ITbomb:
No dey invoke my spirit anyhow, you already know say I belong to the team #testbeforemarriage
Find my honest opinion here www.nairaland.com/1838042/men-doesnt-love-having-sex#25134207

If I hear!

angela98: I don tell u. Na women affair..

Stop being stingy nau.

glitest:



No luv, I'm not in Lagos.

I wish big mummy glitest and daddy glitest a blissful life together as they celebrate 33 yrs of love, my regards to them o and don't forget to send my invitation.

andromida:

I am sure if she does her research she will even come up with natural supplements she can use.

Huh! natural supplements like opa eyin,ale,afato,Jedi e.t.c these extracts don't work except to make u poo.

Elebiju: Huh! natural supplements like opa eyin,ale,afato,Jedi e.t.c these extracts don't work except to make u poo.

I read somewhere some stuffs that help ease anxiety for the man so he can last longer. Can't remember the name of the book make she do research.

Danhumprey: Stop being stingy nau.

hey Danny..OK which part u like hear..

andromida:



I read somewhere some stuffs that help ease anxiety for the man so he can last longer. Can't remember the name of the book make she do research.

but I thought anxiety is distress or uneasiness of mind caused by fear of danger, the man's prob is his notion about sex which she has to correct, sex during courtship is different to sex in marriage infact sex.u.a.l compatibility matters before and in marriage or what do u think?

Elebiju: I wish big mummy glitest and daddy glitest a blissful life together as they celebrate 33 yrs of love, my regards to them o and don't forget to send my invitation.

Thanks love!!!...We are doing a mini celebration, by eating out this evening; then we will celebrate their anniversary, as a form of thanksgiving in church on Sunday, #2...No invitation luv....Its just @ 33rd wedding anniversary... That will happen in 2 years time by the grace of God.

Elebiju: but I thought anxiety is distress or uneasiness of mind caused by fear of danger, the man's prob is his notion about sex which she has to correct, sex during courtship is different to sex in marriage infact sex.u.a.l compatibility matters before and in marriage or what do u think?

Really? sex during courtship is different from sex in marriage?

Sexual compatibility matters in marriage not before.

I really think she should talk to him and let him fix his anxiety she cannot do it for him which is why i suggested spiking up his drink whenever she wants to go wild.

angela98: hey Danny..OK which part u like hear..

The juicy/raunchy part. I mean,the touching of nípplès,and you know......

andromida:

Really? sex during courtship is different from sex in marriage?

Sexual compatibility matters in marriage not before.

I really think she should talk to him and let him fix his anxiety she cannot do it for him which is why i suggested spiking up his drink whenever she wants to go wild.

why are u emphasising on drink spiking? hmmmm I fear you o.

Elebiju: why are u emphasising on drink spiking? hmmmm I fear you o.

Healthy spiking sha. He sef will like it.

glitest:

Thanks love!!!...We are doing a mini celebration, by eating out this evening; then we will celebrate their anniversary, as a form of thanksgiving in church on Sunday, #2...No invitation luv....Its just @ 33rd wedding anniversary... That will happen in 2 years time by the grace of God.

ahan! I'm already at ojota now about to board a bus to ib.

Elebiju: ahan! I'm already at ojota now about to board a bus to ib.

Ehh??....Do you realize that most of the bus drivers are my friends sha?....Just mention "Glitest", if they don't get it...then mention " sugar babe"( more discrete);..I promise they'd let you in for free...Infact, they'll drop you right I front of my palace, and treat you like a boss that you are.

glitest:


Ehh??....Do you realize that most of the bus drivers are my friends sha?....Just mention "Glitest", if they don't get it...then mention " sugar babe"( more discrete);..I promise they'd let you in for free...Infact, they'll drop you right I front of my palace.

Lol. Don't send the guy on a wild goose chase,biko.

Danhumprey: Lol. Don't send the guy on a wild goose chase,biko.

Haba now!!...Stop been jealous....I want him to come and see how I live my life...Party galore....I want him to witness's how I spray the money left, right and center

glitest:


Haba now!!...Stop been jealous....I want him to come and see how I live my life...Party galore....I want him to witness's how I spray the money left, right and center

Ha! You wan make him come taste-the-money/testimony?

Let him slow down a bit when thrusting,could also engage his brain in something different during the act#like counting from 100 to 1#some abdominal exercises can also help

glitest: Buy some Viagra pil



I don't think you'll want to continue describing your husband as "homely"; It has a totally different meaning....Its not what you think it is.

thanks for d suggestion. But any future health complications from its use?

glitest: Buy some Viagra pills at a pharmacy or online....Its a blue pill that helps with getting it to stay up .



