There is a survey that is floating around that says that the more men that women sleep with, the less likely that their marriages will be successful. I believe there's some truth to it, but I wouldn't say it's absolute or that it's a general representation. Take that for what it's worth.

>Cococandy< if I may get you right, it's of no doubt that sexual responsibilities applies to both parties buh I think much emphasis shld be placed on d female folks... Okay lemme use this to make a stance... Nature allow men to accomodate ladies depending on how capable dey are.. Am I d one dat made it so ? HELL NO.. Have you ever wondered why God Himself placed a label to indicate the authencity of a lady so as to know if she's been defiled or not ? Did God ever placed any label to indicate if men have been defiled or not ? Am not in any way tryin to say men were licenced to Bleep up and down oooo but at least, the aforestated points shld ave given you an insight that so many restrictions were placed on ladies in dis area

PStevenson: There is a survey that is floating around that says that the more men that women sleep with, the less likely that their marriages will be successful. I believe there's some truth to it, but I wouldn't say it's absolute or that it's a general representation. Take that for what it's worth.

That survey is wrong sir and it's not really applicable. My only fear with such type of girls,ladies or women is that any slightest opportunity,she can still easily play a sharp runs without anyone noticing.

tosyne2much: eeeeeehya u av so much tried broda... May God rewards ur patience with a good lady

Amen . And you too. Thanks a bunch.

Eyop:
na wa ooooooh am just so so so sorry for the guy sha but

Yeah, i no av missed a lot of fun like sex et al abi, but i care less about dat to the extent that I had to send 3 different ladies i was in a relationship with away when i realise there filthy motive to lure me into sex.

shegsky:
Yeah, i no av missed a lot of fun like sex et al abi, but i care less about dat to the extent that I had to send 3 different ladies i was in a relationship with away when i realise there filthy motive to lure me into sex.

My laughter had nothing to do with whether you are missing fun of sex or not. Just hoping that you are able to get a good girl when you are ready to settle down.

Eyop:
My laughter had nothing to do with whether you are missing fun of sex or not. Just hoping that you are able to get a good girl when you are ready to settle down.

God's Will , God's will would surely be done .

Eyo I wish the moderators cld jst do us good by moving this thread to FP... It seems our ladies on Nairaland are now on extinction.. If it were to be a normal thread, u would av seen many of them attacking these whose views differs their

That's not correct.
Male and female both come with a covering on their genitaliaa when born.
It is not for any labeling or knowing who's a virgin or not.
It's primarily for protection(supposedly)
But. Men's get removed via circumcision.
It wasn't placed to know anything of such nature.

No body is licended to flirt. You should judge others based on the same parameters you judge yourself.
Simples.

tosyne2much: >Cococandy< if I may get you right, it's of no doubt that sexual responsibilities applies to both parties buh I think much emphasis shld be placed on d female folks... Okay lemme use this to make a stance... Nature allow men to accomodate ladies depending on how capable dey are.. Am I d one dat made it so ? HELL NO.. Have you ever wondered why God Himself placed a label to indicate the authencity of a lady so as to know if she's been defiled or not ? Did God ever placed any label to indicate if men have been defiled or not ? Am not in any way tryin to say men were licenced to Bleep up and down oooo but at least, the aforestated points shld ave given you an insight that so many restrictions were placed on ladies in dis area

cococandy: That's not correct.
Male and female both come with a covering on their genitaliaa when born.
It is not for any labeling or knowing who's a virgin or not.
It's primarily for protection(supposedly)
But. Men's get removed via circumcision .
It wasn't placed to know anything of such nature.

No body is licended to flirt. You should judge others based on the same parameters you judge yourself.
Simples.

you see u aint getting it right.

GoodFaith: "the whole babes on nairaland will be on sabbatical leave"
No babe make comment
I have asked Slimzypink to make comment twice

leaf meeeee uncle faith..

This issue applies to both gender. But i think ladies started it all. I could recall there was a time that havin the priviledge to walk wit a gal is so esteemed dat d guy can day dream. But it all went wrong wen d sugar fathers start knackin our prospective future wives. Cos guys were still hurtlin, ladies start makin guy magas. Now how did d guys repaid dem? Guys became players and sugar coated tongue. A thread on nairaland also shed another light into another cause of guys goin wild. Ladies boldly confess de will neva marry a virgin guy. That, alone is enough to altar ones's moral.(ladies and guys in d context only refers to majority, and not a generalised term)

toby2: This issue applies to both gender. But i think ladies started it all. I could recall there was a time that havin the priviledge to walk wit a gal is so esteemed dat d guy can day dream. But it all went wrong wen d sugar fathers start knackin our prospective future wives. Cos guys were still hurtlin, ladies start makin guy magas. Now how did d guys repaid dem? Guys became players and sugar coated tongue. A thread on nairaland also shed another light into another cause of guys goin wild. Ladies boldly confess de will neva marry a virgin guy. That, alone is enough to altar ones's moral.(ladies and guys in d context only refers to majority, and not a generalised term)

For real brah?

