When does it become cheating when you flirt and gets flirted with online with members of the opposite sex? I am not talking about chatting with your ex or someone in your life whom your partner is not aware of, I mean just plainly chatting to someone you met online?

It is cheating when you create threads about marrying some1 you dont even knw.

says who?

@poster:
Depends on the boundaries set in the relationship. In some relationships, flirting with anyone (online or in person) is considered cheating while in others its not,

Talk to your partner,

@ Poster

Interactin with other women online is cheating, it's disrespectful to you're partner, it's ok if you're a single guy. Flirtin hurts when it's found out. Flirting can be harmless as long as you and the person you are flirting with knows its harmless fun, then it's all good. Not so good when the other person you're flirtin with takes it more seriously than it's intended. As you know feeling is one thing we have no control of. Online flirtin is like a bait what happens when you catch something on hook? You are obviously gettin an emotional pay off by goin online to seek out females to feed your ego. Do you need your EGO stroked badly enough to jeapordize your relationship. You are flirtin because it boosts your self-esteem, sooner or later you will take the flirtin to the next level.
I ask you what do you consider flirting? you're callin it *flirt* you and I know it's cyber sex, but you don't want to call it cyber sex (bad dog, you) so you call it flirtin. I think you need to look at the intention behind the flirtin *cyber sex*. What is the point of flirtin when you have a long term partner. Instead of spendin time flirtin with someone online, put the time and effort into what you already have with your partner. Flirtin it is disrespectful to your partner and dishonest to those you are flirtin with. Flirtin means you are interested in knowin them better. Just let them know you have someone you're into.
Go flirt with your partner or do her a favor and leave her, you already have emotionally. Do unto others as you would have done unto you.

sista-jay:

@ Poster

Interactin with other women online is cheating, it's disrespectful to you're partner, it's ok if you're a single guy. Flirtin hurts when it's found out. Flirting can be harmless as long as you and the person you are flirting with knows its harmless fun, then it's all good. Not so good when the other person you're flirtin with takes it more seriously than it's intended. As you know feeling is one thing we have no control of. Online flirtin is like a bait what happens when you catch something on hook? You are obviously gettin an emotional pay off by goin online to seek out females to feed your ego. Do you need your EGO stroked badly enough to jeapordize your relationship. You are flirtin because it boosts your self-esteem, sooner or later you will take the flirtin to the next level.
I ask you what do you consider flirting? you're callin it *flirt* you and I know it's cyber sex, but you don't want to call it cyber sex (bad dog, you) so you call it flirtin. I think you need to look at the intention behind the flirtin *cyber sex*. What is the point of flirtin when you have a long term partner. Instead of spendin time flirtin with someone online, put the time and effort into what you already have with your partner. Flirtin it is disrespectful to your partner and dishonest to those you are flirtin with. Flirtin means you are interested in knowin them better. Just let them know you have someone you're into.
Go flirt with your partner or do her a favor and leave her, you already have emotionally. Do unto others as you would have done unto you.

Swear if you have never done it before, me see it as a case of kettle calling a pot black - hypocrisy is not good.

tumfulu:

Swear if you have never done it before, me see it as a case of kettle calling a pot black - hypocrisy is not good.

R u Kagiso Lediga or Al Murray, by any chance?? Just wondering o,

@ Tumfulu

Oh, you know what they say TRUTH hurts, in your case its *OUCH*. Now get off line and pay attention to your long sufferin woman., she needs LOVE, stop wastin it on cyber love/sex. Keep it real baby!

Come on . . .thats just being exstreme . .its just harmless fun, . ,

sista-jay:

@ Tumfulu

Oh, you know what they say TRUTH hurts, in your case its *OUCH*. Now get off line and pay attention to your long sufferin woman., she needs LOVE, stop wastin it on cyber love/sex. Keep it real baby!

Too much love is your problem, honestly speaking.

ebumowa:

@poster:
Depends on the boundaries set in the relationship. In some relationships, flirting with anyone (online or in person) is considered cheating while in others its not,

Talk to your partner,

This is exactly what i would have posted.

tumfulu:

Too much love is your problem, honestly speaking.

You think so? hmm I wonder, too much love comin from you. . . . . . that can't be bad. The more you give the more I want. Keep it comin baby!

I sincerely think this whole thing about flirting/chatting depends on d parties involved.if they both see it as something dat begins & ends on d internet,then it won't be rite to call dat flirting.Yes,It may actually serve d purpose of boosting one's ego & whiling away time.But I do not think dats cheating at all.
I also think d issue of CyberLove is a purely different idea & does not apply here at all.

duh!

kind of