are u even sure of urself? dats d 1st question u shud b askin urself. u seem confused.

Well i ll only advice u to leave the girl alone cos u ll end up breaking it again and again.

@ poster, well done boy. I THINK I HAVE TO BREAK SOMEONE'S HEART AGAIN AND AGAIN. JUST FOT THE FUN OF IT.

It sounds like you are considering getting into a relationship with your ex again and she is feeling pretty scared about it. It's normal that she feels this way when you had emotionally abused her in the past. From what you are saying, it sounds like she feels it's a pretty emotionally risky situation. When we are hurt several times by a person, trust is affected in the relationship. It takes time and commitment from both people to rebuilt trust.

You may need to give her some time to really think about this before she makes a decision. I'm hearing that you broke up twice when you were together. Sounds like you were on an emotional rollercoaster, which can be very draining and exhausting. Has the relationship ever known a good amount of peace? Or has it only known drama?

It would be important to set some boundaries with each other if you went ahead with the relationship. Boundaries are about what is okay and what's not okay. They would need to be things you both agree on. Boundaries are also a good way of working out what expectations you both have for the relationship.

I wish you good luck.

actions speak louder than words!!! act attentive, be calm and dontpush, pray, if it is Gods will it will be done!!! God controls, not us, good luck, but please u scar each time you break up, it kills a piece of the heart!!!

Story story,

Actions speak louder than words. N ur words r hurtful. Show her. N be patient but don't give up if u truly love her. Anything worth having takes work.