onyinye2:

LMAO!!!
I'm sorry but that is rape. In any point in time she says No and he continues. . . . he is a rapist. Simple as that.

Queenisha:

Like someone already said,don't put yourself in that situation.
Don't fire the oven when you're not ready to cook.

Baxilexi:

@onyin, thats not fair, your relationship should evolve around you.

onyinye2:

[i](I'm not condemning people who do such) [/i]But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off.

Baxilexi:

onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.

Baxilexi:

@onyin, lol opportunist.

Baxilexi:

onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.

onyinye2:

[i](I'm not condemning people who do such) [/i]But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off.

Ruby_Pearl:

Lol! You still don't get it.
Listen, you can't just turn something off like that!
I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive.
Do you know what a blue ball is?

Ruby_Pearl:

Lol! You still don't get it.
Listen, you can't just turn something off like that!
I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive.
Do you know what a blue ball is?

onyinye2:

So then go outside and cool off.
And you know this

Baxilexi:

@onyin,good to know you permit promiscuity

Sisikill:

You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.



2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)

Queenisha:

She'll get it someday.
In her twenties

onyinye2:

When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.

Sisikill:

You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.

1st phase (Introduction) if you like each other, then you go to the

2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)

3rd phase(Accepting of rejecting the offers) if you accept, then next step

4 phase (Draw papers up stating the clearly what the terms and conditions are)

Voila! Rape will be a thing of the past.

HR.hotness:

swthrt. . . u can't just turn on and turn off a human being like he was a piece of electronics. . . we all knw how guys are so why play with them that way? why do expect them to behave anything but how they r programmed to behave?

your stand sounds rather selfish. . .  the world doesnt reveolve around u, u know?

onyinye2:

When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.

HR.hotness:

why would u go so far if u aren't going to go all d way. . .

d issue with date rape is that its usually guys u've just met. harmless flirting is ok but why go with him to his hotel room if u hav no plans of going all d way

tpia:

I mean if a woman accuses a guy of rape, then its up to him to prove himself innocent.

Sometimes its not always about whether or not a woman led a man on. A lot of (black) men have fallen into this trap, which is very unfortunate. Life isnt always fair.

oyibo women especially- if they say stop then stop. Even then the man may still get into legal trouble like Kobe Bryant.
Black women may overlook a lot of things, but not every woman is like that.

onyinye2:

So what are you telling me that the chick should just lay there like a casted mummy, and accept the multiple thrust from her man?

Ruby_Pearl:

What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef.
There's flirting and there's FLIRTING.
As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO!
The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping.
If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'D have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable.

Baxilexi:

onyin, you know what, go to a store pick up FHM, or playboy, or any of those men magazine and you would get the definition of sex from a mans point of
view, or better still ask a mentor. but i aint askin you to get some now.

Uche2nna:

Or maybe take a cold bath  
I thot that Onyi was like 15. Now I am even begining to doubt that.

Ruby_Pearl:

What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef.

There's flirting and there's FLIRTING.

As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO!

The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping.

If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'D have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable.

onyinye2:

What im saying is that you can't put all the blame on the woman. The man is not untamed creature. He is a human being. Which has something called logic instilled in to their brains. If the woman doesn't want to go through with the act, it might be hard, but the man has to stop.
Gross.
So i guess Uche, you are back for round 2 of insults.

HR.hotness:

I don't see uche's statemnt as an insult oh. . . it kind of hard to believe you're older than 12 . . . no insult meant here either

davidylan:

who said so? There is only one point of no return i am aware of and that is when a man is on the brink of orgasm. Anything outside that a man is fully in control and can stop when he wants to. If i took a woman to my bedroom and took of her clothes and she says no . . . no is no . . . wear your clothes and leave especially if we just met.

BtW, why would you be having sex with a woman you just met? AIDs is real, you know

Ruby_Pearl:

@oyinye
You this woman, you just made me burn my brownies I was cooking in the oven just b/c I couldn't [b]stop [/b]typing a reply to you.
Abeg, I'm not an expert on this topic, let mesmy help you

Ruby_Pearl:

If it's controllable, then tell me why there are so much unwanted pregnancy.

_{BtW, why would you be having sex with a woman you just met? AIDs is real, you know}

Baxilexi:

@onyin,gross nah more like nice
anyways its nice chattin with you, sort of missed you, wierd aint it?
i have to go eat, catchya later.   atleast this is permitted in onyin's world.