Give her as much as you can afford if you love her and she also deserves it.
I gave mine more than N250k for 12 months whilst she was still an undergraduate at a university and only stopped when she messed up.
But don't waste your money on any girlfriend who does not deserve your loyalty and respect.

Orikinla: Give her as much as you can afford if you love her and she also deserves it.
I gave mine more than N250k for 12 months whilst she was still an undergraduate at a university and only stopped when she messed up.
But don't waste your money on any girlfriend who does not deserve your loyalty and respect.

You are not her father !

Lol...she wan dey collect salary....Abi she wan turn your investment

angela98: you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and she continues to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

Ibu onye ara !

You are truly bad..

What sort of nonsense comparison is this ?

This girl is living for the now. She is not planning for the posters betterment or future. Some ladies think they are smart.

One lady tried this similar shiit with me long time ago.

The relationship ended same week and you all know who cried..

Recently another lady was like, send me card everyday, I told her I can give her upto N500 card everyday if only she is my wife.

She stopped requesting from that day and I only send when I feel like.

Poster, tell her she should wait till she becomes your wife...

Adaeze003:

Anty na wa 4 u o! Is he her father? GF na job? What is wrong with my 9ja sisters sef?
Now, you're comparing being a gf to prostitution but when they say shii like "all girls are hos" you'll still be the first to jump to shut em up.

This chick is asking for monthly salary not even that she's asking for aid/help to do something. Even if your bf is dangote that's just wrong on many levels. Smh. Op if u can't afford it, tell her or better still, help her get a job, I think starting salary of a grad should be more than 20k.

God bless you..

farano: You guys should negotiate on the price na

Nawa o..

jennylove7575: maybe he is a stingy guy whom doesn't like to spend money on women. Probably she got tired of his tight fistedness and decides to make her demands to call a spade a spade.

And some lazy girls don't want to get a job..

They depend on multiple men to feed and pay their bills.

So men decide to call a spade a spade.

Not bad at all.... As long as you r up to d task.....

fijiano202: 70 plus

Does she know your salary ? If YES, she is not a good girl. I bet you on this.

Bros, tell her you can only afford 5k monthly to test her. If she ever makes this comment, " it will not be enough for me "... and she persists...

Start planning to end that relationship.

scribble: and here i am looking for a fine sidechick that will collect 30k per month

this life is not fair

tell your babe to PM me abeg

Lmao..

Hmmm

fijiano202:
You know that awkward moment when u fell like a train just ran thru u,that was the exact feeling i had when she ask for a monthly pocket money of 20k..honestly i thought it was a joke until she stood her ground concerning her request...all i could murmur was WTF ur joking right? and she gave me the stink eye...till now i still feel like its a dream cos shes a kinda lady that doesnt demand for anything,i only buy her gifts and some ladies stuff at my own will and conviniece....pls help what should i do? cos i dont really know what to do cos its like my brain is malfunction at the moment and Love is not something u can turn off at will..i need mature advice?

The fact she asked is crazy. I think she shouldn’t even have to ask. You give according to what you can. Not what she demands. You are not working for her. Why do women do this? I would rather be offered than demand

HeavenlyCherub:


The fact she asked is crazy. I think she shouldn’t even have to ask. You give according to what you can. Not what she demands. You are not working for her. Why do women do this? I would rather be offered than demand

It's the mentality of most Nigerian ladies

Old thread.OP must be married now.