Smartsyn: Some cry because they will be limited to one man for the rest of their lives...

dhammyg:
pls marriage is not every woman's winning goal in life.it is only like that for those that have no ambition

BananaBender: Won't you cry too if you were being sold into slavery??


Abeg, let them cry.

xtervaganza: look at this sadist bastard




U won't recognise a humor even if u got hit by it




If u don't find my comment funny kindly sod off! I'm not responsible for the sadness which has become your life story



If u find it offensive its not your business then as u said its for married women



You tw@t

herald9:

Lolz
really?

I don't think so Miss...

A woman could have everything in the world but without marriage...she's still empty!

Without settling down an ambitious lady tends to loose focus..
Cause that's the most paramount thing in a woman's life...
Unless you are gay!

Malakh: no mind those virgins, they think because they don't fornicate on a natural level, they are Gods gift and treasures to the world or holier than thou , yeye dey smell,

Malakh: no mind those virgins, they think because they don't fornicate on a natural level, they are Gods gift and treasures to the world or holier than thou , yeye dey smell,

usqoh: During the gud old days, when Sex before marriage is discouraged and a taboo, Women cry tears of joy.

But not this present world when both parties have been cohabiting and fornicating in hundreds of time.

U cant c modern women crying again. U all should fear God. In Islam and Christianity, Fornication is one of the biggest sin.

For all Virgins who abstain from sex before marriage because of God. Paradise is our abode . Amen /Amin.

dhammyg:
WELL TO YOU,BUT NOT TO ME.
THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE IS MORE LIKE A PHASE MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH IT.SO TO ME THERE'S NOTHING REALLY SPECIAL ABOUT IT.

THAT IS WHY MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE LAZY.THEY BELIEVE ONCE THEY GET MARRIED.THEY HAVE ACHIEVED EVERYTHING IN LIFE AND THEN THEY START TO SLACK.IT ALSO EXPLAINS WHY WOMEN STAY IN MISERABLE MARRIAGES.BECUZ SOCIETY(PEOPLE LIKE U) HAS MADE THEM TO BELIEVE THAT WITHOUT MARRIAGE THEY ARE NOTHING.

dhammyg:
WELL TO YOU,BUT NOT TO ME.
THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE IS MORE LIKE A PHASE MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH IT.SO TO ME THERE'S NOTHING REALLY SPECIAL ABOUT IT.

THAT IS WHY MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE LAZY.THEY BELIEVE ONCE THEY GET MARRIED.THEY HAVE ACHIEVED EVERYTHING IN LIFE AND THEN THEY START TO SLACK.IT ALSO EXPLAINS WHY WOMEN STAY IN MISERABLE MARRIAGES.BECUZ SOCIETY(PEOPLE LIKE U) HAS MADE THEM TO BELIEVE THAT WITHOUT MARRIAGE THEY ARE NOTHING.

blackgold7777: bros not all pls

mujiboy: Fornication is bad.. Agreed... But do you think not fornicating is the only criteria for paradise? Don't get it twisted.

tuffgongjo: is she a virgin if dem don pass her behind enter b4?
;Dis she a virgin if dem don pass her behind enter b4?

Ngseralph:
lols!
There is nothing really special about it?
Hehehehehe.... Smh4u!

You know what I think?

I think you are over 40years and perhaps trying to console yourself with those statements of yours.

herald9:


Have gotten the message you are trying to pass on..
And Yes you are right to some extent...
But you see...your line of thinking is exclusive to some ladies
Even most of your womenfolk will disagree vehemently with you...
It's a norm they've grown to accept with open arms...
You cant change that fact atleast not in this generation...


Tell me...
What's your own definition of a successful woman?

dhammyg:
SEE THIS ONE.SO I GUEAS SOMEONE WHO JUST FINISHED SECONDARY SCHOOL IS OVER 40 YRS TO U

TOO MANY IDIOTS OUT HERE. SMH

Ngseralph: [color=#000000][/color]
Lols! Me I do wonder what makes them cry o!
When my elder sis got married last 2years, she and my other siblings were just crying!
Omo, come see cry o!
I was like, ''what make these people cry this way?
Because I know this my very sister left the country since 2003 and only comes back once in few years. When she went back in 2009, they didn't cry but now that she will be going with her hubby for just a while, they are crying.
Me, I didn't want to be left out in the crying so, I forced myself and started crying with them.
Not untill the whole drama ended, I asked my siblings what really made them cry and they said nothing. They said,
''The bride was crying and we didn't want her to feel she didn't mean much, so, we had to force tears out''. LOL!

victorazy:

Bros! Wetin u mean?
"As a man" meaning ur a male, i"I wish my late" meaning ur dear or luv one, "every mention of HIS name" meaning ur luv na man too. My question is; na man to man u be wan marry abi na ur father u dey mean. Plz find and fix the missing word before we charge u to court for guysm. Thanks

dhammyg:

IN THE WORDS OF MAYA ANGELOU
SUCESS IS LIKING URSELF,LIKING WHAT U DO AND LIKING HOW U DO IT.
IF A WOMAN HAS ALL THIS.SHE CAN CALL HERSELF SUCCESFUL

mujiboy: Fornication is bad.. Agreed... But do you think not fornicating is the only criteria for paradise? Don't get it twisted.

