In raw nature there aint nothing like rape, sex must be earned either by trickery, love or force, they are all just means to getting laid. Reference: has any one seen tasmanian devils mate?

idupaul:

In raw nature there aint nothing like rape, sex must be earned either by trickery, love or force, they are all just means to getting laid. Reference: has any one seen tasmanian devils mate?

na lie
try it and you'll be put away for a very long time

onyinye2:

Of course i wouldn't send my child out and tell her she can put herself in such a position. I do agree that if you play with fire. . . . you might get burned. But i will tell her that in the midst of it all. . . . she has the right to put out the flames.

You are better off telling your child not to start the fire at all. She might have the rite to try and douse the fire but 8 out of 10 times she would end up getting burnt.

idupaul, Be quiet

If this topic needs comic relief, we'll put a signal out for your presence. Until then go and sit down

Queenisha:

I believe a lot of men have been labelled because of some vindictive women.
There's a secretary at my hubby's place of work that obviously has the hots for him
and has made many remarks to him that are obviously sexually harassing.
Turn it around if he were the female and she was the male,he could lose his job and tarnish his records for things like that.
Women know how to manipulate these laws at will and then dock under the cover of "I'm a weaker vessel" when it suits them.

sweetie, its good to stand by your man, but the bottom line here is better make sure your guy is totally satisfied and well fed before he leaves home most days. So there's absolutely no romantic energy left over for the secretary to attempt to work on.

Na so them go dey nack tori say na woman dey pursue them.  Isnt it these same guys who are genetically programmed to consciously or subconsciously check out attractive females?

abeg keep your figure and also keep the man happy oh.

Uche2nna:

You are better off telling your child not to start the fire at all. She might have the rite to try and douse the fire but 8 out of 10 times she would end up getting burnt.

I never said i would allow my child to go around having sex or getting close to it. But I will tell her that she should know that she has the right to say no. Even when the guys says "Don't you trust me?". It has nothing to do with trust.

idupaul:

In raw nature there aint nothing like rape, sex must be earned either by trickery, love or force, they are all just means to getting laid.  Reference: has any one seen tasmanian devils mate?

Go shop for a striped jump suit and hand cuffs while you are at it.

Queenisha:

na lie
try it and you'll be put away for a very long time

i meant in raw nature not civil society.

KarmaMod:

idupaul, Be quiet

If this topic needs comic relief, we'll put a signal out for your presence. Until then go and sit down

wetin join u join my post. gbegele

tpia:

sweetie, its good to stand by your man, but the bottom line here is better make sure your guy is totally satisfied and well fed before he leaves home each day.

Na so them go dey nack tori say na woman dey pursue them.  Isnt it these same guys who are genetically programmed to consciously or subconsciously check out attractive females?

abeg keep your figure and also keep the man happy oh.

I gat that part covered.
That man never leaves home fully loaded.
all these heifers all around town looking for man to snatch
I hold my own well well
If he ever cheats (God forbid) it's not because I don't do my wifely duties.
anytime he knocks, he knows the door is open.

Lmao he's not supposed to leave loaded

anytimehe knocks, he knows the door is open.

God bless you.

KarmaMod:

Lmao he's not supposed to leave loaded

exactly, he should leave home sucked dry with nothing to offer any other person

sucked finished? Lmfao AJ don spoil you finish

That's why I tell women not to withold sex from their men.
There's lovemaking and there's sex.
2 different things,
When you're mad at him and he stll wants it,give him sex and call it a day

KarmaMod:

sucked finished? Lmfao AJ don spoil you finish

LOL

Queenisha:

exactly, he should leave home sucked dry with nothing to offer any other person

LMAO!!! Oka im nauseous now. . . .

Queenisha:

I gat that part covered.
That man never leaves home fully loaded.
all these heifers all around town looking for man to snatch
I hold my own well well
If he ever cheats (God forbid) it's not because I don't do my wifely duties.
anytime he knocks, he knows the door is open.

Hmmm. . . . truly questionable.

There lies the problem.

Question sisi, would you say a girl should alwauys expect heavy petting to LEAD to sex? If she doesnt wnat it to get past the "heavy makeout session, is it wrong for her to stop it from going further than that?

LMAO! You should be a lawyer!!

Okay, I'm gonna go with Helen's scenario here which involves the following
1) Voluntarily goes with a guy
2) Takes her clothes off
3) Engages in activity in the bed
4) Then says NO at the very last minute.

This has gone way beyond heavy petting. It is almos entrapment sef, what stops any girl from delibrately going the distance, say no last mminute, then turn around and scream rape. I might come of naive here but I say if you don't wanna do the act, keep the clothes on.

