the best country because iPhones are the best on the market? What religion do you think I practise?

Oh, so you're saying I'm against the use of sanitary pads and tampons, or weave extensions or make up? Please point out what exactly it is that benefits women that I'm against. Try comprehending before you begin to cast stones.

bukatyne:

I will open a new thread

keppyy:




I really don't mind being a housewife but all my needs must be met without grudge...

I'll cook, clean, scrub, give hubby acrobatic sex, update my brain , bear beautiful, well-behaved and intelligent children etc..

I just want a loving and faithful husband, annual holiday trips to any country of my choice, daimonds, private jets, a monthly allowance of seven figures, Cars etc...


Who hates being a housewife, definitely not me...

bukatyne:


At the end, we all log out to our real lives

Timbuktou:


Good for you. Better get to marrying someone who can afford you.

pickabeau1:


What's the link about the housewife thread

bukatyne:


Houdewifery or not has nothing to do with feminism in Nigeria

freecocoa:
Lmao , superior military might indeed, why did they have superior military might is what you should've asked yourself to start with. Were they not men with one head like yourselves? Excuse you biko.

The point I'm trying to make with the invention line is, why take anything of theirs at all? Since the modern Nigerian, who btw include yourself is an oyibo zombie, I don't know what you are there comparing phones for and no, I don't know what rade is, thanks for the heads up.


You are a hypocritical christian, you are allowed to deny it but I know better.

You are against women having a voice and thinking for themselves, you have on more than one occasion said that, women don't know what they want and shouldn't be let to handle some issues, if it were up to you, women won't even partake in any form of education because you believe they should be home, catering to your wants, infact you are a misogynist.

keppyy:



That's not my condition for marriage, that's my condition for being a housewife...

Don't mix it up...

Timbuktou:


Dey dia dey zuzu. It's like asking what the rest of the world was doing when Egypt was the world leader and greatest civilisation. Na turn by turn. Why do you think America is trying to stifle China, Russia and Iran? The advantage they have is the information age and espionage and all. World powerism has always been a transient phenomenon. maybe you people are oyinbo zombies after all. What were you women doing when oyinbo women were coming up with feminism?

I am at liberty to take whatever invention of theirs is beneficial to me and reject the toxic shiit they throw my way. I meant trade btw.

I won't become a christian because you will it upon me, sweety. I am not.

Freecocoa, at this point I have to assume if you're on your period and if it's making you see things. I don't need to stop women doing anything, they stop on their own when it become too difficult. And, no, I would like women to get adequate education on what it means to be a good woman, and wife, and mother. Also, women should be home catering to the needs of the family.

Finally, a compliment. Misogynist? I'll wear it as a badge of honour. I am grateful.

edwife:
Freecocoa and timbuktou

Please,can someone tell me what is tsk?

edwife:


https://www.nairaland.com/2481114/pains-full-time-house-wife#36318264

freecocoa:
Lol.

It is a sound you make when someone has said something you find irritating, or at something you find irritating.

pickabeau1:

Yep..seen
Economic realities dictate that deliberately being a housewife is not the best in naija
I am aware western reality is different due to high childcare costs
Why did u bring this up anyway

edwife:


Ha!I got a lot to learn.
.

freecocoa:
Nzuzu gbu kwe gi dia.

No, it's not like asking what the rest of the world was doing when civilisation begun, it is strictly between you and the white man who you so obviously loathe.

So now you are no longer a christian, it's alright yet you quote the bible as reference in some of your arguments, na so, hypocrite of the highest order.

Who made you judge of what's toxic and what's not? The same way you are at liberty, is the same way every other person is, calling people zombies for exercising the same rights as yourself only goes to show how selfish you are.

I'm not in my period and even that doesn't change sh1t, it is expected of you as always, to find something with which to deride a woman, tsk.

Who are you to decide what it means to be a good woman? You are not in the position to dictate or even lecture women on what you believe a good wife, woman and mother should be, that's the bottomline.

edwife:


Ha!I got a lot to learn.



I brought it up because most men still believe it's the best decision when it comes to training younger kids.

edwife:
Freecoco and timbuktou

Please,can someone tell me what is tsk?

Timbuktou:


Free, you're relapsing into old, destructive habits. I have never portrayed hatred for the white man. What I will not stand for is people like you who think the white man shits roses when I think different. You might not know this but you can have a valid argument without lying.

My christianity ended years ago. I quote the bible only when it agrees with me, doesn't make me a christian anymore than quoting from the Qur'an makes me muslim. Cocoa, I had such high hopes for you. Alas, my faith in you seems to be misplaced.

Common sense and a keen sense of observation, baby. I can see the toxicity of following things without proper analysis. And yes, I may be selfish but you haven't proven to be selfless either. You are no better than my selfish arze.

Women acting cranky on the periods is derogatory? Wow, next you'll tell me having less energy due to hunger is derogatory. Free, go and eat, you need nutrients to argue effectively.

Of course not, I don't have younger sisters or nieces, and I definitely will not have a daughter. Only a woman can teach a woman. I have nothing to contribute. Cocoa, aRe you fasting today? You're arguing like you need to eat somethong.

edwife:



I brought it up because most men still believe it's the best decision when it comes to training younger kids.

bukatyne:

@ bold: interesting.

bukatyne:


You are kidding right? Or who are the most men?

Timbuktou:

Don't mind her, she can't help but pull my misogynistic tail. Any reason to just touch me.

edwife:


You guys like getting on each other's nerves,that's all.

Timbuktou:


Indeed. No mother, aunt, grandmothers either. Ain't that a shame!

edwife:

You crazier than i thought....
Not all women are bad,you know?

Timbuktou:


Why do you think I think so, Eddy?

edwife:

That you crazy or that there are good women out there?which one?

Timbuktou:


Oh, I know I'm crazy.