Tbaby4real:

You don't need to be angry..... If you just finished your secondary school as you stated then you still have a lot to learn about marriage.

I think your present environment is really affecting your mindset about marriage.

Marriage does not make a woman lazy. The fact is lazy person(male or female) will always find reasons for their action. They always settle for less and tell you everything is hard. Some will give up their dream cos of been lazy to continue.

And lastly, it depends on people involve in marriage. Some couples go by the society timetable for marriage which is get married and start giving birth even if the income of the family is not strong yet to welcome new family member. But some would draw their own timetable and won't listen to any societal pressure. Marriage can be burden for couple that has no plan before the union but trust me if you get married to the right person, you guys would work as a term. You know two good heads is better than one.

dhammyg:
SEE THIS ONE.SO I GUEES SOMEONE WHO JUST FINISHED SECONDARY SCHOOL IS OVER 40 YRS TO U

TOO MANY IDIOTS OUT HERE. SMH


AND YES THERE IS NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT MARRIAGE.SOMETHING THAT ALMOST EVERYBODY DOES IS NOT SPECIAL TO ME

herald9:

IN THE WORDS OF HERALD PABLO ...

ALL I SEE IS AN EMPTY AND SELFISH WOMAN!


If you just finished secondary school as you said...
Its cool

There's still time for you to drop this your line of reasoning and embrace your fate!

Ngseralph:
lols! Did I hear you say you just finished secondary schools?
That means you should be 16 or 17 now, huh?

Not surprised though cause from ya statements, Iam sure you are yet to know what marriage is.
Lols! What do I even expect to hear from a 16years old gurl about marriage?
You still dey shop mama thank ma, so, na wetin you go talk you talk.
Your song now still go be 'IAM NOT AFRAID' or 'I HAVE GOT NO PROBLEM'.
By the time you get up to 20-25, you go start to dey sing, ''I CANNOT DO WITHOUT YOU, OH LORD!
Maybe as from 25-30, the thing go change to, ''UNCHANGEABLE GOD, UNCHANGEABLE GOD''. 30-35, ''DO SOMETHING NEW IN MY LIFE, O LORD!
But you go understand me wella when you reach 35-40, Na so you go sing, ''I DEPEND ONLY ON YOU, KING OF GLORY''.

For now, Iam still 20 and not perturbed about marriage but, I know that there will be a certain age which when a woman gets to without getting married, she will just feel frustrated!
Except if the woman planned at the early stage to devote herself to the service of God!

dhammyg:
I DIDN'T SAY MARRIAGE MAKES WOMEN LAZY.I WAS TALKING ABOUT THOSE WHO SEE MARRIAGE AS THEIR AMBITION IN LIFE.
MARRIAGE MAKES THEM LAZY AS THEY FEEL THEY HAVE ACHIEVED EVERYTHING IN LIFE ALREADY

Ngseralph:
lols! Did I hear you say you just finished secondary schools?
That means you should be 16 or 17 now, huh?

Not surprised though cause from ya statements, Iam sure you are yet to know what marriage is.
Lols! What do I even expect to hear from a 16years old gurl about marriage?
You still dey shop mama thank ma, so, na wetin you go talk you talk.
Your song now still go be 'IAM NOT AFRAID' or 'I HAVE GOT NO PROBLEM'.
By the time you get up to 20-25, you go start to dey sing, ''I CANNOT DO WITHOUT YOU, OH LORD!
Maybe as from 25-30, the thing go change to, ''UNCHANGEABLE GOD, UNCHANGEABLE GOD''. 30-35, ''DO SOMETHING NEW IN MY LIFE, O LORD!
But you go understand me wella when you reach 35-40, Na so you go sing, ''I DEPEND ONLY ON YOU, KING OF GLORY''.

For now, Iam still 20 and not perturbed about marriage but, I know that there will be a certain age which when a woman gets to without getting married, she will just feel frustrated!
Except if the woman planned at the early stage to devote herself to the service of God!

Tbaby4real:

Yeah I understood what you meant.......... That's why I said lazy people. Sometimes you argue with a man and the next thing he would say is I have someone like you at home. Some people don't even know what ambition means. Some will be bragging about two rooms he had at ikorodu and that is it. He/she thinks that is the last destination. You understand what I mean huh?