In my opinion, cases like this take away from the real rape cases, very much like how every time the race card is pulled out for minor infractions, it diminishes the real impact of racism.

This is another quote from Helen i agree with. . .

"I don't think she can have that man into court under those circumstances. I guess it is one of the many subtle parts of the men/women relationship that has to be negotiated and worked out between them."

exactly, he should leave home sucked dry with nothing to offer any other person

this seems like stealth rape to me. being raped without knowing

onyinye2:

LMAO!!! Oka im nauseous now. . . .

I'm teaching you the tricks to keeping a man fulfilled.
They'll soon start coming for your hand in marriage
Sex is not the same thing to us as it is for men.
A woman usually has to be romanced and have some affection for the man to do it but a man can just jump in even with a toothless monkey and do it just because he needs to offload.

Queenisha:

I'm teaching you the tricks to keeping a man fulfilled.
They'll soon start coming for your hand in marriage
Sex is not the same thing to us as it is for men.
A woman usually has to be romanced and have some affection for the man to do it but a man can just jump in even with a toothless monkey and do it just because he needs to offload.

AHHH!!! You know you aint right!
Awww marriage ko. . . . i've got time before i think of that.

Queenisha:

I'm teaching you the tricks to keeping a man fulfilled.
They'll soon start coming for your hand in marriage
Sex is not the same thing to us as it is for men.
A woman usually has to be romanced and have some affection for the man to do it but a man can just jump in even with a toothless monkey and do it just because he needs to offload.

 

tpia:

The women can and they do.

This helen herself knows that.  Where was she when Mike Tyson was getting himself in trouble?

Is funny you should mention Mike Tyson because she actually said that she does not believe Mike Tyson is a Rapist.

Answering if she reported her own date "rape" she replied. . .

Asked if she reported the incidents, which took place when she was younger, to the police, the 63-year-old replied: "No, you couldn't do that in those days. It's such a tricky area, isn't it? Especially if there is no violence. I mean, look at Mike Tyson. I don't think he was a rapist."

Former heavyweight champion Tyson was sentenced to six years in prison in 1992 for raping a Miss Black America beauty contestant in an Indiana hotel room.

Uche2nna:

what's with the sad face
na true I talk

onyinye2:

AHHH!!! You know you aint right!
Awww marriage ko. . . . i've got time before i think of that.

Please take your time and choose wisely
not everyone that comes to your dad with a bottle of schnapps is marriage material

Uche2nna:

 

Truth is like bitterleaf for you guys eh?

Queenisha:

Please take your time and choose wisely
not everyone that comes to your dad with a bottle of schnapps is marriage material

LMAO! Not with my father. He is very intimidating and a real village man.

Queenisha:

I believe a lot of men have been labelled because of some vindictive women.
There's a secretary at my hubby's place of work that obviously has the hots for him
and has made many remarks to him that are obviously sexually harassing.
Turn it around if he were the female and she was the male,he could lose his job and tarnish his records for things like that.
Women know how to manipulate these laws at will and then dock under the cover of "I'm a weaker vessel" when it suits them.

Queenisha, i am impressed.

There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission.

To Touch breast
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes, you may.

To Touch Nipples

Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you May.

To Put hands in panties
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you may.

To slip fingers into  
Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah?
Girl - No you may not!


Come on!!! Let's be real now!

Sisikill:

There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission.

To Touch breast
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes, you may.

To Touch Nipples

Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you May.

To Put hands in undies
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you may.

To slip fingers into
Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah?
Girl - No you may not!


Come on!!! Let's be real now!

I use a journalist's tape recorder to make sure.
In case she tries to play dice with me, i fish out the tape as evidence.
To catch a monkey, a man has to be a GORILLA.

Sucked Dry?

Lmao! They will soon move us to the sexuality section!

Hannibal:

I use a journalist's tape recorder to make sure.
In case she tries to play dice with me, i fish out the tape as evidence.
To catch a monkey, a man has to be a GORILLA.

Good Thinking!!!

All these li'l gold digger running around, trying to fleece a guy. Puh-Lease!!

Sisikill:

Is funny you should mention Mike Tyson because she actually said that she does not believe Mike Tyson is a Rapist.

.

she should have vouched for him at his trial.

Hannibal:

I use a journalist's tape recorder to make sure.
In case she tries to play dice with me, i fish out the tape as evidence.
To catch a monkey, a man has to be a GORILLA.

Or a Mufasa. . . . so are you gonna to hold the tape recorder while you are doing you biz or are you going to go James Bond on her and have installed somewhere?

tpia:

she should have vouched for him at his trial.