I was with a Senior friend and we started talking about relationship. He told me that when He was still Job-hunting,his fiancee who was serving was sending him money monthly. I was much surprised.
Do we still have such ladies?
For those in a bf/gf relationship, can you send or give him money?
For those fiance and fiancee relationship,have you done it before?

No money no friend

Yes we still do but on the verge of total extinction

@farano:
No money no friend

in other words to money marriage too?

Its just money no big deal. It has no value in any case.. If I can buy a croissant with blue cheese for R150 why not give it to someone who needs it even more.. Even worse to better themselves..

azah88: Its just money no big deal. It has no value in any case.. If I can buy a croissant with blue cheese for R150 why not give it to someone who needs it even more.. Even worse to better themselves..

To you maybe,but to some ladies,i am sure it is a big deal. The mentality now is the spending or sending should come from the guy.

Mintayo:
To you maybe,but to some ladies,i am sure it is a big deal. The mentality now is the spending or sending should come from the guy.

perhaps am a fool.. Still to be blessed by that maybe..

azah88:

perhaps am a fool.. Still to be blessed by that maybe..

Sending things to a guy doesn't mean one is a fool,wwell,depending on the knda relationship you both in though.

Mintayo:
Sending things to a guy doesn't mean one is a fool,wwell,depending on the knda relationship you both in though.

not at all.. Anything that brings happiness is definitely worth it..

azah88:

not at all.. Anything that brings happiness is definitely worth it..

Yea,thats true.

it depends if
d lady is one who is ready to settle down, she may send..
but if na all dis gurlz wey be say a chop and go..
oooo boi..
dem go even collect d one wey dey ur hand join..
"Chingbain"..dem no go send..

@farano:
No money no friend

Why am I not surprised?

Solely depends on the person am dating.

ERCROSS:
but if na all dis gurlz wey be say a chop and go..
oooo boi..
dem go even collect d one wey dey ur hand join..
"Chingbain"..dem no go send..

...but y is it so na.?

Elantracey: Solely depends on the person am dating.

Meaning if he is the giving type?

Mintayo:
Meaning if he is the giving type?

yes

Elantracey:

yes

:Dthought as much.and if he is not?

Mintayo:
:Dthought as much.and if he is not?

well I'll have doubts about it, a selfish will become ungrateful at the end.

It depends

Ify Angela: It depends

On?

Elantracey:

well I'll have doubts about it, a selfish will become ungrateful at the end.

And what if he doesn't have at that moment?

Mintayo:
And what if he doesn't have at that moment?

Someone don't need to have so much before he/she can give

Jeez... Sure. why not? V done it for my ex a couple of times because I was so sure that if the reverse was the case, He would do the same and more.
Its depending on the relationship and motive. Who wouldn't want to help a friend in need talk more of a boyfriend or fiance?

Elantracey:

Someone don't need to have so much before he/she can give

well thats true. Plus given should not necessarily be monetary.

Mintayo:
On?

what he wants to use it for.

Mintayo: I was with a Senior friend and we started talking about relationship. He told me that when He was still Job-hunting,his fiancee who was serving was sending him money monthly. I was much surprised.
Do we still have such ladies?
For those in a bf/gf relationship, can you send or give him money?
For those fiance and fiancee relationship,have you done it before?

yes, we do but very very very few.

My friend who got married 2 months ago is an example.

I don't but any girl wey no make any sacrifice for my head no go pass that line...

We all have to bring something to the table.

I can, i will, I DO and i will continue doing it.

um yeah! I Can do it, but to someone i really love , i'll also catch a Grenade

Guy's, be weary when collecting money from ladies even if she is your fiance-e or wife - she may use it as an advantage against you for no just cause. Protect your dignity at all cost, even if it means eating from hand to mouth , things will straighten out in the long run.

There are exceptions though among the ladies - the free spirited ones, but they are very few.

Learnt from friends and relatives mistakes/experience

Ify Angela:
what he wants to use it for.

interesting.
Does it actually matter? Afterall, you two are in a kinda relationship.

neutralwaya: Guy's, be weary when collecting money from ladies even if she is your fiance-e or wife - she may use it as an advantage against you for no just cause. Protect your dignity at all cost, even if it means eating from hand to mouth , things will straighten out in the long run.

There are exceptions though among the ladies - the free spirited ones, but they are very few.

Learnt from friends and relatives mistakes

Lol,you are very correct,but that is if they are really sending or given guys the money.

mayapop: um yeah! I Can do it, but to someone i really love , i'll also catch a Grenade

:/