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My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by jessybarbie(f): 11:24am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Before now, I have already made up my mind not to have anything to do with any man that lays his hand on me and he knows this. I have being dating him for two years now and just in the middle of a big quarrel two days ago he slapped me. I reacted immediately and hit him as much as I could but he did not retaliate but felt really bad and started begging me immediately to forgive him. I have sworn to him that it is over between us. He is begging, pleading, crying, asking our friends to intercede and loads of other stuffs that I can not put down here just to have me at least forgive him and be his friend again but I have declined because I believe that this can happen again. I want to know if there is a way that it can work again between us? We have gotten to a stage that we are more than just bf and gf. We had great plans for the future if things turns out well but this singular act have altered everything and we are both hurting. Is there any way to remedy this relationship or is it truly over forever? 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 11:28am On Jul 20, 2014 |
All these people looking for faceless people to back them up sef.... You intend to forgive him and go back to him you have made that choice before opening this thread so why bother us by asking? 23 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by nedu2000(m): 11:28am On Jul 20, 2014 |
just a single slap means it was spontaneous and doesn't label him a woman beater ,u know u girls have really sharp tongues,he got furious no big deal 11 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by angela98(f): 11:43am On Jul 20, 2014 |
If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out of that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period. 11 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by PassingShot(m): 11:48am On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period. But when a woman beats a man, she is waht? Waiting for your answer. @OP, it depends. If he's truly remorseful forgive him and let him know that should be the last time to do it. If you leave him for another man who eventually slaps you one day, will you walk away from him as well? 14 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 11:48am On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period.You really think she will agree with you? From the OP, she is going back to him 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Randy100: 11:49am On Jul 20, 2014 |
You said you hit back at him that doesnt make u an angel but a man beater. 2 of u are guilty. 20 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by krazydave(m): 11:53am On Jul 20, 2014 |
You want my advice??.. RuN!!! That "singular" act can always turn "plural". A lion can only pretend to be a goat to just a blind man::.. He might cry, and roll, and scream out his lungs that he is sorry.... But my dear; one will always add up to two..... #so, if your going back to him... Be prepared to receice more "singular" slaps backed with romantic appologies! #ma_opInIon 8 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by jessybarbie(f): 11:57am On Jul 20, 2014 |
Mynd44: I have not said am going back to him, I just want to get every side of this right and so that my last decision will be the right one. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 11:58am On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period. See hypocrites.... welcome madam!!! Did you miss the part where she slapped him back and even did more? Here:::::: jessybarbie: I reacted immediately and hit him as much as I could but he did not retaliate but felt really bad and started begging me immediately to forgive him. I guess she too is not a wife material herself @Op.... truth be told you have retaliated back and that makes both of you equally guilty of whatever violence that went down that day. If you said because a man slapped you and you decided to retaliate and he wasn't even comfortable enough to continue in the silly "cat-fight" then you both need counselling on anger management. So you will be breaking up with everyone who slapped you? Get a good counsel and give each other a second shot. By the way what did u do or say to him to get a slap after two whole years of non violence? 29 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 11:59am On Jul 20, 2014 |
He isn't a gentleman... he has just been pretending all this while. When men fight their fellow selves, the scene is always catastrophic, .. But when the fight is btw two opposite sex....the scene my friend is always scary(cos the probability that the someone might die is 98.2%). Am the kind of gentleman you need in your life, i never hit females... 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by angela98(f): 12:03pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
RoyalRoy:women have soft hands they dont slap a man aggressively they give men a sexy slap..ha ha ha. Joke apart. Even if she slaps him, as a man he wouldn't have retaliated. He is suppose to calm her 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 12:09pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: women have soft hands they dont slap a man aggressively they give men a sexy slap..ha ha ha. Joke apart. Even if he slaps him, as a man he wouldn't have retaliated. He is suppose to calm herEh? Which kin paradox be this one? If she slaps him he is supposed to calm her down and yet why did she not calm down when he slapped her? Say no to gender inequality 17 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 12:11pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: women have soft hands they dont slap a man aggressively they give men a sexy slap..ha ha ha. Joke apart. Even if he slaps him, as a man he wouldn't have retaliated. He is suppose to calm herIndeed. I laugh in my Calabar dialect **** ofurum-gbam-gbam-ndok *** I believe violence should have no place in a relationship whatsoever. The only violence I recommend is against rats and cockroaches encroaching in your territory 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
@jessybarbie, Abusive relationships are not to be taken lightly. Walk out now, while you still can... The LORD is your strength.
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Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by zeb04(f): 12:15pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
It alwys start with a slap....very soon you wld have a boxing ring in that house Frankly speaking he won't stop. The next time you get into an argument,it wld just come naturally to him. The decision is yours. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 12:16pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Danrizzle: He isn't a gentleman... he has just been pretending all this while. When men fight their fellow selves, the scene is always catastrophic, .. But when the fight is btw two opposite sex....the scene my friend is always scary(cos the probability that the female might die is 98.2%). Am the kind of gentleman you need in your life, i never hit females... Bad Sharp Guy 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 12:16pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
theLORDreigns: @jessybarbie,Walk out and go where? She is also abusive. You want her to go to a non abusive man and make his life miserable? No abeg the two of you are the perfect match. Heaven made soulmates 10 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 12:17pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
RoyalRoy:He sees opportunity at every turn |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 12:19pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Is it also okay to kick a woman who slaps a man to the curb the first and only time she does such? Waiting for answers o! |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Eisenhower(m): 12:21pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Mynd44: 12:21pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
RoyalRoy: Is it also okay to kick a woman who slaps a man to the curb the first and only time she does such? Waiting for answers o!More like is it okay to hit a woman back is she slaps him (like the OP did)? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Since you wouldn't say what led to the heated argument,let me remind you that there are always 3sides to an issue,your version,his version and the truth meanwhile,the fact still remains that you know him more than we do,hence the final decision lies with you 6 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 12:22pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
jessybarbie: I reacted immediately and hit him as much as I could but he did not retaliate but felt really bad and started begging me immediately to forgive him. A man slaps a woman once after two years of courtship... he is a devil embryo.... a woman slaps a man first then the man should sit back , put her on his laps and calm her down!!! Hehehehe.... simple rules of gender equity 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by RoyalRoy(m): 12:24pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Mynd44: hehehe... equation balanced. |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Mynd44: Strictly,abso-fucking-lutely wikid |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Mynd44: Where she goes is secondary... right now, the smart thing to do is to walk out. She is also abusive. She isn't, it was self-defence. You want her to go to a non abusive man and make his life miserable? No She isn't the abusive type... abeg the two of you are the perfect match. Heaven made soulmates Lol...stop being sarcastic! 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
RoyalRoy: A man slaps a woman once Atleast give 'em gender equality/feminism activists the time to get here,they are stuck in traffic |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Oga mynd44,abeg take to frontpage,abeg |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Danhumprey: 12:31pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
angela98: If your boyfriend slaps you its a sign of an aggressive, abusive man. You never marry am he slaps u like that. What will happen if he marries you, of course he will knife you. I wonder what you are still doing with the guy. Please walk out that relationship fast. He doesn't deserve you. He is a loser. Its a loser that hits a woman period.If every girl/lady has a mindset like yours,I doubt if relationship/marriage will exist. Just because of a sponataneous slap,which he even apologise for,she should quit the relationship,eh?? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
RoyalRoy: Mynd44: See them wikid people. Lmao, but seriously am waiting for the feminists to come twist this story. Op tell us what you did to him first. It might actually be something worth two slaps not the one he gave you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Slapped Me! by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
theLORDreigns: Are you her lawyer? |
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