Tallesty1: He said he loves you and his actions proves it and yet you friendzoned him. Why are you this wicked

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahaahaha bros u dey vex ni

hannne: There is actually ds coursemate of mine who loves me vewi much.....dats what he said sha nd he proves it by his action.actually,he has been my close frd since year1 nd i tell him almost everything includn my relationship life.i have nevr pictured him romantically.i jus see him as a frd.he has been asking me out recently but i keep turning him down.my own reasons are the feelings is not dia yet nd also i have a principle never to date my coursemate .t looks awkward.we wiill see everyday in class.nd i know mysef,i cnt do a coded relationship.
Have u ever dated your coursemate.how was it like.how did u do it.

Why dont u give him a chance.....well i can only date my coursemate if and only if he is very brilliant and at the same tim gat swagz


But if he doesnt come to class regularly and not serious about his studies please stay away from him before he brings ur CGPA down below.

LAST BULLEST

i like intelligent & brilliants guys alot.

Vstuffs: @op this is for u

Lol.

I always tell my cousemates that for some of them their wives are yet to gain admission , most of them just need someone to hang around with , only 10% actually works .

ednut1: how old are u guys. 18-22 if in dat category he go fuk u and dumped u with 98% probability. a wise babe shud nt date students. dat working and matured

Most honest advice so far unless she wants to date for the fun/peer pressure. We all know that 98% or more end in school. @op, if you need brotherly and sincere advice, follow this bro's I quoted or follow your heart. A word is enough for the wise.

justi4jesu:

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahaahaha bros u dey vex ni

That kain thing dey vex me nah, should a guy brake her heart now she will start screaming that all men are thesame.

Well consider this

1. Is he enough matured, nice caring( not talking about money) etc.

2.Look at he's track records with past relationships.

3. Is he a private type of guy?.....Does run he's mouth like that of a tap to he's friends?....If yes, then well you know you both wouldnt be the only one's to know whatever happens in your relationship.

3. What if it doesn't work out for the both of you?...Be aware that once the relationship is done, the friendship is done.

4.How bad you'll be affected if you two happen to break up?, knowing the fact that you'll have to see him constantly.

lokito: If you date your classmate he's going to be a distraction to you in class. Even in exam hall b/c of him shame will not allow you to giraffe. So no need

speaking from exprience.

nationwide24: Most honest advice so far unless she wants to date for the fun/peer pressure. We all know that 98% or more end in school. @op, if you need brotherly and sincere advice, follow this bro's I quoted or follow your heart. A word is enough for the wise.

I was a bit intelligent, so almost all my department girls were my friends.. I don't have time to date any of them, they were all giving me freely..

I met my wife in a JAMB lesson.
About 10 couples married themselves in my set.

I actually said i won't date my cosm8 but durin my final yr in skul, one of my cosm8 who happened to be a lesbian startin diggin my way as cosrep i cum dy eye her based her phisique was perfect figure 8, boobs na die and hips na Confam! We actually acted lyk we were dating bt we knew we were jst bleepinm8s. Our contract ended weeks after clearance.

I've never dated a course-mate.... I date my lecturers(females only)

He's ur friend & loves u yet u are askin questions. What happened to wat u guys always say here on Nairaland - 'get married to ur friend'. I kno u are not talkin about marriage yet but u'll first of all date first b4 d marriage stuff. And again, I kno u like him for u to bring d issue here for opinions.

But again, u need to ask urself this questions, cos I think both of u might b in d same age group. What are his dreams after sku? Can I cope wit it or dem? If I start dating him now, will he b ready for marriage in so so time wen I am, Considerin d almost d same age u guys are? Are u both matured enough to handle a relationship?

I kno u'are not talkin about marriage, but I think u shouldn't date somone u kno u won't marry.

My 50cent.

It happens anyway but i must confess like you said its so so awkward especially when the lady in question is a popular face.

Not to talk of when the questions start rolling in. You could defy all odds and go ahead.

Op before u consider giving him a chance, check his type of lifestyle, the kind of friends he moves, his the diarrhoea mouth kind of guy, the type that is always changing gals like the way he wants, above all follow up on his attitude to life and the kind of prospects he has.

