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Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by ezotik: 1:03pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
lol @ the christianity vs science debate. the catholic church in nigeria are bloody hypocrites. so because it is now scientifically possible to know ur genotype, they are demanding for test before marriage. but what is not scientifically possible, they leave it to faith. it is not scientifically possible for a man given birth to by a virgin to die and rise after three days, and then ascend to the high heavens never to be seen again without being a lost astronaut. but i guess we should leave that to faith? ...yeah right! but one thing i wonder though, how did our forbearers cope with the disease before oyibo man discovered sickle cell gene in the black man barely a 100 years ago? did they also do selective breeding like we have been advised by oyibo? 1 Like |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by ceejayluv(m): 1:07pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
Harpesin: For the records... This is the most ignorant post I've ever read on nl... |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Sweetdoct247(m): 1:23pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
ceejayluv: God will bless u, m still waiting to come across a more ignorant post, in fact ignorance is an understatement, it's pathological ignorance otherwise if the guy had any ability think he Wld know that ss patients in the city r likely to have access to better and specific care aimed at ensuring their longevity and hence u r likely to come across them however in the villages where many of them die before they r 5 due to minimal or even lack of access to quality health care. Hence u tend not to see them around. It's a case of survival of the fittest. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by ezotik: 1:32pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
blogger2tooker: bros, nor be lie and i believe u. after all the same bible that the catholics believe in says, with ur faith u can move mountains. so wetin be common genotype. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Toktee(m): 1:56pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
ACM10:People like you suppose to be lock up permanetely in a mental home cos mentally you are not ok,contribute to topic and stop insult,as for what you worship i dont care to know if you want worship bhuda,idols,or anything i dont care and where you go hereafter iz not my buzzines ok |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by ACM10: 3:33pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
Toktee: People like you suppose to be lock up permanetely in a mental home cos mentally you are not ok,contribute to topic and stop insult,as for what you worship i dont care to know if you want worship bhuda,idols,or anything i dont care and where you go hereafter iz not my buzzines okShould I respond to you in kind? NAH! (((Hits IGNORE button))) 1 Like |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Sweetdoct247(m): 3:38pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
X-factoria: In as much as I agree with u that marriage is firstly abt the companionship (mind u that's just in our opinions, lotta people out there don't feel that way) most married couples want to av children. And in most cases yes that 25% risk is enof reason not to go ahead with it. And u seem not to realize that the 25% risk is every child that the couple brings into this world. ie all, none or part the children can be ss. I've seen a family with 5 children 2 of which r ss and also lost both of em later. A ss patient is a child just like any other but they require a different kind of care. U've never experienced takin care of an ss child otherwise u'd probably av a different opinion. It can be a huge financial, emotional and psychological stress on all the family members yes not just the parents and the child. It can even threaten the companionship u seem to be going on and on abt or push it to a distant background. Consider the facts that A huge part of the family income may have to be directed towards keeping the child alive especially in a nation like ours where most families r struggling financially. The frequent hospital visits which nobody likes This child may not be able to do a lot of things his/pairs do for fun as many of those tend to trigger crises, u might have a hard time making the child understand that and that may even do things to him/her psychologically especially if the parents r not really understanding. What of the other children who might not even be able to cope with the issue of their seemingly weak bro/sis whom they might even think is getting more care and attention from daddy and mommy Truth is the list goes on and on, buh the meat of it is that unless u r absolutely sure u don't want to have children AS/AS marriage isn't advisable no matter what companionship or love u seem to be enjoying. Yes SCD children can live a normal life buh most families just cant afford to give em that life It requires the kind of understanding which most parents don't have considering that the enlightened ones will avoid having to go thru that anyway. Places on the family a kind of stress that might be hard to cope with And whether we like it or many of em still die despite care and all causing the family grief. So NO SIR! This issue is not overrated at all. It's a serious matter. I blv Google is everybody's friend maybe u shld try reading abt people's experiences or even interact with people around u that have experienced it and then really decide if it's overrated really 2 Likes |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Sweetdoct247(m): 4:01pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
blaise26.abj:It shall be well with u. This caps it all up. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by blogger2tooker: 4:19pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
Sweetdoct247: It shall be well with u. This caps it all up. NO IT DOES NOT! |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Harpesin(m): 6:36pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
ceejayluv: Why not make your own proof and lets see....Am talking of what i know and sure of....You people just subscribe to what Oyinbo brings witot finding out how it come to be....can you tell me the causes of SS Genotype....Mr 2know.... |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Ideevic(m): 9:00pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
Pls check ur Genotype b4 u tie knot. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by mamasy: 9:11pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
pls pls and pls... dont try it ,,, my mum is AC while my dad is As.... we are 4 children 1st male= ss(dead) 2nd female= ac 3rd male=AA 4th female- ac plssss, i beg u dnt again.. my father hung himself when my elder brother died, thank God for intervention from people that came in early enough. few years later, nothing pleased my parents, dey were always at loggerhead on who caused d death of my brother. ther was never peace in the house as they kept blaming themselves as to wondering what went wrong. i kud imagine what they went through, no matter d so called unconditional love u claim u have for ur spouse, d love will fade cos ull keep feeling the loss. and it becomes more painful if ur knowledgeable and still turn deaf ears,,, why would u want to abort a child in the first place when u kan as well avert it,, God didnt bring us to suffer in this world thats y he made AA for AS or AC and not AS for AS. dont force ur self to love, ignorance is not an excuse. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Safari29: 12:39pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
3 years gone and I still miss her dearly, no one can never be like her. I love you Abeebat and I wish you the best in ur new home. May Almighty Allah grant me my heart desire. believe me if it had happened now I wudnt give a darmn about the outcome. past three years had bn terrible. I struggle miserably everyday but cudnt find anyone to fill the vacuum u created. Am tired and I regretted ever parted ways with you. U are the one i will always miss I love u Abeebat Adebambo 1 Like |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Abali1(m): 7:05am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Safari29:It's well. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by pearlruth(f): 6:55am On Jun 24, 2016 |
Hy guys. Am AA and my fiance is SS. Is the chances of us getting married and living a happy life much. I just want to know. I love this guy very much and he loves me too. |
Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by Oluwatosin27(m): 1:28am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Both of u are ok. U can get married, am an ss patient and am sure of what am saying. Everyday I pray to God to bless me with a lady that will love and accept me for whom I am. So pls u don't have to worry. |
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