Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,200 members, 7,953,742 topics. Date: Friday, 20 September 2024 at 02:25 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? (49607 Views)
Why We Cheat On Our Husbands - Nigerian Women Open Up / Three Most Beautiful Words Cherished By A Married Woman Apart From I Love You / Do Children Still Say "Thank You" To Parent After Each Meal? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
lestat: Nice post, now listen well as I talk from experience!!!!jah bless you for this, dis is SO SO onpoint |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by joshrare(m): 1:07pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Any thing you do without God's divine guidiance and leading is bound to fail/troubled 1 Like |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Eberex(m): 1:15pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
lestat: Nice post, now listen well as I talk from experience!!!! Starting with all those who find themselves in social network like BADOO |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by valkaka(m): 1:25pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
All these people saying d@ you cant possibly cheat on some1 if you love dem re naive. Does it make sense for guys to go along with d idea d@ they will neva ve sex with any1 else ever again,wen d biological imperative for male is to mate with as wide a variety of partners as possible. At the same time,d biological imperative of female is to find a man who will stay with her and provide for her children and a man who is mating with oda women may be tempted to instead provide for the children he has with one of dose oda women. So w@ is love?...love is the insane state of the male to agree to violate his biological imperative to meet her biological imperative.so by dis definition,if you re willing to ve sex with anoda woman,you cant be in love,but smh!!!...if you re willing to give up the opportunity to ve sex with oda women....you re insane......Goodluck!!! |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by lonelydora: 1:40pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Women are fruits, and men like fruit salad and not one type of fruit. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
D way people r commentin on dis issue sef sayn its possible 2 love som1 wen cheatn on d person shows dey lack d recipe of wisdom. Lyk seriously its very impossible 2 trully love som1 n yet cheat on d person. Its crazy, its a psychological disorder dat will make som1 cheat on som1 n still claim 2 love d person. Tz mor lyk d person is suffering from schitzophrenia. A cheat is a liar, a liar can steal, a person who steals can kill. Is it dat kind of person u wana believe or listen 2 hez profession of love 4 u? |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by karpentar: 1:51pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Babymama1: You can get drunk and cheat but most times only once. If repeated, then emotional attachment, don dey enter small small. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by uzo200(m): 1:52pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
zboyd: Some people aren't ready to end a relationship/marriage when they cheat.why is it that those who no gree give u toto to bang go dae claim sae them love u. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by JideTheBlogger(m): 1:52pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
mstik: I can believe this. At least for men. When men cheat, they are not emotionally attached to the girl they cheat with. It's just having sex , for them and they feel nothing for the person they sleep with. 1million LIKES |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by karpentar: 1:53pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Alexpissu: Love is the slowest form of suicide ...... I will for forgive her after cheating. I hope she'll forgive me too. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by JideTheBlogger(m): 1:56pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Babymama1: hahahaha ... |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by karpentar: 2:00pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
zboyd: Some people aren't ready to end a relationship/marriage when they cheat. Why can't evereybody just cheat? What's really wrong with that? So much emphasis on one-man one-woman relationship is what indeed makes cheating attractive. I bet, if it becomes free for all, cheating will cease to exist. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by kaima1984(f): 2:14pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
mstik: I can believe this. At least for men. When men cheat, they are not emotionally attached to the girl they cheat with. It's just having sex , for them and they feel nothing for the person they sleep with.I dnt believe u sweetie |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
lestat: Nice post, now listen well as I talk from experience!!!!Gbam! All these deceitful tactics by cheats to deceive their partners with the 'I love you' rubbish is a cunning way to give excuse for their cheating. A cheat is a liar and manipulator. A cheat can come up with soooo many reasons for his/her cheating ways just so that you can easily forgive and tolerate their excesses in case they decide to cheat again of which they always do. A cheat is a very cunning person and its a shame a lot of people have bought/believed their lies. I pity anyone who believes a cheat can change. Let them get ready for more manipulations.The men who are using fruits or food to compare with women are the same cheats. I wonder if they would sooo glad when their gfs/wives compare them with food. Since women are hardly satisfied with things, I bet they won't have a problem if their wives cheat on them too. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
karpentar:Oh why can't everyone cheat huh? Are you a male or female? With all the happiness in the world, would you allow your partner to cheat? |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
born2fuck: Love and cheating are different things entirely, most guys are guilty of cheating but kept the one they love at home.You must be a learner!! You claim to be a man that can cheat and boast about it. You dnt know women. A woman can kill you and you would not even know she is about to. I pity you o. Your type usually have wives that are cheats. Too bad. You are too naïve.The Ego in you men makes you blind. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Godmystrength: 2:36pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
