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Actually, many Naija guys want to marry virgins. OP is just offering us another angle to it. Virginity doesn't denote moral purity exclusively. A virgin does not make a good wife just because, but she lends a sense of marital fidelity to her home.

zeongeon: Forget about thiS world that encourages immorality and keep your dignity and pride aS a woman which iS ur virginity.

From the world immemorial from europe to asia to the middle east down to africa a woman Virginity was Seen aS a Symbol of pride, virtue and dignity even kingS, princes, warriors and men in general married virginS.
A virgin iS d pride of her husband. Even d gods aSked for virgins as oracleS that's to tell that even in d spiritual Virginity is symbolic.

If your a virgin please keep urself for ur huSband and not to make ur self an object to every other men. As a virgin u can decide to b like other gals at anytime but other gals can't be like u again.

If ur no longer a virgin it will be good to discipline and respect urself so that u don't become remnant for ur husband.

And with the rate of immorality I think we should put a law that a man will only pay a woman bride price only if she is a virgin..For bride price symbolizes that d gurl nah virgin and ur d first man that will feel her warmth. Why then should we pay bride price in tune of thousands and millions when d gal Is not a virgin??

zeongeon: Forget about thiS world that encourages immorality and keep your dignity and pride aS a woman which iS ur virginity.

From the world immemorial from europe to asia to the middle east down to africa a woman Virginity was Seen aS a Symbol of pride, virtue and dignity even kingS, princes, warriors and men in general married virginS.
A virgin iS d pride of her husband. Even d gods aSked for virgins as oracleS that's to tell that even in d spiritual Virginity is symbolic.

If your a virgin please keep urself for ur huSband and not to make ur self an object to every other men. As a virgin u can decide to b like other gals at anytime but other gals can't be like u again.

If ur no longer a virgin it will be good to discipline and respect urself so that u don't become remnant for ur husband.

And with the rate of immorality I think we should put a law that a man will only pay a woman bride price only if she is a virgin..For bride price symbolizes that d gurl nah virgin and ur d first man that will feel her warmth. Why then should we pay bride price in tune of thousands and millions when d gal Is not a virgin??

ShirelleBaby: y are u opening ur mouth na?

iHustle: I will never marry a non-virgin! Never! No virgin, no party. I can't deal with the mental torture of knowing that other men have ravaged my wife. I just can't.

A virgin who kept her virginity because of the fear of God and respect for her future husband should be greatly praised. Such a woman will not be inclined to cheat on her husband

Every woman should be with the man that disvirgined her (except she was a raped). That's how it's supposed to be. You cannot be giving leftover to other men.

A covenant takes place when a lady loses her virginity to a man. Marrying a woman that has giving out something so special to another man is a complete NO NO for me.

xtervaganza: and who gives a crap about you?

ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh

iHustle:

Why are you so bothered?

Nonso23: Ladies, virginity makes you special.
It shows you:

Are disciplined

Have strong moral principles

Have the ability to see a tough decision through

Are not influenced by peer pressure

Can move against the general notion of the crowd

Are properly trained by your parents

Understand that the safest way to avoid STDs, abortions and unwanted pregnancies is Abstinence.

Are a rare gem.

You wouldn't have anything to hide like "a dirty past" when you finally choose to get married.

Will command respect from your future spouse.

Most importantly, you are a great mother in the making.

But also try as much as possible to develop yourselves in other areas of your lives in order to become to most sought after wife package. These sex-starved men do not care about you or your life in anyway. Their aim is just to 'lamba' you and move on. Thankfully, there are prostitutes to help them cure their pent up sexual frustration. Let them seek these sex workers out and fulfill their erotic fantasies . Refuse to be any man's plaything. Most importantly , don't mind that lie that you wouldn't get married early if you choose the abstinence route. You only wouldn't get married to thoughtless, unreasonable, selfish sex starved monsters and that's a good thing.

BTW, A lot of men would rather a virgin spouse 20 times over one who has lost hers. This is still Africa. Virginity is still considered a 'virtue' and should remain so because indirectly it is.

Nonso23:

When will some women learn to accept the truth for what it is, without taint ?
When will some of you realize that it's not about what you want to hear but about what is right?

There is, has always been, will always be a difference between a chaste/virgin woman and the rest of the womenfold. Harsh truth but the truth nonetheless.

I don't have a problem with women who are no longer virgins but what i have a problem with is: them trying to downplay the truth just to massage their bruising egos.

Where did i say the opposite of virgins are prostitutes?
Don't you understand the dynamics of debate? The idea of the question was to know how far the o.p was willing to go to support his 'virginity does not matter' stance and it pretty much sold him out.
Why are you taking it so personal?

This thread is about virgin women and i responded appropriately. Whatever stereotypes you choose to believe about male chastity is entirely your opinion. No one is under any compulsion whatsoever to yield to your bland, cheap, sexist blackmails.

Being a Virgin may not be everything but it's a whole, whole, lot closer to 'everything' than not being one.

Keep sentiments and emotions aside when appraising other people's opinions.

temigracie: abi oooo,same here too

nellyelitz: wow same here oooo...

Nonso23: Ladies, virginity makes you special.
It shows you:

Are disciplined

Have strong moral principles

Have the ability to see a tough decision through

Are not influenced by peer pressure

Can move against the general notion of the crowd

Are properly trained by your parents

Understand that the safest way to avoid STDs, abortions and unwanted pregnancies is Abstinence.

Are a rare gem.

You wouldn't have anything to hide like "a dirty past" when you finally choose to get married.

Will command respect from your future spouse.

Most importantly, you are a great mother in the making.

But also try as much as possible to develop yourselves in other areas of your lives in order to become to most sought after wife package. These sex-starved men do not care about you or your life in anyway. Their aim is just to 'lamba' you and move on. Thankfully, there are prostitutes to help them cure their pent up sexual frustration. Let them seek these sex workers out and fulfill their erotic fantasies . Refuse to be any man's plaything. Most importantly , don't mind that lie that you wouldn't get married early if you choose the abstinence route. You only wouldn't get married to thoughtless, unreasonable, selfish sex starved monsters and that's a good thing.

BTW, A lot of men would rather a virgin spouse 20 times over one who has lost hers. This is still Africa. Virginity is still considered a 'virtue' and should remain so because indirectly it is.

Bootybuttchic: i swear down .....same here sis!!!



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rozzay: Some things people say eeeeh! Deres nofin wrong in been a virgin its a gud thing if u r nd deres nofin wrong if u r not, it depends on personal choice just like d OP is saying its not a guarantee nd someone else said virgin or not.
When I c some guys ranting ladies u shuld be a virgin! I can't marry a non virgin! I have just one question for u.- are you a virgin? The bible says fornication is a sin for males nd females not only ladies alone so b4 u start spewing nonsense u shuld be a virgin too den the equation would rhyme- u want to give ur husband remnants' wat abt the husband giving his wife remnants. So sad esp the guy asking the OP if he can marry a prostitute dat can cook so do u mean dat the opposite of virgins r prostitute cos I didn't get the concept of d question. The OP wasn't referring to loose women or women dat sleep around, for the fact dat a woman isn't a virgin doesn't make her a prostitute. Let's try to b reasonable please. For me virginity is gud but not all in life nd I am not a virgin, but I have so many oda wonderful qualities dat my fiancee loves. Thank u