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He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 9:07pm On Sep 15, 2014
I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by lirusehn(m): 9:11pm On Sep 15, 2014

anti dis is very simple.

He's got mouth same as you.
If he doesnt wanna say it why dont you help and shortcut the long path?

It's glaring u love him

undecided

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by destante(f): 9:13pm On Sep 15, 2014
the answer is in your question. you friendzoned him already.

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 9:15pm On Sep 15, 2014
lirusehn:
anti dis is very simple.

He's got mouth same as you.
If he doesnt wanna say it why dont you help and shortcut the long path?

It's glaring u love him

undecided

wont it make me look cheap ?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by solomonbrown64: 9:15pm On Sep 15, 2014
destante: the answer is in your question. you friendzoned him already.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 9:16pm On Sep 15, 2014
destante whats a friendzone ??
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by philantoxx(m): 9:17pm On Sep 15, 2014
just tell him already.no long tin.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by destante(f): 9:19pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: destante whats a friendzone ??
Lol how do I explain?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by rawpadgin(m): 9:20pm On Sep 15, 2014
since he doesn't want to ask u out while don't u ask him out?
the most important thing is that u guys eventually go out on a date

it doesn't matter if u use rope tie goat, or u use goat tie rope, want matters is the goat did not run away

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by ERCROSS(m): 9:20pm On Sep 15, 2014
And pls what did u gurls mean when u said "he hasn't asked u out"..
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 1one: 9:24pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?

Have you shown him any "green light" ?

If you have... How many watts?

100watts?

Or

Just

The dim half current 40watts type

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by lirusehn(m): 9:25pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson:

wont it make me look cheap ?



to be sincere i can't answer this cuz it all depends on the guy's level of maturity besides, it's not until u open ur mouth and tell him. Ur actions alone can speak a million words.


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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by ERCROSS(m): 9:27pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: destante whats a friendzone ??

destante: Lol how do I explain?

It means treating a guy as a friend even after he's shown interest in d lady...
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 9:29pm On Sep 15, 2014
i cant be friendzoning him, could i ?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Charles4075(m): 9:31pm On Sep 15, 2014
1one:

Have you shown him any "green light" ?

If you have... How many watts?

100watts?

Or

Just

The dim half current 40watts type
. True talk bro... LMAO. Maybe the guy saw the 3 lights on Green, Yellow and Red.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by neutrotoba(m): 9:33pm On Sep 15, 2014
Don't ever make the mistake of asking a guy out, if you eventually date, he won't have any atom of respect for you. Moreover, such a relationship won't last anyway. (Am a guy, trust me, I've been there) you can however push him to ask you out by requiring him to do so in no obvious manner... Lesson for another day

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 1one: 9:35pm On Sep 15, 2014
Charles4075: . True talk bro... LMAO. Maybe the guy saw the 3 lights on Green, Yellow and Red.

gringrin grin
Very true.. Let's wait for her to come and clarify grin
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 15, 2014
Your post is starving of intel.

I don't know You.

I don't know your Friend.

Where should I start?

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 9:37pm On Sep 15, 2014
neutrotoba: Don't ever make the mistake of asking a guy out, if you eventually date, he won't have any atom of respect for you. Moreover, such a relationship won't last anyway. (Am a guy, trust me, I've been there) you can however push him to ask you out by requiring him to do so in no obvious manner... Lesson for another day

so what do i do ?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Tallesty1(m): 9:45pm On Sep 15, 2014
Rape him
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Tymax(m): 9:52pm On Sep 15, 2014
This is how that guy will be sleeping on bycycle when another guy will take this babe away. I don't like dull guys like this. angry

OP, you know what? Make it obvious a little, be lively around his friends too. I'm sure they will drum it into his dull skull.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by neutrotoba(m): 9:55pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson:

so what do i do ?
Be the best friend to him that he'd wish you're his girlfriend, Hold his hands, share long gazes with him.... Give hime every reason to believe that when he asks you out, he won't be rejected because it might be the fear of rejection that is holding him back.

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by MabraO: 9:57pm On Sep 15, 2014
He has t asked u out
But definitely asked u in?
Indirectly he don ask u now
Wetin u want again
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by mcdreeezy: 10:00pm On Sep 15, 2014
Do the 'asking out' by yourself and damn the perceived consequences
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 15, 2014
Have you even considered that he might not really want you as a girlfriend, but loves you great just as a friend? Is he showing any sign of wanting you, like staring when he thinks you're not looking, how many times do you catch him staring at you? It's only when you're sure he actually wants you that you begin to ask why he hasn't made the move yet. Not all male friends ask their female friends out, guys are also great as just friends and not boyfriends. And please don't ask him out yourself.

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by motab(m): 10:05pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?
We have known each other for years now yet you havent been able to show enough GREENLIGHT. I dont read minds you know
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by am0s(m): 10:06pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson:

so what do i do ?
leme hep u....
...
..
plan a day when he is very hungry nd u can feel it from where u her.....
jez call him or anyway i guys talk nd ask if hes hungry.....(guys no get two ansa..if he likes u)
...
..
dnt ask him favourite food..bcoz galz lyk diz dumb question..( guys dnt av favourite food.....although dey may not like some food)
prepare a nice foood for him...tell him u av a surprise for him....u supose fit finish where i dey go...

....
if d guy no show sign dat day....dat means u shud take him to go see a doctor..
dnt tank me .....,.wot r frends for

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Agybabe(f): 10:13pm On Sep 15, 2014
Distant yourself from him, if he doesn't come asking "why?", know that he doesn't even want you.

On a second note, you may not even be his kind of lady. No offence sweetie.

Maybe he is the one who friend-zone you.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: i cant be friendzoning him, could i ?
Lol @ friendzoning
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Sep 15, 2014
Agybabe: Distant yourself from him, if he doesn't come asking "why?", know that he doesn't even want you.

On a second note, you may not even be his kind of lady. No offence sweetie.

Maybe he is the one who friend-zone you.
Ur head dey dere, u got dat

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by EltemmyraySeun: 10:31pm On Sep 15, 2014
rawpadgin: since he doesn't want to ask u out while don't u ask him out?
the most important thing is that u guys eventually go out on a date

it doesn't matter if u use rope tie goat, or u use goat tie rope, want matters is the goat did not run away

See analogy!
If he doesn't ask u out, continue as friends till he get to his senses, we're not in US joor.
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by dre11(m): 11:27pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: i cant be friendzoning him, could i ?


U mean to say he did friend-zone u.....
That's the koko

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