cococandy: It is called obsession.
You hate something but can't stop mentioning it.
Funny thing is you rarely see feminists start the F word banter. It's usually the anti-s who won't let anyone read a line out of a paragraph without stumbling on the F word.

Yea that's new F word
To hell with the former F word

njokusboy:

The point is dat articles like this paint a terrible image of Nigeria...
Ask the lady above you how many of these things her parents told her...

thandii1:

even after educating him, he's still displaying his ignorance proudly.

By the way, if anyone needs to have over a thousand mentions in a day, the person should just open a new handle -feminist\feminism. The rate at which this word is being mentioned here in this section is insane. I thought if you don't care about a movement\ideology, you ignore it? But not with the folks here, they hate feminism so much they dream, eat, and breathe it. They just can not resist the urge to mention it inappropriately on every thread.

Loosen up boys, at least pretend to enjoy it since it was written by a man, sorry a feminist-man .

Nice article anyway, made me laugh a lot and yeah, many valid instances.

Take for example rape, no matter the circumstance, some beasts in the society still find a way to remind the victim she brought it upon herself with her provocative dressing, some say leaving home as early as 6.00am to fend for yourself (and in most cases family) is an invitation to be raped. For a 6year old, it could be that she is lying against the rapist, and for an 18 year old, she wanted it, if not she could have fought the rapist and escaped.

EfemenaXY:

What's terrible about it?

Isn't this what you expect your ideal woman to be?

cococandy: It is called obsession.
You hate something but can't stop mentioning it.
Funny thing is you rarely see feminists start the F word banter. It's usually the anti-s who won't let anyone read a line out of a paragraph without stumbling on the F word.

Yea that's new F word
To hell with the former F word

EfemenaXY:

Coco, which one be 'F" word again?

njokusboy:

The point is dat articles like this paint a terrible image of Nigeria...
Ask the lady above you how many of these things her parents told her...

Dygeasy: That is what makes up the 'EXAGGERATION' in the definition of SATIRE.

Don't be a spoiler. Just flow

Dygeasy: Apparently FEMINISM

njokusboy:

That's not how my sisters are or my girlfriend or anygirl I know....
Is dis how your father told you he wanted you to be??

carefreewannabe:

Not articles like this but the people who are the inspiration for such.

njokusboy:

No I won't, forget the English... most people won't care about it... people who don't stay here would automatically assume dis is what happens in Naija..

EfemenaXY:

Ah! My bad...



Oh?

So you're saying you expect the women in your life to be the exact opposite of what we have here from the narrator?

njokusboy:

njokusboy:

No I won't, forget the English... most people won't care about it... people who don't stay here would automatically assume dis is what happens in Naija..

carefreewannabe:

Sorry for intervening but if anyone who does not live in Nigeria reads what many people fabricate here on NL, this article would be Nigeria's minor image problem.

njokusboy:

So we have a Lotta image problems, including those fabricated by pple like you who havnt been here since you spelt your name... why encourage this man to add to them

njokusboy:

No I won't, forget the English... most people won't care about it... people who don't stay here would automatically assume dis is what happens in Naija..

njokusboy:

So we have a Lotta image problems, including those fabricated by pple like you who havnt been here since you spelt your name... why encourage this man to add to them

EfemenaXY:

C'mon. You can't sit on the fence. That's unlike you. You're either for or against.

So which is it?

carefreewannabe:

It's a free world brother.

EfemenaXY:

Coco, which one be 'F" word again?

njokusboy:

I am against what that man stated...

The average Nigerian woman takes charge during sex, atleast, I havnt met any who didnt... Even if they didn't, it's prolly cos they shy not because they were warned against it by their parents...

EfemenaXY:

I don't think she's encouraging him in anyway.

Most if not all, of what he's written is true anyway. Afterall, hardly a day goes by without some teenage nit-wit posting on here: "10 ways to be a good wife"...or..."How to be a submissive woman"....or even "Why Nigerian men treat women badly"...like it's some badge of honor.

Dygeasy: Guy!!!

Wetin na?

cococandy:

You don't know the old F word that musn't be mentioned in full?
You must be old school

Well feminism has taken it's place.
To avoid giving some ppl high B.P,henceforth use the F in it's place.



_#trolling

carefreewannabe:



Mind your language young lady

EfemenaXY:

Sex is just one of them, but since you mention it tell me this:

If your girl tells you exactly what she wants, how she wants it, and what you could do to improve your technique, you telling me you won't look down on her with the mindset that she's been around?

And would you have a rethink of marrying your fiancee if she's way better than you in bed?

njokusboy:

I see, you are stating what you think...

I LOVE EXPERIENCED WOMEN... I don't fancy the idea of telling a woman what to do in bed.. if she helps me improve my skill, I'd thank her...

If my fiancee is better than me in bed, isn't that a free ticket to heaven? How is that a bad thing??