You know that awkward moment when u fell like a train just ran thru u,that was the exact feeling i had when she ask for a monthly pocket money of 20k..honestly i thought it was a joke until she stood her ground concerning her request...all i could murmur was WTF ur joking right? and she gave me the stink eye...till now i still feel like its a dream cos shes a kinda lady that doesnt demand for anything,i only buy her gifts and some ladies stuff at my own will and conviniece....pls help what should i do? cos i dont really know what to do cos its like my brain is malfunction at the moment and Love is not something u can turn off at will..i need mature advice?

Guy,am working and my salary is ok for me atm..giving her 20k a month would be the end of me

This gotta be a joke!

fijiano202: Guy,am working and my salary is ok for me atm..giving her 20k a month would be the end of me

Good, then tell her this,not us. Am very sure she can not be insensitive to this fact. Thefact is u cannot give what u don't have.

Let's start by looking at what you do for a living and your monthly income. I can ask my boyfriend to start giving me a monthly pocket money of such amount, to kick him in the ass, to
get up and find work if I feel he is not putting enough effort to find work. If that is the case I dont think is for bad intention.
If u are working and on low income and she is aware, I would think that she is just being inconsiderate. She has fallen out of love for you and maybe looking for a way to get rid of you. Just my opinion.

What she doing for u that she wants 20k, is she ur house help, driver, Gardner or wat

Bro if u give am 5 naira u b mumu 20k ko 200k ni

Tell the elders of your village to discuss your matter when next they sit.

Monthly allowance or what?

angela98: Let's start by looking at what you do for a living and your monthly income. I can ask my boyfriend to start giving me a monthly pocket money of such amount, to kick him in the ass, to
get up and find work if I feel he is not putting enough effort to find work. If that is the case I dont think is for bad intention.
If u are working and on low income and she is aware, I would think that she is just being inconsiderate. She has fallen out of love for you and maybe looking for a way to get rid of you. Just my opinion.

Someone was going to ask this question anyway, so I might as well go for it...Is he your father??

angela98: Let's start by looking at what you do for a living and your monthly income. I can ask my boyfriend to start giving me a monthly pocket money of such amount, to kick him in the ass, to
get up and find work if I feel he is not putting enough effort to find work. If that is the case I dont think is for bad intention.
If u are working and on low income and she is aware, I would think that she is just being inconsiderate. She has fallen out of love for you and maybe looking for a way to get rid of you. Just my opinion.

i wont call my job a dream job but it pay the bills,shelter and other stuffs..even if i receive a salary of 120 per month giving her 20k is way 2much..is she my life? we are not even engage atm..i have families also

angela98: Let's start by looking at what you do for a living and your monthly income. I can ask my boyfriend to start giving me a monthly pocket money of such amount, to kick him in the ass, to
get up and find work if I feel he is not putting enough effort to find work. If that is the case I dont think is for bad intention.
If u are working and on low income and she is aware, I would think that she is just being inconsiderate. She has fallen out of love for you and maybe looking for a way to get rid of you. Just my opinion.

i wont call my job a dream job but it pay the bills,shelter and other stuffs..even if i receive a salary of 120 per month giving her 20k is way 2much..is she my life? we are not even engage atm..i have families also..there are lots of better ways to advice or push someone to greater height..

claireshan: Monthly allowance or what?

I tire

claireshan: Monthly allowance or what?

if i know the answer to that question i promise to answer cos shes also a grad

chamboy: What she doing for u that she wants 20k, is she ur house help, driver, Gardner or wat

what does a GF

chamboy: What she doing for u that she wants 20k, is she ur house help, driver, Gardner or wat

what does a GF do

fijiano202: if i know the answer to that question i promise to answer cos shes also a grad

Lol just tell her you can't afford it

chamboy: I tire

you don't need to be,, I need my allowance as well

If this is true then I must be a learner o

@Op is she your wife? Do you give your Mum/sister monthly allowance?
If you don't know what to do open an insurance 20k monthly package.

NB: I am a lady so when I see unreasonable woman I will know.

Gratia: If this is true then I must be a learner o
@Op is she your wife? Do you give your Mum/sister monthly allowance?
If you don't know what to do open an insurance 20k monthly package.
NB: I am a lady so when I see unreasonable woman I will know.

she aint my wife and we are not engaged..Also the money i give my mom and sis cant be regarded as monthly allowance cos its not every month

fijiano202: i wont call my job a dream job but it pay the bills,shelter and other stuffs..even if i receive a salary of 120 per month giving her 20k is way 2much..is she my life? we are not even engage atm..i have families also..there are lots of better ways to advice or push someone to greater height..

you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and she continues to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

fijiano202: what does a GF do

so GIRLFRIEND is now an occupation

angela98: you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and continued to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

God dis world should b ova already

Bro pls chase the biitch away, she would do d same if she get a bigger contract with anoda guy... bitches r like soccer players

Bros I beg you in the name of God to dump that babe. She is done with you and wants to turn you to her ATM. Remember most girls motto is "A relationship either take you to the alter or to the bank". She is about to make you her bank boy!!!


20k monthly pocket money unto say nah shop dey inbetween her legs abi diamond. Mtchewwww

claireshan: you don't need to be,, I need my allowance as well

hmmmmm

fijiano202: Guy,am working and my salary is ok for me atm..giving her 20k a month would be the end of me

Do you earn up to 20k?

xynerise:
Do you earn up to 20k?

even if he earns 100m

Girls!!!

angela98: you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and she continues to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

Anty na wa 4 u o! Is he her father? GF na job? What is wrong with my 9ja sisters sef?
Now, you're comparing being a gf to prostitution but when they say shii like "all girls are hos" you'll still be the first to jump to shut em up.

This chick is asking for monthly salary not even that she's asking for aid/help to do something. Even if your bf is dangote that's just wrong on many levels. Smh. Op if u can't afford it, tell her or better still, help her get a job, I think starting salary of a grad should be more than 20k.