bennyrazz: It is very possible to cheat and still love your partner. Let me put it like this, you like vegetable soup very much and you eat it everyday, some days will definitely come where you want to do away with vegetables for probably a day or two but you still love vegetables and you rate it ahead of any other soup. After tasting other soups, you will be like hun hun vegetable is better than this now, vegetables doesn't purge me now, vegetables doesn't make my tongue bitter now. That is when you realise you can't do away with vegetables and vegetable is better than ogbono, ewudo, okro soup, edika ikong , white soup, egusi, banga, gbegiri e.tc and when you are caught by your wife eating another soup that is when you begin to explain and make her realise that the other soup you tasted isn't as sweet as her own vegetablesi hope the wife to can explain to hubby all these when she is caught eating other fruits. Shebi i like banana, so i can also go and test pawpaw, cucumber, water lemon, grapes, oranges etc and say that they are not as sweet as banana, banana doesn't purge me, doesn't give me constipation, doesn't give me heart burns etc. Abi how can i be eating only bananas all my life? Nobody should $h!t on me and talk about love later o. If i hear........ 4 Likes |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by cococandy(f): 2:38pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
The comments on this thread |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by shellyboi: 2:50pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
buJu234: Op;wetin be d tin wey dey hardly stand? |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Eberex(m): 2:51pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
No matter how much you try to paint or disguise it. IT IS WRONG TO CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by vainfairy: 2:54pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Babymama1: Sex is not love and love is not sex Gbao!! Datz d reasoning of a great mind. Gender wars can neva end, woteva d species involved's views, society's manipulation or not......... |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Godmystrength: i hope the wife to can explain to hubby all these when she is caught eating other fruits. Shebi i like banana, so i can also go and test pawpaw, cucumber, water lemon, grapes, oranges etc and say that they are not as sweet as banana, banana doesn't purge me, doesn't give me constipation, doesn't give me heart burns etc. Abi how can i be eating only bananas all my life? *Abi. Me too o. I like different varieties of fruits. I hope i can cheat too.Or do these men think its easy eating only one kind of fruit? What a lame excuse to cheat!! Woe unto anybody who believes such lie! 2 Likes |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Godmystrength: 3:34pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Abi now. How can i have only one fruit when i can have fruit salad at the same cost............... God will just save us o. After they will now bring some yamayama disease home to there spouse. I don't even know how one can escape all theses nonsense when you have a cheating spouse abi who will hear you out when you start telling your partner to use a condom when you want to have sex because you don't want to catch anything? |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Jahblessme: 3:52pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Funny thing about most of the people bleating here about Okoro soup and ogbono soup is that they do not even know the basics about giving a woman an or gasm.Upon all the nudging and correction the woman is giving,ordinary h ead you no sabi give.Yet she stays faithful and you are speaking of variety. As long as the dude doesn't have probs with her also trying out a proper box chomper that will blow her mind.She still loves you oo but body no be firewood. Of course she will be very discreet,you are her husband still and she loves all you've built together but body no be firewood and s ex is just s ex plain and simple. Cheating doesn't mean she doesn't love you anymore,just that she's tired of your dead pencil Go forth and sin no more 2 Likes |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
I'm surprise to see people saying that one can cheat and still love his/her partner, I call it 21 century psychological disorder. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by ogaju007(m): 5:31pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Lacomus: I'm surprise to see people saying that one can cheat and still love his/her partner, I call it 21 century psychological disorder. Dont be naive.... theres a big difference between love and lust... sex is not the same as love.... I love my partner and would take a bullet for her but wouldn't diminish her by comparing me having nsex with some girl to what i feel for her..... Its complex but its the simple truth. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Godmystrength: 5:38pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
ogaju007: Dont be naive.... theres a big difference between love and lust... sex is not the same as love.... I love my partner and would take a bullet for him but wouldn't diminish him by comparing me having sex with some guy to what i feel for him..... Its complex but its the simple truth. I which i could say the above too but that's not my kind of person. I won't descend so low to make a mess of myself and still have some nonsense excuses to defend myself. When you are guilty, just plead guilty and hope that you will be pardoned. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by beeevan: 5:46pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Whoever thinks women are averse to fruit salad is 'Daftie'. No, you can't claim to love when you cheat. 1 Like |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by ogaju007(m): 5:48pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Godmystrength: Pardoned by who? |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by defendedvictim(m): 5:56pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
zerray: i disagree wt most view here o i believe if a man or woman TRUELY LOVE you they wont even be attracted to other ppl not to talk of cheating.most ppl dnt even knw what love is dts the problem.because u are a relationship wt a someone doesnt mean they luv u,most ppl are too afraid to admit their partner doesnt love them,dt why they hv to keep reassuring themselves of the 'love' if you doubt it go and ask a boy or girl dt was truely inlove with their partners they will tell u they never even cheated on their partner.i hv seen these things happen.cheaters are manipulators and liarsstory! someone can still luv u n fall into temptation.. its Nt a luv problem, its a self control problem |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Godmystrength: 6:02pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
ogaju007:by whoever is offended by your cheating act. |
Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
defendedvictim:keep deceiving urself until you knw what LOVE is |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply)
Dear Mothers, Stop Bleaching Your Baby's Skin. / My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. / Bank Manager Impregnates Mother, Daughter In Delta
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 79 |