Sisikill:

There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission.

To Touch breast
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes, you may.

To Touch Nipples

Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you May.

To Put hands in undies
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you may.

To slip fingers into
Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah?
Girl - No you may not!


Come on!!! Let's be real now!

lmao

Hannibal:

I use a journalist's tape recorder to make sure.
In case she tries to play dice with me, i fish out the tape as evidence.
To catch a monkey, a man has to be a GORILLA.

lol

Sisikill:

There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission.

To Touch breast
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes, you may.

To Touch Nipples

Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you May.

To Put hands in undies
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you may.

To slip fingers into  
Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah?
Girl - No you may not!


Come on!!! Let's be real now!

I know right! For me, the moment she slips off her dress and lies naked on my bed, I take that for a yes. Any other word moaned after that would be regarded as her expressing her pleasure.

tpia:

she should have vouched for him at his trial.

LMOA!!!  

All yal men might as well do as Sisi says to ask before you proceed. . . . . or you will finding yourself asking where your bar of soap went in the prison showers.

Hannibal you're not serious.
You tape your escapades?

onyinye2:

Or a Mufasa. . . . so are you going to to hold the tape recorder while you are doing you biz or are you going to go James Bond on her and have installed somewhere?

ask am ooo

Sisikill:

Good Thinking!!!
All these li'l gold digger running around, trying to fleece a guy. Puh-Lease!!

Not for gold-diggers,
This method is for em girls who cry wolf unnecessarily just to punish a brother.

onyinye2:

Or a Mufasa. . . . so are you going to to hold the tape recorder while you are doing you biz or are you going to go James Bond on her and have installed somewhere?

Do i have to hold it?
What happened to putting the device in the pillowcase?

Queenisha:

Hannibal you're not serious.
You tape your escapades?

For 1st timers who might decide to be BITCHY, yes!!!
2 Naija guys in ma department fell victims to some crazy chics. . . . .Before they were cleared, they spent 3 months in Prison.

Sisikill:

There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission.

To Touch breast
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes, you may.

To Touch Nipples

Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you May.

To Put hands in undies
Guy - Lover may I?
Girl - Yes you may.

To slip fingers into  
Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah?
Girl - No you may not!


Come on!!! Let's be real now!

heavy petting is different from full penetration.

Either way, its up to the man to decide if the girl/sex is worth the risk oh. ie does he want to find out if he'll be guilty or innocent should the lady scream rape.

The whole scenario is more of a problem for casual sex lovers anyway. It isnt something people in a committed relationship have to worry about.

StephenP:

I know right! For me, the moment she slips off her dress and lies naked on my bed, I take that for a yes. Any other word moaned after that would be regarded as her expressing her pleasure.

lmao. you don gbese

You single gals have to be careful o
some people may have dvd's stored up ready to pull it out.
It may even end up on the internet
this is a scary time to be doing the do

heavy petting is different from full penetration.

Im beginning to think, people dont know the difference.

Hannibal:

Do i have to hold it?
What happened to putting the device in the pillowcase?

What a freaking Lou Houiser. So what are you going to do with the tape afterwards? Do you keep it as a trophy of some sort? Like some man do with women's draws.

onyinye2:

What a freaking Lou Houiser. So what are you going to do with the tape afterwards? Do you keep it as a trophy of some sort? Like some man do with women's draws.

Mailed straight to ma deposit box.
Only to be opened by ma solicitor if i get arrested for any sexual offence.
Some few years ago, girls went on a spree of locking men up by crying foul.
It was serious then in Manchester. Even ordeals of previous years were unearthed to put men in trouble.
Abeg, y'all women are brood of vipers.

like someone rightly said some people may so no as just an expression of pleasure,some may shout fire.it doesn't mean we need to call the firemen.

I propose that the woman should say," Please go down right now or this is regarded as rape " in an angry voice.
No may not be enough once you allowed him to go in

Queenisha:

like someone rightly said some people may so no as just an expression of pleasure,some may shout fire.it doesn't mean we need to call the firemen.

I propose that the woman should say," Please go down right now or this is regarded as rape " in an angry voice.
No may not be enough once you allowed him to go in

No may not be enough.
And in these days where love bites, hickies and scratching are parts of the deal, it's a huge conundrum.
How do we know which is which?

Then if he refuses she should go all ghetto and add
Go off now ,one
climb down ,two
I say withdraw this moment, three

Queenisha:

like someone rightly said some people may so no as just an expression of pleasure,some may shout fire.it doesn't mean we need to call the firemen.

No as an expression of pleasure ke? That one na mainly mills and boon harlequin romance oh.

Na yes yes yes them dey scream.

Queenisha:

You single gals have to be careful o
some people may have dvd's stored up ready to pull it out.
It may even end up on the internet
this is a scary time to be doing the do

A man who is confident enough that she's the right gal or that he has her FULL consent shouldn't even be hiding a tape recorder.
If the girl no like you full and you jump into bed with her, na your own cargo you dey carry o.

Queenisha:

Then if he refuses she should go all ghetto and add
Go off now ,one
climb down ,two
I say withdraw this moment three

I think the man should just understand NO means NO. Not "Oh let me try and seduce into going farther". I swear alot of men go by the[b] R. Kelly doctorine:[/b] My mind is telling me no, but my body, my body is telling me yesssss!

Helen has received a lot of criticism from rape campaigners for her comment but one person is standing by her. Avedon Carol, author and co founder of Feminists Against Censorship says Mirren should be honoured for speaking so openly.

Like Mirren, Carol was 'date raped' by a former boyfriend, but did not press charges

The author and campaigner believes there is a refusal among rape campaigners to acknowledge that sometimes taking a case to court may do more harm than good.

"I think it is time people admitted that the idea you can always take these things to court is wrong.

"If it is your word against his, he isn't going to jail. You have to look at where these things really come from and get to the root of it to sort it out."

tpia:

No as an expression of pleasure ke? That one na mainly mills and boon harlequin romance oh.

Na yes yes yes them dey scream.

stay there.
Must we all say the same thing?
I bet you there are no screamers and halleluia screamers
and some who say allahu akhbar!

Queenisha:

You single gals have to be careful o
some people may have dvd's stored up ready to pull it out.
It may even end up on the internet
this is a scary time to be doing the do

LMAO! You'd be surprised to find out some girls will be all over that like bee on honey

Ooooooh kinky  

Queenisha:

Then if he refuses she should go all ghetto and add
Go off now ,one
climb down ,two
I say withdraw this moment, three

Lol

Queenisha:

stay there.
Must we all say the same thing?
I bet you there are no screamers and halleluia screamers
and some who say allahu akhbar!

Thats a TURN-OFF o.
Don't mind me, i watch too much 24 to know an explosion is imminent after hearing such.

Hannibal:

Thats a TURN-OFF o.
Don't mind me, i watch too much 24 to know an explosion is imminent after hearing such.

No be explosion una want again?

Queenisha:

No be explosion una want again?

you dey mind tpia?

I remember one thread like that, someone claimed to shout 'sherimamamamamamamama' and lepa gaou sef

tammyswits:
Its not rape if it aint criminal, coz rape is forced sex, even if she changes her mind at th last minute, after turning him on and he forces her way in its still criminal!

rape is non consensual penetrative sex not forced sex

This is so false. He who asserts must prove.

tpia:


I mean if a woman accuses a guy of rape, then its up to him to prove himself innocent.