I don't think you'll want to continue describing your husband as "homely"; It has a totally different meaning....Its not what you think it is.

thanks for the suggestion. But please do you know if it has any long term effect?

lordeasy: @angela, ur suggestion is quite....off d mark(forgive me if my assessment seemed impolite). She z asking for suggestions as to hw her man can last longer in bed(since he z a 3-min man) and nt abt hw she can "satisfy" him in bed
. She seems a lot more experienced(sexually) than her hubby.
@britneyspice,you nid to lovingly and tactfully talk to him and express ur concerns,then go(u and hubby) arrange an appointment with ur doctor or a sex therapist(some medical doctors act in both capacities thou). He/she will give medically sound suggestions as to hw he will last longer in bed(and not d alomo and oda herbal mixture thingy wey pple dey always use indiscriminately without sparing any tot to future health implications)
Happy married life gurl

Thanks Sis . As I said earlier he feels very guilty and ashamed each time I try to discuss the issue with him. This makes me uncomfortable bringing up the issue anymore with him. I hate to see him feel or look that way. That's why am seeking alternative ways of helping him. Don't know exactly how to get him to agree to talk about it to a stranger if he feels this uneasy with me his flesh and bone.

Encourage him to pull out when he begins to feel the excitement mounting.
A break in the process when orgazm is almost at hand can delay ejjaculation and help him last longer when he continues again.

The key is for him to be able to control the initial surge of excitement.if he can,problem solved. He's a novice like you said,so I'm sure he'll get better with time.

Or get a soft rubber ring(available in sex shops) and wear it at the base of his peni5 before insertion. It will prevent ejjaculation and he can last until you cum,thereafter he can remove it and...

Hope it helps

You are the one to arouse the lion in him.

Don't you have fingers, don't you have a tongue ?

Take charge. If you ride him, he cannot come in 3 mins when his back is lieing on the bed...

Danhumprey: Ha! You wan make him come taste-the-money/testimony?

Yes now

glitest:


Ehh??....Do you realize that most of the bus drivers are my friends sha?....Just mention "Glitest", if they don't get it...then mention " sugar babe"( more discrete);..I promise they'd let you in for free...Infact, they'll drop you right I front of my palace, and treat you like a boss that you are.

okay make them come destroy my face qbi?

glitest: Buy some Viagra pills at a pharmacy or online....Its a blue pill that helps with getting it to stay up .



I don't think you'll want to continue describing your husband as "homely"; It has a totally different meaning....Its not what you think it is.

thank god am dam strong dear. abi na lie?

sameer1212: thank god am dam strong dear. abi na lie?

Ha!!!....I don't know oh.

Elebiju: okay make them come destroy my face qbi?

No!!!...Haba now...They are my homeboys now.

BritneyStacy: thanks for the suggestion. But please do you know if it has any long term effect?

Sorry, but I'd suggest you do some research of your own, before you decide whether to get it or not.

glitest:


Ha!!!....I don't know oh.

u dont no

BritneyStacy: Thanks Sis . As I said earlier he feels very guilty and ashamed each time I try to discuss the issue with him. This makes me uncomfortable bringing up the issue anymore with him. I hate to see him feel or look that way. That's why am seeking alternative ways of helping him. Don't know exactly how to get him to agree to talk about it to a stranger if he feels this uneasy with me his flesh and bone.

I get ur point Sis. In conservative societies such as d one we live in(nigeria), a lot of men feel it z a bruise on deir egos if deir significant other bring up dis issue. If I may suggest, pls let it slide for now. Bringing up dis issue to him as regularly as u two make love WILL hurt his feelings. May I state at dis point dat yl sex is an important component of marriage, der r A LOT MORE to a successful marriage than sex.Concentrate on and strengthen oda aspects of marriage(going out for walks, going out for picnics, visiting funs spots, PRAYING TOGETHER, studying d bible together, doing housechores together and oda areas of interests that u too love doing TOGETHER). If he sees and recognises dat u r playing a huge role in solidifying d marriage, he will have no oda choice dan to reciprocate d gesture by making u happy in bed as best as he can. He will open up more, take up advice from u abt d less-dan-satisfactory sex life. It isn't as easy as I v stated sha. Pls pls and pls, DO NOT NAG HIM abt ur sex life. U don't wanna give him d impression dat for u, sex (however impt it is) is d ultimate feel-good factor in marriage.
Cheers

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