What i cant accept is different d..ks enterin there if is a particular guy combin her even if its 4 a longtime prior to my meetin her its okay with me ,i m not perfect either but this issue is very sensitive to most guys ,i schooled in owerri ,crazy town indeed pls try to know ur girl's past especially if she schooled & also reside there so that ur guys on ur weddin day wouldnt be shakin their heads in disbelief on ur weddin day imaginin how d f... did u choose to settle down with her cos some fit don chop clean mouth self and trust me if u re a correct dude in d town u might get to hear d story somehow but if from d onset she is entirely honest with u ,she opened up to u intially and u still want her then all these stuff i said above wouldnt mean a thing to u at all. There re still some good & responsible ones too not all dey like that o

Op, na u get time 4 dt one. Abi u don join Nigerian Population Census Board dz 1 wey u wan knw d number of guys a girl don sleep wif b4 marriage. Ah swear, U get tym ooo.
Moreover, I hear say dem go bury Dora Nigeria today, Na true?

crudedude:
For real brah?

check the romance section and search for the topic. I think the topic shud have LADIES CAN U MARRYA VIRGIN as title, buh am not sure

Benswaggy: Op, na u get time 4 dt one. Abi u don join Nigerian Population Census Board dz 1 wey u wan knw d number of guys a girl don sleep wif b4 marriage. Ah swear, U get tym ooo.
Moreover, I hear say dem go bury Dora Nigeria today, Na true?

egbon no be so oooooo... Sometimes we jst av to learn frm poooo

okparaugo: Funny thread.

It makes no meaning.

The important thing is once you don marry, stay faithful.

I met a very promiscuous girl and converted her to a very faithful lady. Travelled for 5 weeks, she couldnt do anything while i was away. That's the spirit needed for relationship and marriage.

Correct guy!

Daresh:

Correct guy!

I knw dats wat u wanna hear... Something dat wld be far frm d truth..

shegsky:
My guy, the funniest part is that they wil later form holy holy for any church gathering you find them. And they also prove hard if u make an attempt to woo . Haaa, JESU Ku suru .

It's actually so sickening to see,hear and observe,imagine taking time and years to keep off only to discover that your wife's worse than a perforated basket....

1miccza:

It's actually so sickening to see,hear and observe,imagine taking time and years to keep off only to discover that your wife's worse than a perforated basket....

1miccza:

It's actually so sickening to see,hear and observe,imagine taking time and years to keep off only to discover that your wife's worse than a perforated basket....

I cant just imagine it . Our ladies av forgotten that The most beautiful
girl in 1960 is an old woman today; nobody reigns forever.

repogirl:

What kinda stupid thread is this. :\

NickiRoman: What kinda stupid thread is this. :\

And what makes it silly?

NickiRoman: What kinda stupid thread is this. :\

why wont it be a silly thread to you. Chweeee

NickiRoman: What kinda stupid thread is this. :\

u shall know dem by their comment wen the thread is unfovoruable to them

shegsky:
why wont it be a silly thread to you. Chweeee

Na their type don rock up to 102

shegsky:
why wont it be a silly thread to you. Chweeee

u dey mind her ni? I wonder how many male species don ..... her * u are supposed to knw wat am talkin bout *

Eyop:
Na their type don rock up to 102

kai, there is God o.

tosyne2much: u dey mind her ni? I wonder how many male species don ..... her * u are supposed to knw wat am talkin bout *

sure one nah,

shegsky:
kai, there is God o.

E be like say the figure dey fear you .. Well that's the truth as that's very possible. There was a lady(in her early/middle 30's) i met on facebook and we exchanged contact and commenced communication. So the correspondences got deeper and she was requesting i come down to Abuja since all we were doing was exchanging pics so she couldn't bear it any longer.

She wanted to come down to Lagos,i said she should hold on . So we were more intimate and comfortable with each other so she threw the question: Once you commence a relationship now,how long will it take you to get married? I answered 4 or 5 years time ,the babe exclaimed Lord have mercy !!! i asked what's the problem and she said she thought it will be in 6 months time that 4 years is too much ooo and even 2 years sef na wahala and wat am i waiting for,immediately i sensed the desperation so i had to gradually withdraw.