My girlfriend and I started dating some months ago. l met her when i picked her purse and returned it to her with everything inside still intact. I guess that aroused her interest in me and we became friends, meanwhile she was in a serious relationship before i met her. As days roll by we became close and she started visiting often and on, then one thing led to another we started having sex. i remember all those times she will be in my house and the boyfriend will be calling her, she will lie that she is in her gf's house. sometimes she will tell him she's traveling home and she will come to my place and spend weekend. I was enjoying the whole thing then, feeling like one bad sharp nigga, never really cared because i was just having fun. eventually we fell crazily inluv with each other, she had to break up with her den bf and we started dating.
Now we are dating she has started talking to me the way she used to talk to her ex bf den on fone, i might call her now and she will tell me shes in her girlfriend place or she travelled home like she used lie to her former bf in my presence. The few times i ve investigated i found she told me the truth about her whereabout.
The problem is that i find it difficult to trust her because of the way we started and is damaging my relationship with her. How do i trust her more? How do i stop monitoring her? Ur suggestions are welcomed

What goes around comes around

Break Up with her or Give her Space.

It really takes alot to build a Trust.

TrollMan: Break Up with her or Give her Space.

It really takes alot to built a Trust.

homie i ve thought of that, that wont be easy for me.

Your story is same with mine, bt u jst need to b sure of her love. The fact she does all these to her ex doesn't mean she wl do it to u. Mine then even makes woman looks shameless to me bt nw, I trust her wt d last drop of my blood. It all started last year ending and nw am planning to engage her cos av met wt her parents. Jst try trust her n stp monitorin her

Just a matter of time...

@OP
the r/ship was built on lies, your girlfriend is a deceitful person and a cheat, and yet you are here asking how to trust such person?!
you cant AND shouldnt...... obviously!!!! she might not do it to you (now) but the mere fact that this is the type of person she is, is the problem.
when the oportunity will come knocking, know that she will take it. only thing that is needed is the proper reason to cheat.

if she could do it with you, then she could/would do it with another. its plain and simple.

before entering into anything,b sure u can handle it.....u saw it, enjoyed it while she was lieing to her ex, and now u are complaining!


what goes around comes around.

U can neva trust dat kind of lady merely looking at how u snatched her from her ex

You just have to trust her or you let her go. The fact that she did it (with your encouragement don't forget) to her ex doesn't mean she will do same to you. You will only drive yourself crazy and even harm yourself in the process if you keep monitoring her.

call d girl nd tell her everything that u av in mind...luk at her reaction,d way she ansa u,nd if she is mad at u nd she said she is tired of d relationship plz...let her go

KARMA IS A BITCH.