Ujujoan: I don't know why people are attacking OP and asking her to go ask her relatives and friends. How proper will it be for her to do thhat? And even if she did, how many of the culprits will actually admit such a thing to someone they know? I think the anonymity of Nld is the reason for this thread.

But of course, just like Lofty keeps insisting, even the anonomity here will not permit any man to admit to such insanity.

Bottom line, better safe than sorry. I'd rather err on the side of caution.

I'm sorry to say this but to me, EVERY man (except her Father) is a potential risk to my daugher. At 2yrs +, she ceases to every appear before ANY MAN naked. No more running around without under wear, no more wearing short dresses without leggings, no more running about naked in the house whenever we have male guests.

I'll also advise all mothers to do the same. It's a terrible world we live in now, and whether they admit to it or not, we don't lose anything by being extra cautious.

pickabeau1: Aisha2
That is not the origin of all men cheat lingo
It is a transition occasioned by traditional polygamy to Christian monogamy
Its not about weak minded men.

aisha2:

No matter the origin I am against generalisation. If someone cheats he should be bold enough to own instead of hiding under "I do it and its not only me ALL men do it too" same way "I was caught stealing but I am not the only theif" we sing here. My point is individuals should take responsibility for their actions and own it instead of attempting to drag others into their mess

pickabeau1:


Interesting...

pickabeau1:
Having an idea of the origins will ensure the context is understood. one cant make statements without taking into cognisance the cultural nuances.
As more women get empowered, spousal settlement for divorces and child maintenance gets entrenched in our nation, indiscriminate sleeping around will be minimized. Its only a matter of time
It just does not excuse personal responsibility

aisha2: Planes crash yet even our own dana is back flying with full capacity.

Accidents occur everyday yet our roads are as busy as ever.

One sicko comes to say everymany has an ere-ction when he sees a child suddenly all men are beasts or potential beasts lock up your daughters.

Its very good to be careful and proactively protect our children but the examples I gave before shows that even though we are careful and try to protect ourselves we dont lump all cars and planes as potential killers or automatice killers why now lump men as sickos because one man insist every man does it? Is this nothow every man cheat anthem started? And now young men with no direction are adopting it, Young women with no self esteem are accepting it. If we give any credence to this man soon this too will become acceptable. We should all be asking the guy to go get help instead of allowing him to transfer his sickness as a responsibility, curse and another steorotype to already steorotyped and battered Nigerian men. Haba.

When you tell people Peter Odili is faithful to his wife they will almost slap you and insist its impossible because they have already bougth the all men especially rich men must cheat lingo now this.

Ujujoan:

You dey find word for my mouth abi Na u know . . .

But seriously, he's had 2yrs+ to abuse her if he would, so I would say that makes him trustworthy!!!

pickabeau1:

No....


However Pedophilia has existed since time immemorial.
What has changed is the ease of dissemination of pedophilic content n the anonymity provided by online networks


They exist everywhere...n are in their millions in the west

What they have over us is the have sex offender register n quick prosecution

carefreewannabe:

How did you arrive at these numbers again?

beeevan: Lofty admitted what so many of them will never admit, a thought is different from the deed. A lot of them do think that way, mind you I used "A Lot", not all.



If a lot don't think that way, kids won't be molested on daily basis.

pickabeau1:

Your opinion

pickabeau1:


Which numbers

pickabeau1:

No....


However Pedophilia has existed since time immemorial.
What has changed is the ease of dissemination of pedophilic content n the anonymity provided by online networks


They exist everywhere...n are in their millions in the west

What they have over us is the have sex offender register n quick prosecution

carefreewannabe:
X x

pickabeau1:

I'm not ready for back and forth with you like we did on the child custody thread..let's cut to the chase
What do you think so I can counter that promptly

carefreewannabe:

There is no back and forth. I just want to know where you got the numbers from.

pickabeau1:

Google..

Thats what I asked what is your counterpoint

carefreewannabe:

I have no counterpoint. Can you please show me the statistics ? I am very interested in this topic.

pickabeau1:

Which topic...

I don't have the time now.. You can use a search engine yourself

pickabeau1: Different posters..same opinions

Not different from what we see around this forum

All/Most/Lots of males are bad; my male family members are good.

carefreewannabe:

If you don't have the time now, maybe you can find the time later to show me where you found the numbers you told us about.

SAMBARRY: I can't even leave wura with any of her uncles alone without me being there (my brothers) with the way things are turning up side down every day

pickabeau1:


No problem...

People's views are shaped by their experiences

SAMBARRY: True