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Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by crudedude(m): 12:28pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: Yes without even blinking. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by theshadowknows: 1:11pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
I am not a lady, so my opinion could very well be wrong, but I'd like to state that no lady would feel comfortable with a bossy spouse. this is because there is a tendency for him to transfer his faustrations upon her especially when things go south. I was once a hustler ( another word for struggling business man) though I'm currently employed ( don't ask where) I've noticed that the relationship I have with my spouse seems a lot better. though certainly not for the pay I receive now ( for I could earn more on my own a times) but having a stable job makes you have less worries/stress as compared to being on your own.....don't get me wrong its more dignifying to be one's own boss but it comes with a lot of sacrifices of which most ladies are not willing share. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: Dear I said below 30 years old, after graduation, after NYSC, how many ladies below 30 have a decent job ? I don't mean teaching job of N15, 000 or office clerk of N10, 000. Let's not mention business because I know not up to 5% of Nigerian ladies below 30 are running a decent business with a valid shop address. I don't mean carrying boxers or suits around. I dont mean married ladies who their husbands obviously opened businesses for. Unless they be helping daddy or mummy run a shop. Don't ask me to go out, my office is located on a federal road and I have two businesses. Still mingle with my former colleagues and undergraduates. I don't know what going out again means. Financial prudence is a rarity among ladies They tend to spend whatever enters their hands immediately... I have only met two financially prudent ladies all my life. Not man dependence. Not man support. Not eating up of seed capital. I know how many of them who have begged me to fund their business and this is what single ladies who claim business ladies go about doing.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: What sort of generalizations is this ? Define a big job. Yes I started working in a multinational in sept 2006 without a connection. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
theshadowknows: I am not a lady, so my opinion could very well be wrong, but I'd like to state that no lady would feel comfortable with a bossy spouse. this is because there is a tendency for him to transfer his faustrations upon her especially when things go south.Yes, it comes with lots of sacrifices. However, the sacrifices only last for the first few years (sometimes months )of ur biz. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: Yes, it comes with lots of sacrifices. However, the sacrifices only last for the first few years (sometimes months )of ur biz. There is over 70% likelihood that your first business will fail owing to inexperience. But on a second try, you avoid your mistakes and start making good profit. Business is most times very unpredictable depending on nature of what you are doing. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by kizitoik2004(m): 1:28pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
who said women do prefer status job to rich dudes..? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Sweetlemon(f): 1:29pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
crudedude: okpara ugo: okpara ugo: Sorry guys. I meant after 2007 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Sweetlemon(f): 1:30pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo: Like I said you need to go out more often. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: Don't sorry me. You love arguments. I like facts and pictures.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:You are right. Now as a wise entrepreneur, you don't wana be affected by that over 70% likelihood. So you work towards avoiding that by gathering experience before starting. Before I started my small scale oil-mill and poultry, I went for trainings at already existing ones, did lot of research and ask questions. When I started, I still hired someone that has many years of experience "working" in such businesses. Now with this alongside the Grace of God I avoided such failures. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: You are right. Now as a wise entrepreneur, you don't wana be affected by that over 70% likelihood. So you work towards avoiding that by gathering experience before starting. Before I started my small scale oil-mill and poultry, I went for trainings at already existing ones, did lot of research and ask questions. When I started, I still hired someone that has many years of experience "working" in such businesses. Now with this alongside the Grace of God I avoided such failures. According to topic, are you already married ? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
kizitoik2004: who said women do prefer status job to rich dudes..? Wealth doesn't fall from the sky and is not ready made. How many girlfriends follow their male friends to the shop to hustle even when she is idle ? But tell her you are a banker, that euphoria is enough respect among her friends. Hehehe. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Sweetlemon(f): 2:30pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo: Oya produce pishure of someone who got a good job without connections after 2007 na |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:Am 25, will be getting married december this year GodsWilling. My wife to be is 23, and a 400L nursing student. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:it looks as if many people consider business to be just owning a shop maybe in a big market. Travelling up and down in other to buy or sell. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Sweetlemon(f): 2:43pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: it looks as if many people consider business to be just owning a shop maybe in a big market. Travelling up and down in other to buy or sell. Abi o! Na wa o! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Eyop: 2:48pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: it looks as if many people consider business to be just owning a shop maybe in a big market. Travelling up and down in other to buy or sell.Those are market traders and not business brother. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Sweetlemon:I wonder. They fail to realise that: that man in that big company, in a big, well furnished air-conditioned office, whose secretary must interview them b4 allowing them to submit dia CV which is addressed to him is a business man. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: I wonder. They fail to realise that: that man in that big company, in a big, well furnished air-conditioned office, whose secretary must interview them b4 allowing them to submit dia CV which is addressed to him is a business man.They also fail to realise that those banks, oil companies, telecom companies, etc are owned by business men. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by wetandhot: 8:32pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: They also fail to realise that those banks, oil companies, telecom companies, etc are owned by business men.[/quote why do old man with sagging balls love young girls?Ha ha ha back at you!!!][left][/left][quote author=okpara ugo]I am a humble guy who has some rich friends who struggled their ways to the top without the golden spoon syndrome when they were born. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Elxandre(m): 8:47pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: Am 25, will be getting married december this year GodsWilling. My wife to be is 23, and a 400L nursing student.Bro, I feel 25 may be too young for an aspiring entrepreneur to get married. Lets face it, marriage comes with alot of commitments and sacrifices which sometimes inadvertently gets into the way of ambition, sometimes in a hard way. be very careful bro! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: Am 25, will be getting married december this year GodsWilling. My wife to be is 23, and a 400L nursing student. Wow, that's a record age in Nigeria for husband and wife. you must be a very focused person. marrying early eliminates wastes. What money and time you will expend on ladies whose future you won't share will be spent on your wife and kids. I love this... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: it looks as if many people consider business to be just owning a shop maybe in a big market. Travelling up and down in other to buy or sell. Agonbello, you know what ? Most businesses started with buying and selling. Even Dangote did. They buy and sell in bulk before moving into production and manufacturing. That is a natural process cycle in business growth. You also mentioned big offices with Oga at the top and secretary occupying air conditioned office. it takes long time in business for one to get there. Some of we made mistakes of starting very big with large office spaces and branches and staff. You did find out you will soon close shop starting off that way when you are a newbie even with huge capital. Wow, it takes a gradual process to make such profit to support such overhead costs.. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Elxandre:25 too young for an aspiring entrepreneur? Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage is orthogonal to career success. You can succeed in your career and fail at marriage. You can fail in career and succeed in marriage. Life is what you make it. It takes prayers, hard work, dedication, and a little luck. I strongly believe that there’s nothing inherently about marriage itself that is limiting, or ties one down. Those constraints and chains are in one's head. If one is passionate enough about something, he will chase it irrespective of his marital status. The fact that one has a responsibility to take care of should be a great supporting pillar of one's ambition of chasing an entrepreneurial dream. I also believe that a good strong relationship provides a solid ballast for those times when one is down in the dumps, or confused. A good partner is oftentimes a good sounding board, and sometimes even a personal mentor and coach. Few can understand one's motivations, drive and problems better. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:Yh, u might be right. However I don't agree with the word "most" I go with "many" businesses started with buying and selling, but not all. My first business is a car-wash centre, 2nd is an oil-mill, 3rd is a poultry farm. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:Yh, u might be right. However I don't agree with the word "most" I go with "many" businesses started with buying and selling, but not all. My first business is a car-wash centre, 2nd is an oil-mill, 3rd is a poultry farm. I have a nice office at my factory but I don't have a secretary, am still a small starter |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
okpara ugo:You are absolutely right sir, thanks for the encouragement. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Elxandre(m): 10:04pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: 25 too young for an aspiring entrepreneur? Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage is orthogonal to career success. You can succeed in your career and fail at marriage. You can fail in career and succeed in marriage. Life is what you make it. It takes prayers, hard work, dedication, and a little luck.I don't want to sound pessimistic. But can you still take some weird financial risks knowing that any misjudgment would affect not just your family? Who can predict post-marriage storms ? I just happen to be a realist, even though I'm a christian. But take extreme measures to be sure she'd support you enough. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Elxandre:Thanks for the advice. Speaking about her support, I do share my ideas, ambitions, goals, plans with her, and she do advice me on things. Before I started my 2nd biz, I was working for an Agro Alied company. I was contemplating on quitting the job and focussing completely on implementing my business plans. I asked for her advice on what to do, and she said ".... If you believe you can make it, I believe in you, go ahead..." |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
agonbello: 25 too young for an aspiring entrepreneur? Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage is orthogonal to career success. You can succeed in your career and fail at marriage. You can fail in career and succeed in marriage. Life is what you make it. It takes prayers, hard work, dedication, and a little luck. With the bolded, you just summarized my need. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer A Man With Status Job To A Rich Businessman ? by Sowl(m): 5:51am On Jul 03, 2014 |
rozayx5: Thank you jaare,beta pikin,don't know where this hommie got his theory from,but wat i do know his 80% of ladyz would do anythin to keep such men to themselves rather than what he is tryin to paint to us here,as i can see,it only happens to that his friend,maybe there is more to the guyz wealth than meets the eye. |
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