1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband
is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home -
placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and
trousers - lacks wisdom, and know this for sure that
"MEN DOES NOT ONLY WANT SEX, THEY NEED IT
ALWAYS FOR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL STRENGTH
AND STABILITY" that's how God created them and we
cannot question God.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband
simply makes a fool of
herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace
through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be
eager to run away from office to be at home, for that
should be the safest and coziest place on earth for
him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking
advantage of such equality to turn around and
become the de facto head of the home and oppress
the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you
destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an
empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that
feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the
head actually turns to wherever the neck wants
without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends'
influence and advice or even from the control of her
mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to choose a
wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide
under the excuse of childbirth to let go of
themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape,
dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people
start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even
though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if
he truly loves her, he should love her the
way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw
people like the present YOU and ignored them and
settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed
smelling of onions and ogiri. You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with
your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know.
But looks enhance
love and marriage. There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person being
disfigured by an accident. Please don't be
complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking
like you were when he first saw you and began the
chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down
with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a
joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important
to you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need
to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a
stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent
and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the
mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer,
sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to
wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win
all arguments, does not call the man a "useless
man", is not careless about her looks or dressing,
always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the
man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and in
deed?
Now That you have read this,
please SHARE to educate others.
They need to read it too, don't be selfish. Good
morning

List everywhere...

You guys are hell bent on making marriage a sinister contract.

^^^ You dont have to assume that people know when actually they dont. That's why it is very essential to read wide to gain knowledge. Some people only know what they see other people do. That is why one should tell his/her future spouse what behaviour is expected of them after marriage.

Number 7 actually scared me away from a lady.

Too attached to her family. I didn't really understand.. Actually she is living with them now though in her own apartment..

Most people fail at marriage because of lack of maturity which is not a factor of age..

Also most ladies approach marriage with a, "What to gain", mentality. They see marriage as an escape from poverty, start of my dream life, a means to perpetual happiness and you pick those words from their careless everyday conversations.

Marriage better be a contract than one party keeps misbehaving to the detriment of the relationship..