It has been passed through generations,
various customs and traditions have
intereped and deseminated it in various
ways…..Everyone or should I just say
every man has this notion deep within
them…Women are complex….difficult to
please and impossible to understand.
References are often made about how
difficult it is to understand what’s on a
woman’s mind. This may be true when it
come to deciding what clothes to wear for
an event or when deciding which
prospective suitor to pick. But when it
comes to relationship(one they are happy
in),it pretty simple…. they want
commitment…assurance that they are not just
some play tool or another trophy to show
off to the boys.....Unfortunately there is trend I have noticed about our young men these days....they seem to be more committed when chasing a girl than they are once in the relationship.
Men…especially the
younger ones seem to throw in more effort
at ‘getting’ the girl than they do once they
get her.
Its like all the seriousness and love
dries up the movement they
eventually get into the relationship and the
poor girl is left bemused at what might
have gone wrong with her sweet charming
prince. Often times the girl is left frustrated
and hurt some other time she sticks on and
attempts to resurrect the prince charming
she fell in love with. .
So, how do you tell if the man is truly
serious about you? Fortunately, there are
certain signs that could be used to decode
the man’s behavior. .
1. NO GAMES
Now if a guy is serious and see a future
in the relationship with you, he doesn’t
play games. When he makes plans with
you for the weekend, he sticks to them.
He doesn’t torment you by saying one
thing and doing something else. He’s not
cold one instant and warm and
affectionate the other. If your man
makes a special effort to be honest and
open, that’s a sign of his commitment to
the relationship. When a man plays mind
games, it’s typically because he doesn’t
really care, or because the relationship is
casual for him. B.
2. HE WANTS TO KNOW THINGS
ABOUT YOU
A guy who is serious about you-will
definitely want to know things about
you…He’ll asks you questions about
your childhood, your job, parents, etc.
He is genuinely concerned about your
career and asks you about your plans.
Your hopes and dreams even your
fears’. .
3. HE CALLS JUST TO HEAR YOUR
VOICE
If your guy really cares about you, your
voice will sound like sweet music to
him…..he’ll want to hear your voice
always…He’ll call you sometimes for no
reason. Even if you’ve met not too long
ago, he’ll call you after he reaches
home, just to make sure you got home
safe. This behaviour is typically
displayed in the first few weeks of the
relationship, when everything is new and
exciting. However, when you realize that
he still calls you just to hear your voice
and it’s been about a year since you
started going out, you should know that
he’s serious about you. .
4. IF HE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL.
If he’s always punctual, he’s definitely
into you. When a man is serious about
his girlfriend, he will ensure that she
doesn’t have to wait for an hour at the
bus stop.
He says he will pick you up for dinner
and 8 p.m. and calls around 7.55 p.m. to
tell you he’s stuck in traffic and will be
15 minutes late, he’s respectful of your
feelings. He won’t ever have you hanging
around the park for half an hour before
he shows up. Most girls constantly find
themselves waiting for their boyfriend’s
phone call, or for him to pick them up. If
you find yourself one that is punctual
and respectful to your feelings…that one
is a keeper. .
5. HE LISTENS WHEN YOU TALK
Think this is just cliche?…..Nope it’s
entirely true……It take true love for a
normal guy(especially the younger ones)
to listen to what girls what to say.
If you boyfriend really listens to you and
not just passive listening if he gives his
full attention to you each time you’re
sharing something with him, he really
listens to you…..You have long chats on
the phone and he hangs on to every word
you say…..Jackpot babe…the dude is
damn serious about you…hold on to that
one. .
6. WHEN HE WANTS TO DATE YOU
EXCLUSIVELY
Ever had a guy that suggests you have an
open relationship?…..If you’re still with
him then you need your head
examined…….that is the height of un-
seriousness and un- commitment.
If your guy is serious about you ans sees
a future with you, he makes sure
everyone knows it. He is faithful and
expects fidelity from you too. He makes
sure everyone knows that he’s your
boyfriend, not only because he doesn’t
want random men hitting on you, but
because he wants to send a clear signal
to all the girls that he’s taken. .
7. HE IS TRANSPARENT ABOUT HIS
ROUTINE
He let’s you in the know about his daily
routines…..You know he’s in the gym in
the morning and reaches work at 9 AM.
You know that if he doesn’t take your
call in the afternoon, he’s probably in a
meeting. If he’s missing for a couple of
hours, there’s always an explanation
that’s credible. You have never
wondered, “What could he possibly be
doing now?” or “Why hasn’t he called
me?”...................................................................READ FULL ARTICLE http://lifestimulus.com/?p=2472

..Guys are good pretenders

..Guys are good pretenders

temigracie: ..Guys are good pretenders

I thought it was the other way round...

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