temigracie: yeah,it s very possible...depends on ur determination (d female syd)....mutual agreement (u cant force it)....love (it must b dere).....ability to withstnd pressure n tempatn (as in real temptatn).....finally n most importntly wen u thnk of d benefit dere-in.....u ll scale thru....i ll just advice u to let me knw abt ur plan..make him understnd d reason behind it...if he loves u..he ll undastnd

True talk sis... Well said

have sex with him biko..iz nothing..stop starving ur bf...*Now Playing Maving Gaye SEXUAL HEALING* sing along. why wud i be in a relatinship without sex self?? naaa!! boi..gime dat !!

..i wrote dis tipsy!!! i aint liable 4 statements read here

I guess u should've told him @ the beginning.

There is no satisfaction anywhere, if you ain't ready for sex avoid dating

ITbomb: There is no satisfaction anywhere, if you ain't ready for sex avoid dating

Can i ask a question, i have been seeing if you are not ready for sex avoid relationship. What if you are old enough to get married, but do no want to have sex until marriage, should you stay off relationship as well.

Its best to remain single until you are ready rather than indulge in something you might regret. Just my thought#

AngelJennifer:

Can i ask a question, i have been seeing if you are not ready for sex avoid relationship. What if you are old enough to get married, but do no want to have sex until marriage, should you stay off relationship as well.

would u rather be with someone who doesn't share your views instead? If you are ready to get married then i think he would understand if you ask for a lil patience. That's if he really wants to marry you though.

AngelJennifer:

Can i ask a question, i have been seeing if you are not ready for sex avoid relationship. What if you are old enough to get married, but do no want to have sex until marriage, should you stay off relationship as well.

If you are very sure that the person you are dating is really serious about marrying you both in words and actions (seeing your parents and not just saying it), AND YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN, I don't see any reason for you to keep hoarding the v .

I would answer this personally, I would never marry any girl I have not slept with and if necessary is already carrying my baby. These days when girls take all sort of chemicals as contraceptives and destroy their body then claim born again and prevent the husband from knowing the sad reality until after marriage is really scary.

Each man for himself though. Selah

ITbomb:
If you are very sure that the person you are dating is really serious about marrying you both in words and actions (seeing your parents and not just saying it), AND YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN, I don't see any reason for you to keep hoarding the v .

I would answer this personally, I would never marry any girl I have not slept with and if necessary is already carrying my baby. These days when girls take all sort of chemicals as contraceptives and destroy their body then claim born again and prevent the husband from knowing the sad reality until after marriage is really scary.

Each man for himself though. Selah

I get it, but not all girls claim born again just because they have lived a slutish life before. Some actually started from childhood. And as regards the vaginity issue what if the girl was abused as a child, and despite that never had premarital sex, would you still insist. You know in some cases it is a thing of the conscience as regard to waiting till marriage. For instance watching nude scenes at times makes me feel guilty. So please dont judge eveyone based on the way some girls behave.

AngelJennifer:

And as regards the vaginity issue what if the girl was abused as a child, and despite that never had premarital sex, would you still insist. You know in some cases it is a thing of the conscience as regard to waiting till marriage.

If she was abused as a child or a virgin, I would gladly wait till marriage but if she had been doing it before, (God save me) I might even insist on her getting pregnant first.

Sweetheart, I have seen friends and relatives who are desperately waiting for an issue years after marriage (one, I was even the bestman). The wife bitterly cried that she has not done any abortion in her life and her womb was confirmed ok, but later after much, she reluctantly admitted that she used to take pills regularly before being born again.
So my dear, no church or conscience would stop me from making sure I'm walking into happiness and fruitfulness. I know God can perform miracles but he had already blessed us with wisdom to make right decisions.