During my Undergraduate yrs i made a vow I would never date my course mates, of course so many of my classmates wooed me but I declined cause they possessed some of the characteristics I stated earlier, i never regretted not dating any of them. As God would have it, Op if ur future husband is ur classmate, then u would definitely date him. In my 4th year I finally said yes to a guy that has been asking me out since year 2,very intelligent, career oriented, focused guy.

When I said yes to him my educational goals took a different direction, his a strict person, he doesn't tolerate lateness to class or me not doing my assignment, he had strict policies when it comes to our relationship and class work. I learnt how to adjust my reading time table and to adapt to reading for long hrs, I was a normal student that was satisfied with a 3.5 to 3.9 gp, I no send 4point and above.

In my 4th year I was on 4.2, 5th yr result was robust, I couldn't believe i could perform this good, and to be truthful we never sat together during exams, Na sharia things. Dating a guy in ur class could be a blessing if u date a reasonable guy, whether u date a working class or a fellow student a guy that wants to play with u would play with u.

Another thing is never take ur romance to class, u know holding hands like couples, cuddling each other in class, sitting together almost every time, be discrete about it as possible, only close friends should know u're both dating, cause classmates sabi spoil relationship with their gossips and rumours. The both parties got to be very matured in their thinking, seriously dating my classmate is the best relationship ive ever been, his my best friend, my Lover, my soul mate, my husband to be in few months time.

Yea I did it in my 3rd year(last year). It was a disaster cos I was the class governor so I had challenges governing d class, I had crooks as friends(coursemates), cos anytim I made decisions in class they wr always ready to see if it was goin to be in d favour of d girl. Sometime dy wuld call her d class governor instead of me, jst to cos mischief. I had to leave her jst to save d both of us, cos it ws unbearable.

we77:

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I swear I like you. No homo.

no I can't but we can still get down sha

no string attach

Tallesty1: He said he loves you and his actions proves it and yet you friendzoned him. Why are you this wicked

...she friendzoned him because she doesnt feel anything for him or mayb she s scared of dating her coursemate...shikena!!

temigracie: ...she friendzoned him because she doesnt feel anything for him or mayb she s scared of dating her coursemate...shikena!!

Lol, na u be her mouth piece?

oluswaggz:
Lol, na u be her mouth piece?

adon even knw sef

I am currently in one. Funny thing is this one am currently dating wants our ish to end in marriage...I like her sha. Let's see how things go

lokito: If you date your classmate he's going to be a distraction to you in class. Even in exam hall b/c of him shame will not allow you to giraffe. So no need

if u tell each oda everything, dere will be no more shame, d guy sef for don knw sey yu no knw dat course

Yes o. In those days at unab I was so into this my course mate. I call him then, my pleasure booster. The guy sabi comb my eden well and he know book. He helps me write all my assignment and most of my exams. In return he combs my eden anytime any day... We lost contact after nysc . wen I ran into him in Germany he was married with kids. But he still couldn't let go. I spent my two week holiday in Germany with him in a hotel and my Eden was thouroughly combed. Good memory.

temigracie: ...she friendzoned him because she doesnt feel anything for him or mayb she s scared of dating her coursemate...shikena!!

If she does not feel a thing for him then she should stay faithful to her feelings and stop asking questions.

jennylove7575: Yes o. In those days at unab I was so into this my course mate. I call him then, my pleasure booster. The guy sabi comb my eden well and he know book. He helps me write all my assignment and most of my exams. In return he combs my eden anytime any day... We lost contact after nysc . wen I ran into him in Germany he was married with kids. But he still couldn't let go. I spent my two week holiday in Germany with him in a hotel and my Eden was thouroughly combed. Good memory.

Gossshhhhh i just can't help laughing while reading this your post.....nairaland no go kill me.....wait until those ugly nairaland boys come back from church see this post

jennylove7575: Yes o. In those days at unab I was so into this my course mate. I call him then, my pleasure booster. The guy sabi comb my eden well and he know book. He helps me write all my assignment and most of my exams. In return he combs my eden anytime any day... We lost contact after nysc . wen I ran into him in Germany he was married with kids. But he still couldn't let go. I spent my two week holiday in Germany with him in a hotel and my Eden was thouroughly combed. Good memory.

Please what is combing of eden?

softsparkyy:
Please what is combing of eden?

combing your eden is wen your bf brushes your bush.

jennylove7575: combing your eden is wen your bf brushes your bush.

Still confused shaa cos I don't have a bush.